Apologies in advance if this comes out as a big splurge (it most likely will!) but I have to get it out somewhere and figured you have all been there/seen it/done it/doing it.
I've been working in London for 3 weeks and finding it extremely difficult. I can't work out if its me, do I not look right? am I not working/hustling hard enough? or is it the club, the City, the economy...........
Is it me? well I'm obviously very new so that could be it? Will I get better, am I not reading what people want from me ie the ones who want a decent conversation or the ones that want a tarty conversation?
My 'look' is unique in the club as I don't wear fake tan, lots and lots of make up, my hair is naturally long blond and straight, I'm very slim with big boobs and a lot of the guys tell me I'm beautiful and have a killer body BUT would I appeal to more of them if I tarted up more?
Are my lap dances not good enough? I've had a few multiples so they can't be bad and the first one I ever did the guy asked for 2nd so thats a good sign............unless they are after extras girls, then they are going to be sorely disappointed.
Do I work/hustle hard enough? I make a point of approaching every guy that doesn't have a girl glued to him and constantly work the room providing its not dead and there are people in there.
It frustrates me that the dirty girls I know do extras are making loads, one of them told me she made 900 on friday night. well I made 300 and that was my best night so far.
Should I get another job along side stripping? I don't want to as I love this when it works but I have bills to pay, debts to pay off and live on my own so I need to make money. I feel like a lazy cow sat at home tonight and not working in the club but as its Thursday there will be over 50 girls in tonight and the house fee is the highest tonight all week and I'm scared of not making the house fee. (the club will be making over 4k just in house fees tonight) On Tuesday I broke even, literally made my house fee and petrol money there were 30 of us on and no one did very well and last night I did 6 dances which means after house fee I made 60. God knows how as some of the more experienced girls only did one and went home in minuses. One said she made 200 and although I try not to compare to the other girls too much it proves to me some people in there had money to spend, right?
The veteran girls are saying its shit at the moment but they are still making what I think is ok, I asked one of them if she thought 300/400 per night 3 or 4 nights per week was realistic and she said totally. I hope I am being realistic- am I?? Some customers bang on about how we all make 1000 a night but I know thats crap, I hope I'm not being greedy or naive.
Am wondering if I ought to go to the coast for the summer but I also wonder if every other stripper in london who is having a hard time of it is going to do the same thing.
Thank you to anyone who made it to the bottom of this loooong post!
Any comments/advice/observations/kicks up the bum gratefully receieved!



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