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    Default Got a Lapdance and the girl put her number in my phone (at her request)

    So yea this happened,....was with a girl I wasn't really pursuing for a dance or tipping that highly, she sat and talked to me for like maybe 10 mins.

    She asked me for a dance then, I said maybe later, she dances on stage, comes back and says now?

    I say ok, and BOOOM.....

    nude dance in a topless only bar, wants my phone to put in number, and texts herself to have mine.

    What do I make of this?

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    Default Re: Got a Lapdance and the girl put her number in my phone (at her request)

    I'm thinking she's a 4 or 5 and you're a 7 or 8 as this happens to me all the time as I'm a 6 or 7 and 3 to 5's hit on me all the time no matter where I'm at.

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    She's gonna try to turn you into a regular. Watch, you'll start getting notifications about when she's working.
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    Default Re: Got a Lapdance and the girl put her number in my phone (at her request)

    Quote Originally Posted by tbones View Post
    What do I make of this?
    She's going to call you and ask you to come see her at the club. She now knows your number so if you try to call her once and ask her anything other than when she is working again she will stop answering when you call.

    maybe I'm too jaded....
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    She likes you enough to want to make you her regular... but, don't get smitten by her...

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    She's going to call you and ask you to come see her at the club. She now knows your number so if you try to call her once and ask her anything other than when she is working again she will stop answering when you call.

    maybe I'm too jaded....
    Well he could ask where he should leave the large sack money, and that might get a response. Heheh. j/k
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    Default Re: Got a Lapdance and the girl put her number in my phone (at her request)

    Dont know why people are over complicating this. Sounds simple, she likes you and wants to meet you outside work, if you're hot that is.
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    Default Re: Got a Lapdance and the girl put her number in my phone (at her request)

    I agree that she's going to try and turn you into a regular. I see girls do that all the time, though usually they're not the ones initiating a phone number exchange.

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    Default Re: Got a Lapdance and the girl put her number in my phone (at her request)

    Yeah...I mean it's pretty obvious she's not looking at you as a potential friend/boyfriend. She would've spent more than 10 minutes talking to you. Girls are desperate for regulars these days, and even if she only got your attention (enough to make you come back and buy one more dance out of mere curiosity), that's more money in her pocket with very little effort on her part.

    I'm not THAT jaded... I mean, if she had spent 2 hours talking to you, I'd be telling you that she might really like you/want to hang out with you. Doesn't seem like it in your case though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    She's going to call you and ask you to come see her at the club. She now knows your number so if you try to call her once and ask her anything other than when she is working again she will stop answering when you call.

    maybe I'm too jaded....
    You're not too jaded.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    She's gonna try to turn you into a regular. Watch, you'll start getting notifications about when she's working.
    I agree. I highly doubt she is into you, but she may want to go out to dinner w/you to further string you along.
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    Default Re: Got a Lapdance and the girl put her number in my phone (at her request)

    OK an update to this post......(some things I forgot to post the first time)

    during the dance we talked about how we both spend most of the year in another nearby city, and she talked about how we should start seeing each other when we are there. Also that I can't be too needy because she needs her space and that "you can't tell your friends that you're fucking a stripper"

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    Default Re: Got a Lapdance and the girl put her number in my phone (at her request)

    ^ Well to be honest when OP's come back with information not included in the original post, it sends up my radar.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    ^ Well to be honest when OP's come back with information not included in the original post, it sends up my radar.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tbones View Post
    OK an update to this post......(some things I forgot to post the first time)

    during the dance we talked about how we both spend most of the year in another nearby city, and she talked about how we should start seeing each other when we are there. Also that I can't be too needy because she needs her space and that "you can't tell your friends that you're fucking a stripper"
    LoL you forgot this the first time? Call me crazy but somehow I doubt it.
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    ^^^ You're not crazy.
    (at least not about this. )
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    ^I might not go THAT far. But she's not crazy in this particular instance.

    EDIT: I don't read no good. Missed Verf's caveat and didn't realize I was repeating. Leaving this here anyway.

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    LoL, thx guys! I feel SOOOO much better now!
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    Default Re: Got a Lapdance and the girl put her number in my phone (at her request)

    Yea, so my meter, which I use to call my bull-shitter-o-meter but now, I just call "meter" cause it's more PC, pegged past 11 ... you forgot that detail... aha... ya...

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    Default Re: Got a Lapdance and the girl put her number in my phone (at her request)

    Quote Originally Posted by tbones View Post
    So yea this happened,....

    What do I make of this?
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    ...full nude, phone, fucking... she was chasing the dragon.
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    She is either a hooker and thinks you're a john OR wants to turn you into a regular. I give my number to guys who spend good money all the time to let them know when I'm working and for them to know when they're coming out or back in town. How dumb are you?

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    Default Re: Got a Lapdance and the girl put her number in my phone (at her request)

    On the one hand, I agree with everyone else here 99%.

    On the other hand, that story is also more than a little familiar, LMAO. And now we're engaged.

    Of course, we talked for a lot more than 10 minutes, I bought a 30 min VIP, and we talked (and I tipped) for quite a while after that, too. And the "in common" factor was a helluva lot more than spending time in a nearby city, lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post
    On the one hand, I agree with everyone else here 99%.

    On the other hand, that story is also more than a little familiar, LMAO. And now we're engaged.

    Of course, we talked for a lot more than 10 minutes, I bought a 30 min VIP, and we talked (and I tipped) for quite a while after that, too. And the "in common" factor was a helluva lot more than spending time in a nearby city, lol.
    DEFINITELY a little more than familiar, eh?

    I was the one that broke all the rules. I went after Almost Jaded HARD - and he called me out on it at first. He was telling me to stop laying the "stripper talk" on so thick, that he already liked me and I could count on him as a regular, blah blah blah. It took his friend he was ATC with to actually get my number in his phone! He was freaked out. So cute.

    That being said, as a girl who's broken the rules and knows from one perspective what it takes to break those rules - I'm with the other girls/guys in this thread. Judging by the info OP gave us, it really sounds like she's trying to make you into a regular. I wouldn't put too much stock in this girl or get your ego all puffy. It's nothing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xdamage View Post
    Yea, so my meter, which I use to call my bull-shitter-o-meter but now, I just call "meter" cause it's more PC, pegged past 11 ... you forgot that detail... aha... ya...

    when I posted the original message I was drunk and posting from my iphone so I didn't make a huge long post. I read the responses today and realized I should have included the later part.

    Honestly the thing that threw me off the most was her telling me not to tell my friends we're fucking. When she started saying this stuff I was like "what the hell is going on"

    as for her, I dunno what number I'd give her, definitely not an 8 or higher........no clue what I'd give myself.......i'd actually like some girls honest ratings on that

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