This is kinda long. I apologize. I just need to vent and I can't vent to my husband... he won't get it.
Ok, so I had a reg that came in all the time and was really cool in the beginning. He tipped me well, and seemed like a real sweet guy and it was fun to hang out with him. He's a biker, and Im into motorcycles and shit so it was fun. I gave him my number so that I could tell him when I was working and everything (he's the first and only custie I ever gave my # to and trust me he'll be the last). I was a little bit apprehensive about this, but like I said, he was cool in the beginning. I was always really happy to see him because he totally made the dead nights better. Things started to get weird though. He started calling or texting all the time, he stopped tipping me as much money, and started pulling the "I wanna meet you OTC" bull shit. He also started to ask overtly sexual questions which made me uncomfortable. I'm married, so this behavior doesn't fly. I also had concerns that he was actually stalking me (like ran my plates and knew where I lived and stuff based off comments he made). I let it go for too long (I admit it) because I was still trying to get money out of him, but once it became obvious it was out of control I started to pull away from it. Anyway, one night I did a dance for him and he started crying! I didn't know what to do. It was obvious though that he needed to stop being my customer because he no longer was just a customer in his mind. I happened to leave that night without saying goodbye to him (not on purpose) and he absolutely flipped. He called me literally half a dozen times in the space of 3 min. He would call, I wouldn't pick up, it would go to voice mail, and he'd call right back. This was the final straw. I texted him the next day and said this was completely unacceptable and to please stop texting or calling me. When I didn't hear from him for a week I thought he had understood. Then he started texting again, he's sorry, he understands why I'm mad and blah blah blah and would I be willing to meet him out for coffee so he could apologize. I didn't respond. I had nothing to say, and I certainly wasn't gonna meet him for anything. He came in tonight, saw me and texted me to find out if he could buy me a drink. I said no (I was also with another reg that spends A LOT on me - without being weird - so I wasn't about to walk away from him for someone that would just bring me drama). Then he asked if I'd as least let him apologize. I said he didn't need to. Then he asked if we could still be friends. I said we never were friends. He was a customer, and he can go on being a customer, just not one of mine. Then he practically cried to one of my friends that I was ignoring him and how bad he fucked up what could've been a great friendship.
I know I did the right thing, I just feel bad. I mean, I had no other choice, and I wasn't an uber bitch, but at the same time I'm annoyed that I'm left feeling bad.
Thanks for reading. I'm not even necessarily looking for any feedback here, I just needed to vent.






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