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    Dizzy What to do ?

    Hi I work at a juice bar still pretty new,have questions please answer.
    1.Is it common to make less money working on that time of the month(menstrual cycle)for others as well?What do you do to become more comfortable,and feel more sexy.
    2.How do you schedule your days when your working,i just about always manage to be late.Ill get ready at home and it takes me 1 and 1/2 hours to 2 hours to get ready.seems stupid to ask lol
    3.Do you study as in read dancer articles or any books can you please recomend.Sales books are good as well.
    4.When you just dont want to work what motivates you and helps you to get in stripper mode?Ive got to admit it I got it pretty easy bf pays for everything when it comes to bills.I help him out with a lttle bit of mony like 400$ a month,im cheap.He pays for my phone bill my spoiled Pomeranian.I feel bad I went to a counsler,she just says im depresses because i have anxiety so i take xanex.Had a bad child hood but im 20 now Ive got to live now,let go of the past.
    5.Im known as the top earner in my club friendly with everyone,but I still got the girls who are haters.Ive learned to exept it,so what do you all do agnore them and work thats what I do and it works.Just cant stand the gossiping and lies to coustomers for example telling them im 16!My regular told me that one lol.
    6.Do any of you have boyfriends or girlfriens who are way older then you?my bf is 24 years older people think hes my dad lol but i do look young some think 15-16 lol.Does your family exept?Weve been togather since i was 16 met in nevada.How do you all deal with the relationship especially with the age difference?
    Thank you to any one who reads and take the time to answer my questions honestly

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    Hey Brina182 it sounds like you are doing pretty good so far. When you say juice bar does that mean the club is nude? If so I don't know what to tell you about the period thing. I had mine for almost a straight month from being on the pill and there were a few times I was so glad I doubled up on thongs lol. A house mom once said girls doubled up on jumbo tampons- I never tried it though (sounds scary). A lot of girls swear by dancerwealth- there is a whole thread devoted to it in the hustle hut section. As for getting motivated dressing up and doing my makeup gets me in the mood to dance. Also if I'm having a slow night I figure what else would I be doing and what other job would pay me to socialize and flirt- that keeps me positive. You are definitely on the right track by ignoring catty girls. Suggesting that you are 16 ummm that's just dumb. If rumors like that circulate it can get a club raided or draw unwanted attention from law enforcement. Well your not dealing with brainiacs so just keep banking while they make themselves look like catty bitches lol. Personally I think age is just a number. I've been dating older guys recently it seems to work out better. Men/boys in their 20's aren't always mature. I have guy friends my age they're fun to party with when they can be dragged away from their video games (seriously lol!). Life experience counts more then age. If you are happy with your bf that's all that should matter. If people give you funny looks or don't approve well it's none of their business. I would much rather date a man that was established and ambitious then some of the 20 something guys that have no goals and seem to be regressing every year. Is your family cool with your bf and the age difference? I think my parents would just be happy if I found someone that was together regardless of their age. I used to do the whole bad boy thing but I'm trying to break the habit. The jobless, shiftless drug addicts really aren't fun lol. Hopefully this helps you.
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    Default Re: What to do ?

    Hi I work at a juice bar still pretty new,have questions please answer.
    1.Is it common to make less money working on that time of the month(menstrual cycle)for others as well?What do you do to become more comfortable,and feel more sexy.

    -It doesn't affect my money. Just wear a tampon and shove the string up at far as you can. If that grosses you out you can cut the string but I've heard of girls having trouble getting the tampon out after doing that. It's really not a big deal, if it bothers you that much take the days off but I would prefer to work them and make money.

    2.How do you schedule your days when your working,i just about always manage to be late.Ill get ready at home and it takes me 1 and 1/2 hours to 2 hours to get ready.seems stupid to ask lol

    I decide what time to leave and plan to start getting ready 2 1/2 hours beforehand. It generally takes me about 1.5 hours so that allows me time to fuck around. I finish work at about 4 am every night so if I'm working the next day I try to be up by 1 pm and run my errands and whatnot, planning to start getting ready around 5:30 pm.

    3.Do you study as in read dancer articles or any books can you please recomend.Sales books are good as well.

    A lot you will just learn on the job from trying out different techniques and seeing what works. Dancerwealth is awesome but I would reccomend working for a month or so before getting it. Watch other girls at your club and see what they do as well.

    4.When you just dont want to work what motivates you and helps you to get in stripper mode?Ive got to admit it I got it pretty easy bf pays for everything when it comes to bills.I help him out with a lttle bit of mony like 400$ a month,im cheap.He pays for my phone bill my spoiled Pomeranian.I feel bad I went to a counsler,she just says im depresses because i have anxiety so i take xanex.Had a bad child hood but im 20 now Ive got to live now,let go of the past.

    I don't know what to tell you. I motivate myself by knowing if I don't work I won't be eating or sleeping under a roof that month.


    5.Im known as the top earner in my club friendly with everyone,but I still got the girls who are haters.Ive learned to exept it,so what do you all do agnore them and work thats what I do and it works.Just cant stand the gossiping and lies to coustomers for example telling them im 16!My regular told me that one lol.

    Girls hate girls who make $ because it's money they are losing. They like girls that don't bank because they aren't threatening their $ intake.

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    Default Re: What to do ?

    DancerWealth could answer a lot of your questions on sales and getting motivated.

    Don't worry about the haters. As the saying goes - it's easier to catch flies with honey. Just keep being nice and send them some business - they'll soon be on your side.

    Lots of dancers date older men. My longest relationship was with a guy who was 30 years my senior. We just really worked well together until his diabetes got the best of him.
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    for the period thing... I use a thing called Instead. You can find it at CVS or Longs. Its a cup-like thing that you put inside. I haven't had any problems with leaks. Stays put and does the job for way longer then a tampon and there's no strings!

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