^^^ Sorry, was my language too harsh? I'll try to tone it down next time. Heh.![]()
^^^ Sorry, was my language too harsh? I'll try to tone it down next time. Heh.![]()
If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.
Ye? What else can you do?
Last edited by vmurphy252; 07-07-2009 at 08:44 PM. Reason: Because I don't pay attention to what I'm responding to.




I am glad to see Verf and FBR are having good time.![]()
lopaw only 0.001 percent of the population get the right answer which is d. I want your brain and your other body parts. It pisses me off that you like women and I can never have those bits![]()
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.




50mph is way too slow for this age and time. They got trains that run at 200mph in Japan.
I have to disagree also as it has my experience that women are primarily interested in men as providers. Which is why I hate them and prefer to only have short term relationships with them.
After not hitting any clubs in a couple months, I ended up in one in Pittsburgh and had a great time with a skinny 20 something who was much more fun than my current fling, so I'm going to dump her early.
I'm thinking that the only contact I want with women for the rest of my life is in a Pay for Play scenario, as it is much cheaper than a wife or a girlfriend both in terms of money and stress levels.
I've come to the conclusion that men in LTR's with women are damn fools, Except if you need one for domestic chores, which I do not. LOL









Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
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Summary : "I'm a sexist because the other half of my species won't give me exactly what I want so I'm gonna throw a TT and hate on them"... Yea, the essence of sexism right there. Yea, and also... pretty much ridiculous since we need the other half. I guess I'm one of the rare crazy people that thinks the tensions between the sexes is a GOOD thing. It pushes us to change, to grow, to not just think about what we want. Like, without it, we'd just be veggies (aka plants with no drive). Just a crazy thought though.
Or honesty.
Hey, real life relationships are not all 'we just get exactly what we want' only. Turns out not only do others have their own wants, but men and women often want different things. Some can cope with that tension, and some just can't.
But outright hating because others want different things? I could understand him saying he doesn't feel a relationship is worth the effort required. Fine, not super mature but at least it would be an acknowledgment the limitation lies within himself.
But it's the projection of hate on to the other half of the species that is bothersome. And unfortunately common... to hate on others who are different is also (I think) the basis of racism and just a general level of immature "I want what I want and if you don't give it to me, don't behave strictly in the way I want, I'm gonna hate you!" Common though.
"I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."
^nothing, woman! Be quiet and go fix me dinner.
"I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."
What makes you think I wasn't serious?
Oh, yeah. Cuz it's a ridiculous attitude.
For the record, I would never say such a thing. I've stated that I don't need anyone to make me dinner, clean or plan social engagements. I handle this all on my own. Which is why women like me at first. But since they don't listen to what I tell them they act all surprised when they find out I'm not down for the provider role. I'm a true feminist, you're equal now, get out there and be equal.
Like when the stripper from Pittsburgh asked me why I was single and I told her I'm not down for LTRs. She asked why, I'm like "you don't wanna know".But we spent about 2 hours together so she eventually got it out of me. I told her the usual, all my friends at best tolerate their wives or girlfriends (some of the women have no idea of the contempt her bf/husband has for her) I told the stripper if you can find a guy that likes being in the provider role you should love him like no other, because every guy I know HATES the role but they put up with it because they're weak and or incompetant at domestic duties. And some actually wanted Kids (although these men are rare, most just do because it's what you're supposed to do, pathetic IMO)
My misogyny is not an immature knee jerk reaction to something that happened to me. I've been rejected and I've rejected, I'm fine with it. My hatred comes from observation and experience. Women just don't bring much to the table, but bring a whole host of liabilites, especially if they have children.
I think women are kidding themselves if they think men who feel like me are in the minority. Who do you think is consuming all that violent pornography?
For me the strip club is the ultimate STR, I get what I want and never have to see them again. So I see it as win, win.![]()
Last edited by commanderadama; 07-08-2009 at 12:09 PM.
If it helps, I think you can adopt misanthrope instead of misogynist.

Well most of guys don't bring that much to the table either if you think about it. So I guess your basically saying you don't want to share your financial resources with a woman which is fine, though I still don't get the need to be misogynistic about it. Can't you just be neutral? Like the vast majority of guys are not my friends because they have nothing of interest to offer me. But I don't hate them, I just don't care or think about them.
Second point, my SO works. I've always ended up attracted to women that want to work. So if your issue is fair/equal, they exist. However that said, sure, a lot stay home too during the years their children are little, well.. YOUR children if they are yours. It is a difficult job and what we did for many years is she watched them 5x a week while I worked, then switched roles for 2, she worked, I watched them. Honestly I'm not sure but many days the 2 were more draining than the 5. Add in house work, meal preparation (kids MUST eat even if we could skip it), generally being supportive, and that is a whole LOT more brought to the table then I share with any guy friends.
I supppose we guys would love it if they worked full time, took care of our children full time, the house, fucked us, and did it all for $5 allowance, and they would love it if we did all the house work, took care of our kids, gave them the entire paycheck keeping $5 for ourselves, and so on.... then there is a healthy expectation in the middle where both parties do bring a lot to the table. If bacon is your key concern find one who works and split the other duties. Simple. But there are other trades couples make that work well too.
Maybe you just don't like women because psychologically you don't and the rest is justification?
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