Hello ladies,
I know that I don't post often (even though I have been a part of SW for years), but I really need your help in this situation.
So, I have been with a man for the last two years. He's married.... I know, I know....I met him in the club. I am very picky, it takes alot for a man to woo me. But he did and it worked.
Regardless, as I began to fall more and more in love with him, he offered to take care of me (around month four). As I hated my job in the club (it wasn't working there so much, but my joints were aching and hurting), I took him up on the offer. It was wonderful for the first year. He was loving, sent me messages all day, called me often, etc.
And, in such a fabulous way, we had the best sex of our lives.
In the last month, he has become much more distant. Not calling as much, texting as lovingly, ect. He has blamed it on work so far. As a woman, my gut as been telling me otherwise. I have asked him to be open.....even if it is something wrong with me, i want to know.
The thing is, I am an open and honest person. I expect and try to demand this out of relationship.
Anyway, I am at a loss as to what to do. He has put me in a position of dependence, something that I am really not apt to as I have always provided for myself.
The past few days, I have been trying the whole "not calling thing". So that he worries about me, I guess
Essentially, I need to know what to do. I love this man, more than anything, But, I must demand respect for myself. I have been walked over a bit too much for my comfort.
I don't really want to go back into sex work.... if i must, I will. But I would prefer to be independent and in a regular occupation. What should I do? Is there a way to make him fall back in love with me? Or is there a way to regain my independence?
Thank you for all of your help. Please give me your sexy woman goodness and confidence...I've forgotten so much of it with my time away from the club.



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Clearly being with a married man is a sign of being an open and honest person. I know you're used to the cushy lifestyle, but you need to get off your lazy butt and reevaluate your life and your views on things.





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