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    At least a few times a week a customer will give me a compliment and then mention (often multiple times) that I "already know that". For example:

    As I'm dancing for the customer he says "You're so hot" and then "but you already know that, don't know?" or "but you hear that all the time, right?" and then sometimes won't drop it and will repeat "don't you?" or "right?". Worse yet they start pleading a case by saying stuff like "you totally do!"...

    I never know WTF I'm supposed to say to that. Isn't it a retorical question? I always just kind of laugh/smile and say "thank you" or "you're too sweet", but it's like they need to hear me answer them. Sometimes they will even question why I laughed. I always just explain that compliments make me nervous/blush.

    You guys get this a lot? What the hell is it they WANT to hear?

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    Default Re: Do you girls hear this from customers a lot?

    I always just say I appreciate the compliment, and then if they press it, I'll say even if I do know it, it's always really nice to hear, or it means so much more coming from them.

    Im not sure what it is they're fishing for. Some guys (OTC) you can tell are trying to figure out if you have low self esteem bc then you're easy prey. If they make you feel special when you're not used to it then they have a shot with you.

    That same principle doesn't apply ITC, but it still might have something to do with it.
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    Default Re: Do you girls hear this from customers a lot?

    When they say it I just say, "Yeah I do."
    If they get annoying, I ask for money. Like I might say, "If I'm so hot get a dance," or something like that. They either give me money or go away. If they were annoying, it's good I got them to go away.

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    Default Re: Do you girls hear this from customers a lot?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    At least a few times a week a customer will give me a compliment and then mention (often multiple times) that I "already know that". For example:

    As I'm dancing for the customer he says "You're so hot" and then "but you already know that, don't know?" or "but you hear that all the time, right?" and then sometimes won't drop it and will repeat "don't you?" or "right?". Worse yet they start pleading a case by saying stuff like "you totally do!"...

    I never know WTF I'm supposed to say to that. Isn't it a retorical question? I always just kind of laugh/smile and say "thank you" or "you're too sweet", but it's like they need to hear me answer them. Sometimes they will even question why I laughed. I always just explain that compliments make me nervous/blush.

    You guys get this a lot? What the hell is it they WANT to hear?
    I always respond "Sure I do, but I still love to hear it." or "Yes, but that doesn't make it lose its charm"

    That way you're being honest about hearing it, but also thanking them for "making you feel happy".

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    That's pretty good. I just have a hard time being like "WHY, YES I DO". I think I'll just say something like "It's still nice to hear" as suggested.

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    Default Re: Do you girls hear this from customers a lot?

    i just have been saying something like, "really?" like i'm all surprised by the comment, i let this vary on the customer, to just being like, "awwww thank you." like it was the sweetest thing i've ever heard. i've never had anybody really press it with either of those.

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    Yep!! I always just say "thanks, it's always nice to hear" and then try to look cute lol


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    You're so hot, but you must hear that all the time:

    - "Once or twice yes"

    - "It's nice to be reminded"

    - "Are you flirting with me?"




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    Turn it around on them, their trying to shake you up. example....Yes I know I'm hot, and do you want to know what else I know? Then whisper something dirty in their ear to make them forget you know your hot...because OMG the hot chick next to me is such and such.

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    I had a guy come tip me on stage last night and start that shit.

    Then he wouldn't get a dance. He said it was because I was "too hot....but I know it" then something along the lines of not needing a dance from him cause I know I'm hot.

    Ummm, I want to dance for you cause I need money.......not validation.

    Some are so clueless.

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    I just laugh and say something like 'ooooooh never'. Or 'maybe once or twice'....giggle. Turns it into a joke instead of weirdness

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    I get this all the time. I just make eye contact, give a big "awwww your so sweeeet" and then hug them and press my boobs against them and tell them how lucky I am I got a nice guy like him and tell him I hope hes going to stick with me for awhile, I don't want to go back out there with all those other guys. Make sure to have the same look as puppies at the pound. He'll either tell you "of course" or he won't know what to say. Sometimes because I'm so silly and I always make fun of myself for being a stripper (eases the tension), they make fun of my puppy dog face and we laugh about it.

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    you're so hot but you know that already don't you?
    "Of course I do.. but it never hurts to hear it again!" *giggle* or just
    "Awww thank youuu" *huge smile*


    you're so hot, you probably hear it all the time:
    "Yes I do, and now I'm gonna rub off some of this hotness on YOU!"
    (this one is during a dance lol)

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    Default Re: Do you girls hear this from customers a lot?

    aww, think that's cute when they do that. and I say, "I'm a girl, we love to get compliments *smile*"

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    I hated that! If I said, "Yeah" then I came off as conceited. If I say, "No" then I seem insecure. I have no idea what customers are trying to accomplish when they say that. There almost seems to be a sense of jelousy, or hostility to the comment.

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    Default Re: Do you girls hear this from customers a lot?

    Heres a good tip:
    SAY AWWW TY!!! I do get alot of compliments but knowing you think I am the hottest one in the club makes me feel so special/really turns me on!
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    Default Re: Do you girls hear this from customers a lot?

    Quote Originally Posted by Perry View Post
    I hated that! If I said, "Yeah" then I came off as conceited. If I say, "No" then I seem insecure. I have no idea what customers are trying to accomplish when they say that. There almost seems to be a sense of jelousy, or hostility to the comment.
    Meh. The responses people have posted in here are great ways to say Yes without sounding conceited

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    agreed

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    I always answer, 'awww you're so sweet' and fake a blush. I like some of the other answers on here, though... gonna have to steal them.

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    I got one of these tonight-- I just said yeah. I don't know, I don't mind sounding conceited. I sound conceited everytime I try to sell a dance, I just do it with a laugh and a smile.

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