last night a female customer ran out of the club crying because she thought i was in a domestic violence relationship after seeing a bite mark on my arm while i was on stage.
Her friend called me over and told me that she thought i was being beaten and forced to strip. I laughed it off of course, but she was quite upset about it and nothing i said could convince her otherwise.
I'm not in a DV relationship my partner and i play-fight almost constantly and he bit my arm to get out of a bodylock i had him in leaving a rather impressive bruise.
but it left me pissed off for the rest of the night to think that in this day and age someone is still holding on to the stereotypes pushed upon them by the media.



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The worst that ever happened to me was when I was giving my cat a bath (he's long haired ok!) and he stuck me with just one claw on the back of my shoulder. Well instead of looking like a cat scratch it looked like a gross bruise. I knew I should have covered it up but I didn't think it was a big deal. The fucking manager of the club pulled me aside and asked if I had been in a fight. I was like what? And he said the bruise on my shoulder looked like I had been shoved into a wall. Now, in my mind I KNEW that I should have lied about how I got it, because who would believe the TRUTH. But being me, I told him the truth, and said it was a cat scratch from giving my cat a bath. LOL even though it was the absolute truth I didn't even believe myself when I said it. It sounded like a lie. I mean, who gives there cat a bath anymore. And he said, Well it doesn't look like it! And I should have explained that it was more of a puncture wound from one claw, but I just shrugged and let it go. I figured it just sound even more like a lie the more I tried to explain it. 
It has a double benefit of the guy not trying to push my boundaries in a lap dance, as well.


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