I've been working at my first club for about a month and a half. I have really liked it and become good friends with pretty much ever girl there and really close to a few. I've gotten along well with management and developed a good working relationship with all the managers and support staff. I've worked at a few other clubs but not for more than a night because I've liked the people and the atmosphere here so much... and thought I was liked and respected in return.
Basically the manager working during my shift and all of the girls think that I stole $ from a girl when I did not. There was also a misunderstanding of me taking a girls keys because we have the same keys and they were by my bag-- I gave them back to her and told her what happened but my manager went through everyone's things looking for the $ and didn't want to hear what happened with the keys, just told me not to lie to him. I showed him my stuff and that I did not have the money but he clearly did not believe me, and told me I'm still able to work but that what I said didn't make sense. I honestly did not steal her $ and thought it was my key and I work there enough (6 days a week) and know everyone well enough that I'm angry I'm being accused of it. My closest friend there drove off with the girl who's money got stolen and basically left me out to dry while I was being accused (she pointed out the keys to me when they were by my bag).
I'm really angry and hurt because the people at this club have been my only support after being cut off from my family in the past month. I've given them all my time and never come in late or left a shift early even though many nights I haven't made enough $ to pay the valet. I'm always the girl lending out her stuff, bumming cigarettes, and letting girls borrow my beauty products, I never use a baby wipe without asking first. I don't steal customers from anyone and I don't talk shit. I've had outfits, make up, and money stolen from me many times.
I can go back there tomorrow and work but I know everyone is going to have heard about this and treat me like shit and be super cold and suspicious. I want to go back just to prove to myself I am strong enough to handle it but I don't feel like there's any point in making myself miserable when the club has been dead these last couple weeks and isnt by any means the best club here.. and theres really no way to ever clear my name from what's happened or convince anyone I didn't do it. I'm sure a bunch of rumors will be going around about me now that this has happened, and I'll be blamed for everything that ever went missing.
So it seems like the best thing to do is to move on somewhere else and start over again which I really don't want to do but feel like I have no choice. What is the best way for me to leave the club? Should I tell the managers I'm not coming back or just not come back? I don't want to be shit-talked all over the place or have problems getting hired somewhere else.



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I'm debating if I want to go in, I really the need the $ and it's not like I can audition and work anwhere the night of at a new club and I haven't gone to the others I worked at in so long I know they'll give me shit for turning up out of the blue on a Friday. I just don't want to deal with the bullshit from the other girls, although now I don't even know who's blaming who for the money being stolen (if it even was). I know it will be busy though so I guess I can just go and keep to myself and talk to any guy sitting there no matter how much a time waster he is. 
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