Is this a good thing or a bad thing?
Is it good because it's an honest compliment or is it a way of saying "You are good I can tell you've done this for a while, Im onto your game" ???
Men: please tell me what this means.
Is this a good thing or a bad thing?
Is it good because it's an honest compliment or is it a way of saying "You are good I can tell you've done this for a while, Im onto your game" ???
Men: please tell me what this means.





I've never taken it to be anything but a compliment. I never thought of it as possibly being anything else. What makes you think it's a bad thing?
Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
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I guess after reading dancerwealth, I'm kinda conscious of what I do now and try to be smooth
I'm worried that they're thinking I'm an obvious hustler, I guess





Put it in context then for me. When are they saying this to you?
Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be
Ok it's pretty much always in the first dance. I'm sensual. I dance slow with strong eye contact, and lip action. I'm careful and accentuate every curve and am stay feminine the whole time.
ummm, this is hard to describe?? lol.



That just means you do a good dance. I get it all the time, for years. It's a compliment. Remember, guys are simple - if they are saying you're good at what you're doing, it means just that!
I dance slow and sensual alsoSometimes guys will elaborate that the younger girls are "too hard and fast", and it's not very seductive. Slow and sensual is VERY seductive
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They could be complimenting your dancing technique rather than your hustle skills.


When I have said similar statments to girls it meant they were giving a great dance and pushing all the right buttons. It means I understand that they are just doing their job and they are not coming on to me. It is a compliment for professionalism and a job well done.





I've said similar things before... I meant them as a compliment and hope they were taken that way... Obviously, some LD experiences (like the one you describe - slow and sensual, strong eye contact and lip action) are exceptionally better than others and deserve more verbal expression than a mere "Thank you"...
If this is ambiguous... Can anyone suggest a better verbal compliment... (other than the obvious: "more dances, please")...





Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be





I wouldn't see how it could be anything but a compliment. I'm fully aware that it's all a game ITC but I'm a willing participant. It doesn't matter if the guy respects your game or is simply dumb enough not to know it's a game. Either way you are doing your job and doing it well.





It's a compliment. I'm sure it has different connotations in the specifics coming from different people, but coming from me I can tell you it's damn near the highest praise I can offer. Coming from me, it means very specifically - "I have been coming to these places a long time, bought many dances from many girls, I know the game and all the rules - and you're making me have to remind myself of that fact about every 15 seconds".
thanks guys, I've been wondering about this for months.
I think it means, "I wasn't going to buy a dance" or "I wasn't expecting such a good dance" but you convinced me. Not only that, but I am so blown away I have to tell you this. You blew my expectations out of the water.


Originally Posted by bluelight
If you did that for me, I would definately say you are good at what you do. However, in all fairness, first impressions are not always accurate. So I would probably have to buy 6 to 10 dances that night, and come back and buy the same number once or twice a month for at least a year to be sure.![]()
Last edited by FBR; 07-15-2009 at 05:05 PM. Reason: Fixed broken quote. They drive me nuts.
To respond to the OP, I believe a comment of this sort is generally complementary assuming the follow up responses don't contradict that impression.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
Simple compliment.
Your description of your technique alone makes me wanna tell you that you are good at what you do.




Whenever I say something like that to a dancer I'm always afraid that she'll take it the wrong way - not as in hustling, but in a negative sexual way, like she's REAL good at being overtly sexual, which may not be taken as a compliment.
Did that make any sense at all?





The fact that this thread exists would indicate that it does.![]()





I actually had a guy say this to me tonight and I thought of this thread, so I asked, "is that a compliment?" and he said (after he remembered how to speak lol) that he meant it as the highest compliment possible.![]()
Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be





Customers don't know they are being hustled so they like the way you dance.
I get what your saying. They sometimes come across as your TOO good, like your a real pro and going to hustling them out of their wallets...
Even if that's not what they are meaning.. I try and take it as a compliment but don't show that I'm really trying to figure out what they meant. We are on the defense sometimes, so it would be understandable if as customers, they are trying to give a compliment and we just take it the wrong way.
I like hearing the customer comments on this one for sure. It's nice to hear from their perspective.
We women forget men are pretty straightforward, to them a compliment is just that. We have to analyze everything!





Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be
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