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    Default "You are really good at what you do"

    Is this a good thing or a bad thing?

    Is it good because it's an honest compliment or is it a way of saying "You are good I can tell you've done this for a while, Im onto your game" ???

    Men: please tell me what this means.

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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    I've never taken it to be anything but a compliment. I never thought of it as possibly being anything else. What makes you think it's a bad thing?
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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    I guess after reading dancerwealth, I'm kinda conscious of what I do now and try to be smooth
    I'm worried that they're thinking I'm an obvious hustler, I guess

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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    Put it in context then for me. When are they saying this to you?
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    Ok it's pretty much always in the first dance. I'm sensual. I dance slow with strong eye contact, and lip action. I'm careful and accentuate every curve and am stay feminine the whole time.

    ummm, this is hard to describe?? lol.

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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    That just means you do a good dance. I get it all the time, for years. It's a compliment. Remember, guys are simple - if they are saying you're good at what you're doing, it means just that!

    I dance slow and sensual also Sometimes guys will elaborate that the younger girls are "too hard and fast", and it's not very seductive. Slow and sensual is VERY seductive

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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    They could be complimenting your dancing technique rather than your hustle skills.

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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    When I have said similar statments to girls it meant they were giving a great dance and pushing all the right buttons. It means I understand that they are just doing their job and they are not coming on to me. It is a compliment for professionalism and a job well done.

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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    I've said similar things before... I meant them as a compliment and hope they were taken that way... Obviously, some LD experiences (like the one you describe - slow and sensual, strong eye contact and lip action) are exceptionally better than others and deserve more verbal expression than a mere "Thank you"...

    If this is ambiguous... Can anyone suggest a better verbal compliment... (other than the obvious: "more dances, please")...

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluelight View Post
    Ok it's pretty much always in the first dance. I'm sensual. I dance slow with strong eye contact, and lip action. I'm careful and accentuate every curve and am stay feminine the whole time.

    ummm, this is hard to describe?? lol.
    Ok, based on this, and because my technique is almost the same, Im going to say they're giving you a real compliment.
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    I wouldn't see how it could be anything but a compliment. I'm fully aware that it's all a game ITC but I'm a willing participant. It doesn't matter if the guy respects your game or is simply dumb enough not to know it's a game. Either way you are doing your job and doing it well.
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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    It's a compliment. I'm sure it has different connotations in the specifics coming from different people, but coming from me I can tell you it's damn near the highest praise I can offer. Coming from me, it means very specifically - "I have been coming to these places a long time, bought many dances from many girls, I know the game and all the rules - and you're making me have to remind myself of that fact about every 15 seconds".

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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    thanks guys, I've been wondering about this for months.

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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    I think it means, "I wasn't going to buy a dance" or "I wasn't expecting such a good dance" but you convinced me. Not only that, but I am so blown away I have to tell you this. You blew my expectations out of the water.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluelight
    Ok it's pretty much always in the first dance. I'm sensual. I dance slow with strong eye contact, and lip action. I'm careful and accentuate every curve and am stay feminine the whole time.

    If you did that for me, I would definately say you are good at what you do. However, in all fairness, first impressions are not always accurate. So I would probably have to buy 6 to 10 dances that night, and come back and buy the same number once or twice a month for at least a year to be sure.
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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    To respond to the OP, I believe a comment of this sort is generally complementary assuming the follow up responses don't contradict that impression.

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    Simple compliment.

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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    Your description of your technique alone makes me wanna tell you that you are good at what you do.

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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    Whenever I say something like that to a dancer I'm always afraid that she'll take it the wrong way - not as in hustling, but in a negative sexual way, like she's REAL good at being overtly sexual, which may not be taken as a compliment.

    Did that make any sense at all?

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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    The fact that this thread exists would indicate that it does.

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    I actually had a guy say this to me tonight and I thought of this thread, so I asked, "is that a compliment?" and he said (after he remembered how to speak lol) that he meant it as the highest compliment possible.
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    ^^^ yay!! I've asked before, but I was so paranoid I still didn't 100% believe them, lol


    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    Whenever I say something like that to a dancer I'm always afraid that she'll take it the wrong way - not as in hustling, but in a negative sexual way, like she's REAL good at being overtly sexual, which may not be taken as a compliment.

    Did that make any sense at all?
    Yeah you make sense, but I never felt like that. Like that's what they were communicating.
    It's nice that you think of our feelings though, thank you

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    Customers don't know they are being hustled so they like the way you dance.

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    Default Re: "You are really good at what you do"

    I get what your saying. They sometimes come across as your TOO good, like your a real pro and going to hustling them out of their wallets...
    Even if that's not what they are meaning.. I try and take it as a compliment but don't show that I'm really trying to figure out what they meant. We are on the defense sometimes, so it would be understandable if as customers, they are trying to give a compliment and we just take it the wrong way.
    I like hearing the customer comments on this one for sure. It's nice to hear from their perspective.
    We women forget men are pretty straightforward, to them a compliment is just that. We have to analyze everything!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    Customers don't know they are being hustled so they like the way you dance.
    Hustled how exactly? You mean paying us for working? Yeah that's just awful and should never happen ever.
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