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    Dizzy But I don't want you...

    So theres a security man at my club and we've been flirting at work to make the slow day shift go by faster. But I think its going way to far.
    How to I approach the subject with out seeming like a bitch? Like how to do it without stepping on anyones toes.
    I don't want to be charged down by any of the dancers because of it.
    And I still want all him to respect me and walk me out to my car, help with creepy/touchie customers and everything.

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    Default Re: But I don't want you...

    I may sound like a total bitch for saying this but a bouncer is not a customer and you shouldn't be flirting with anyone that isn't a customer " to kill time". You could've chatted with him in a friendly manner without leading him on. I really don't know what to tell you because you admit that you were flirting with him, he didn't hit on you outta the blue.
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    Default Re: But I don't want you...

    What do you mean that it's going too far? As long as it's confined to the club a casual comment about how you've been slacking and really need to focus on your hustle or something similar might suffice. But Gia is right... be cautious about this kind of flirting because it ends up in awkward situations like this sometimes.

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    Default Re: But I don't want you...

    Stop wasting your damn time- you could of been flirting with a customer.Time is money. Even if a customer doesn't want a dance from you, flirting might of changed his mind or got you a drink.

    And I don't think you flirt with the bouncer to kill time- that's BS.

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    Default Re: But I don't want you...

    I agree , don't mix business with pleasure. Never!! Now that you've been scolded, act as though nothing has happened, words are words, and back off. Limit conversations only to club talk. You're probably not the only dancer, he's flirting with, bouncers (like any man) usually try to get as much play as possible.

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