Well about 3 weeks ago I was at a restaraunt/bar with a friend of mine for happy hour. She recently had a baby so her tolerance level is WAY down..
Anyways, she calls a group of guys over about an hour into our visit..they were bombed. Ugh. And they were creepy. There was 6 of them and 2 of us.
They all sat down around our table and I was not liking it. I got up to use the bathroom and when i came out one of the waiters(not our waiter tho) was sitting at a table by the bathroom and he said "so when are u getting married?"..
He was referring to the guys who were swarming us. So i laughed it off and said "you should feel sorry for me'...
Anyways I kept trying to catch his eye as he was working and at one point i mouthed "help me".. after a little while he came over and slipped me a paper that said "text me so you dont kill yourself, haha". So we began texting back and forth.
A little while later my friend got sick so we had to leave ASAP and i didnt get a chance to say bye to the guy.
But we have been in contact almost every day since.
We talked on the phone one night for about 2 hours.
He is workiing as a waiter/bartender right now, he just finished up college(hes 25) hes gonna be a phys. ed teacher..
So i know from our talks where he went to college and being a facebook spy, haha i was able to find him on there. he has a girlfriend(i wasnt shocked). he never told me he had one but i never asked him anyway.
The weird thing is that we have been texting/talking but hes never asked me to hang out. I usually let the guys approach me so this is different since i had approached him. I figured since we spent alot of time getting to know each other that he wanted to see me (sleep with me at the very least).. i didnt figure he just wanted a platonic phone buddy.
Its hard to read him tho. I dont think hes shy.
We flirt, but its never anything over the top.
Im not sure exactly what to do. Could he really just wanna be "friends?"



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