I have not been going to strip clubs long but on a few occasions I have seen the guy getting himself hard before the dance by touching himself when sitting with a girl. The dancers didn't seem to mind this which surprised me.
Is this typical?


I have not been going to strip clubs long but on a few occasions I have seen the guy getting himself hard before the dance by touching himself when sitting with a girl. The dancers didn't seem to mind this which surprised me.
Is this typical?
I'm predicting you're gonna be renamed johnnytrollshoes for this type of question. Like it's inappropriate on multiple levels.
Ummm, were you at a strip club or a jack shack????? yOu might wanna upgrade the esablishments you're visiting, unless that's the sort of thing you're looking for. It's adult emtertainment, and I think the girls that choose to do extras should leave the strip club & hit up a brothel or nearby corner. I think the guys that come to strip clubs looking for sexual favors should join them...




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Only very, very rarely (like maybe 5 or 10 times ever) have I seen guys touching themselves in the private dances, much less out on the floor. If they do it at all at my club, it tends to be during a private dance when we have our backs to them. It's not really allowed; if the bouncers see a guy touching himself continuously, they'll come say something. I find the idea of them "getting themselves hard" before the dance both very amusing and very creepy and disturbing.





That's something I'd report to security in a heartbeat.
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^ Same here. I'd have him thrown out without a second thought.
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I've never seen a guy touch himself before a dance, I would walk out of the lap dance booth if I did. Those hands are so not going anywhere near my body, who knows where that thing has been.


I would not say the strip club I visit is a high class club like the Mens Club, where you can't get near a dancer, but I would say a level down from that but with mainly white girls in thieir 20s-30s.
I haven't posted too many times but some of the comments are surprising. I don't watch men but I like to see what kind of dances the girls give. I am not talking about anyone whipping it out by the way. One of the times I observed this is was a black male and a white dancer.
Last edited by johnnytwoshoes; 07-17-2009 at 01:08 PM. Reason: Clarification





I've never seen that. Where abouts in the world are you?


I don't want to say what state but let's just say East Coast.
This really wasn't a question for guys. Your comments may be directed elsewhere. Also, the fact that you have to be insulting doesn't really say a lot about your intelligence.
I admit having to rearrange myself after the first song up in the LD area. Life is goodBut I think walking into the club following a semi masturbatory experience in the parking lot is weird.
FYI comments are open. Guys can contribute as well as the dancers unless charlie and I say otherwise.
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^^^ Yeah, but are you re-adjusting yourself to make things more comfortable or literally trying to rub it out? The first one I totally understand - the second really shouldn't be done at the club in front of the dancer(s).
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^^Kylea what are you talking about? Your post doesn't make sense. I said I made myself more comfortable as a result of the dance. For most guys that means getting their package aligned with the dancers motions. That is what we pay you for. I'm not sure what you mean by "rub it out".
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I took her post to mean a "readjustment" is acceptable...jacking off is not.
If you get a boner and it's not in the right spot, it's just damn uncomfortable. I don't have to reach into my pants to do that though, just shift it a bit from the outside. I try to be cool about it.





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There is no need for clarification. I was very clear. I recounted that most customers stroll up to the LD area and often get excited during the dance and have to rearrange if the dance was very good (hopefully discretely with the rearrangement). Not sure where HB was coming from with jacking off.Originally Posted by Kylea2
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I think he may have been talking about the random fucktard that actually reaches in his pants and jacks off a bit before a dance...I've dealt with having to tell them to get their hands outta their pants or find another dancer. He's probably heard horror stories from a few dancers.![]()
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I had a guy start jacking himself off during a dance tonight.
I don't understand this. Don't you know that the stripper, other strippers in the room, and other patrons are just sitting there think fuck this guys a nasty perve? Wouldn't you rather do it in the privacy of your bathroom, your car or your home?





If that surprises you I know the state is not New Jersey. Sorry I'm a guy hope it didn't rune your mood.
I was once told by a beer-lady to stop jerking off; I was county my money below the bar but look straight ahead. I never show my money in in a club unless absolutely necessary. It was necessary at that time as I said I'm only counting out your tip and showed her the money.
Joke was on her as I put special sauce on the tip. Just kidding.
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