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    Default do u like your boyfriend to come to your club?

    im just wondering everyones thoughts on this subject..do you mind if your boyfriend comes to your club when you work? why or why not?
    mine wants to but im not that crazy about the idea

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    Default Re: do u like your boyfriend to come to your club?

    well mine will not come unless I'm stranded.. thinking that he would leave me there if he wanted to.. Most of the time its not good to have the bf around, you say things and do things that can set him off and you could get fired.

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    Default Re: do u like your boyfriend to come to your club?

    Technically BF's aren't allowed in the club when we're working but no matter how cool a guy is with your chosen profession I can't see him loving watching you flirting your ass off with guys and taking them by the hand off to the private areas/dance booths............

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    Default Re: do u like your boyfriend to come to your club?

    This topic has been revisisted over and over on this forum and the results are always the same. The vast majority of us do not want our guy in the club. It will screw up your hustle and your money.

    Think of trying to hustle when your eyes keep getting drawn over to him. Wondering what he is thinking as you giggle and flip your hair trying to sell a dance. How he will react if some drunk dickhead says something insulting or tries to get grabby. Oh, and he will probably think your stage show is incredibly hot, but you may either get so nervous with him watching you do something stupid like trip, or dance only for him, making eye contact and such and ignoring every other guy, therefore hindering your ability to sell dances later and once again, screwing with your money.
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    Default Re: do u like your boyfriend to come to your club?

    No way. I don't know why a guy would want to see his girlfriend in a club, getting naked, flirting with other men, dancing naked for them in private rooms... that's like going to watch your girlfriend cheat on you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    This topic has been revisisted over and over on this forum and the results are always the same. The vast majority of us do not want our guy in the club. It will screw up your hustle and your money.
    Yep... do a search and you'll find plenty of evidence as to why this is a horrible idea. I never had a BF in my club and never will... it's just plain weird! I'm imagining I would have to just sit with him and not work.. well whats the point of coming to work at all? Might as well go to another strip club and have fun together

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    Default Re: do u like your boyfriend to come to your club?

    I love it when other girls let their boyfriends hang out at work. One less girl competing for MY money.

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    Default Re: do u like your boyfriend to come to your club?

    If you wanted to spend time with him, why wouldn't you just stay home? You're paying to be at work! You're paying to hang out with him and losing money simultaneously!

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    Please don't bring your SO to work. It actually screws up everyone's money. Chances are you won't hustle as well, and other girls will waste time trying to hustle him because they won't know he's your SO.
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    I invite mine in on dead nights towards the end of the night to play a few games of pool,
    But then he hates it when i only spend time with him and points people out to me that look interested. but we have a really weird relationship.
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    yeah i agree with what everyone else said: bad idea. not only for you $$-wise, but it will almost def. cause some jealously issues to come up in your relationship.

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    Default Re: do u like your boyfriend to come to your club?

    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    This topic has been revisisted over and over on this forum and the results are always the same.
    Indeed. I was thinking it might be a new thread with a different angle, but no.

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    I have never brought or let any bf(s) I've dated in the past come to my club except this current one. He was very curious to see my stripper act, would ask a lot of questions since he's not a strip club fanatic - he isn't sure how it's operated. But the one reason I let him come to see me is because he's a very secure guy - he also brought a co worker.. great.. how awkward was that. ahha and I made it clear to him that when I'm there, I'm there to make money so I will keep doing what I normally do.

    He had no qualms as to what I do, when I got on stage, I told him not to come up to my stage - he was the first one to come up to me and make it rain and was joking with me while I was on stage. "yeah girl, show me something" haha therefore encouraging others to come up to the stage and I made really good money that set with the door men scraping my money off my stage for me. It would have been so embarrassing if no one tipped and he had to watch that. lol

    Since then he's joked about a lot of things, no hard feelings - he's not insecure and understands that this is just a job to me and confesses that if he were a hot girl he would TOTALLY be a stripper. So if anything it's strengthened OUR relationships but I can imagine all the wrong turns it could have taken if things went badly.
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    Default Re: do u like your boyfriend to come to your club?

    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    this topic has been revisisted over and over on this forum and the results are always the same. The vast majority of us do not want our guy in the club. It will screw up your hustle and your money.
    ditto.
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    I have a rule. If you like my vagina you don't come in the club while I'm working. Stay home, watch porn and play with your penis if you want, but if you ever want to see my hoo-hoo again you have enough strippers in your life.

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    I used to have my hubby come in sometimes when it was slow, but I'm a better hustler now and I don't think I would have the time to sit with him. Also I agree it would waste the other girls' time because I would be uncomfortable with him getting dances while I was working my butt off to try and make money selling dances!

    We settled on a monthly outing to a SC in the city together so we can both enjoy and splurge.
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    Technically they're not allowed, but when it's slow, I like my man to come in and give me company. Also, he tips me hella on stage!

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    I generally don't like my bf in the club when I'm at work because it's too much of a distraction. I go to work to make money. Having your bf hanging out in your workplace while you're working is inappropriate in any industry. Stripping is no exception.

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    my BF will stop in once every few months or so...but i work in a "Cheers with tits" divey type club. where everybody knows everybody. all the regulars know each other by name...and they sometimes go fishing with the managers and bar staff...my man has been going there since before i worked there. i actually met him there a few years back. he likes coming in when im there...he tips me well...tips my friends (only the ones i like) always sits at the bar. only goes to the stage if im on it...and he likes to tell me what's gonna happen AFTER work. lol fun times. and when he's there, i usually sit at the bar with him and a bunch of Reg's he works with and my dancer friends. never had a problem.

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    Default Re: do u like your boyfriend to come to your club?

    Quote Originally Posted by goreantx View Post
    I used to have my hubby come in sometimes when it was slow, but I'm a better hustler now and I don't think I would have the time to sit with him. Also I agree it would waste the other girls' time because I would be uncomfortable with him getting dances while I was working my butt off to try and make money selling dances!

    We settled on a monthly outing to a SC in the city together so we can both enjoy and splurge.
    If you have combined finances that would suck! Hustling your ass off to give your cash to another girl. Damn, never thought of that one!

    Much smarter to go together where you can enjoy too!
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    Wait, some of you would let your boyfriend get a dance from another girl?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    Wait, some of you would let your boyfriend get a dance from another girl?!
    Yeah, I think it's kinda hot actually.

    Sometimes I feel like a freak, but I haz no big jealousy issues. I mean, do you think your guy is going to suddenly go, "Yeah, I prefer this anonymous hot dancer, so you are out."

    Personally, I think I have more to offer than just looks, so I don't feel like that sorta things threatens my standing in any way. IMO I'm not just a fairly hot chick, but I'm pretty cool and hopefully any guy I'm involved with thinks so too!
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    Default Re: do u like your boyfriend to come to your club?

    oh yeah. i mean, i don't want him coming into MY club, and getting a dance from one of my coworkers, but when we go to the clubs together (or even when he gets dragged by a drunk friend) i don't care if he does or not. it is kinda hot, i'll agree with Princessjas on that one.

    (but after he gets one I WANT ONE. tee hee! )

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    My boyfriend has come into my club maybe two or three times at the very, very end of the night to see me on stage. But then right after my stage set it was last call, so it wasn't like it was interfering with money. I would hate for him to come in during the middle of a shift. I don't think he would get jealous or start shit with a customer cause he's not that type, but I know I would end up spending most of my time with him and not make any money.

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    I wouldn't mind getting a dance while we were out at a club together, but from another girl while I'm working? Hell no!

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