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    Point blank $1 dollar, won't make pay her bills, props for her trying, but it's not her forte.

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    I'm a great believer in ambivalence. It's okay to feel multiple things at the same time that are in conflict, though I suppose I rarely walk around feeling simply "happy" as a result. But ...

    I think a part of you can feel something as one human to another; it's easy to put yourself in her shoes and realize a few dollars given would have gone a long way. But at the same time, to feel that she has to make her own way through life and you can't save everyone, and leave it that, move on and enjoy your entertainment time. The others are correct. Competition is part of life. Some deal with it and do, some don't. Life is often sucky for those who don't.

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    An additional tough thing is she got completely naked even though no one was at her stage. Maybe this is something she just wanted to try; maybe she was copying her friend, who went first and drew scads of people (because she was hot). But it didn't attract anybody to stage -- probably just the opposite.

    So to see exactly what the deal was, I made my way across the club and stood a few feet from her stage. I studied her intently the way you'd study a subject at the zoo. After staring for 2 songs, I figured out people likely weren't coming to stage because she was unattractive, so I made my way back to my seat.


    (The preceding paragraph is a work of fiction).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    An additional tough thing is she got completely naked even though no one was at her stage. Maybe this is something she just wanted to try; maybe she was copying her friend, who went first and drew scads of people (because she was hot). But it didn't attract anybody to stage -- probably just the opposite.

    So to see exactly what the deal was, I made my way across the club and stood a few feet from her stage. I studied her intently the way you'd study a subject at the zoo. After staring for 2 songs, I figured out people likely weren't coming to stage because she was unattractive, so I made my way back to my seat.


    (The preceding paragraph is a work of fiction).
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    Quote Originally Posted by hot4ablackchick View Post
    If I was sitting in the tiprail, I would have felt bad for not tipping, as I would give every girls at least a dollar. I would never go up to the rail and tip a girl if she was unattractive, I don't care how shitty her night was going. There is a difference when dancers are "not your type" vs fat and ugly as hell. I hate to see fuglies getting tipped better than I do, so I wish more custies ignored the fuglies. It seems the fuglies are getting rewarded for their fugliness at my club.
    This made me laugh. I think it made me laugh because I briefly worked at a club with fuglies. I'm talking very ugly and very fat dancers. I mentioned this club in a previous thread because it was so unreal. There were about 5 decent looking dancers and the rest were real fuglies (imagine Rose O'Donnell being one of the better looking dancers).

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
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    Yeah, I saw that and just decided it was better to not respond at all. Got a big from me.

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    ^ At least I wasn't the only one lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    ^ At least I wasn't the only one lol.
    Make that three of us.

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    A swing and a miss. I guess the interwebs is not always the best means of communication.

    I didn't go up and stare at the ugly dancer. It was a joking presentation of what someone with shitty social skills might do.

    Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain.

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    Not everyone is meant to be a stripper. A customer shouldn't be guilted into giving a girl money who shouldn't be stripping.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    A swing and a miss. I guess the interwebs is not always the best means of communication.

    I didn't go up and stare at the ugly dancer. It was a joking presentation of what someone with shitty social skills might do.

    Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain.
    I advise heavy use of the smilie bar in the future.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I advise heavy use of the smilie bar in the future.
    Well silly me thought saying it was fiction would do the same thing.

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    ^ The way it was phrased made it sound odd. Like you might just be saying you were kidding to avoid getting flamed. The paragraph was a bit too long to come across as a casual 'just kidding' kinda thing. It just didn't translate.

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