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    Default 1st shift tomorrow..asking for dances?!

    Hi everyone Thanks to everyone's tips here I got hired at a club in the Chicago area last night. I was actually shocked they offered me a job because I've never danced before and I've heard this club is picky about who they hire but I won't ask too many questions about the how or why I would like to know some tips about asking for a dance though. I am not shy but I am kind of awkward when it comes to speaking up about things or asking someone for something and I'm hoping asking for a dance will come more naturally in time but I want to at least leave tomorrow not owing them any money and try to feel like I sort of know what I'm doing even though I'm clueless. This isn't really a "wanna dance" club so I know I'd have to sit with the custie for a bit before I asked for a dance but I'm clueless about how to approach them and when in the conversation to ask or how to put it in there without sounding like I'm trying to get to the bottom of their wallets. This site has been super helpful so far and I really appreciate it so I'll keep you all updated on my first night! Thank you again!

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    Default Re: 1st shift tomorrow..asking for dances?!

    Approach - watch the customers and if no one else has been there just go sit down and ask "Are you enjoying the shows?" "By the way, my name is _____, what is yours?"

    Asking for dances totally depends on the customer. One that works to find out if they are even planning to spend is "So are you just watching from the sidelines tonight or will you be participating with us in the lap dance area?". If they confirm to wanting dances become more flirtatious and use body language. You can say something like "Well, why don't we go back there now and get the party started?".

    There's soooo many great lines for snagging dances, but it totally depends on personality type. When you can, I'd suggest you get DancerWealth.
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    Thank you! Yeah I definitely want to invest in DancerWealth once I determine I can hack it as a dancer and I can afford to drop the cash on it. I'm hoping I enjoy dancing since I have a lovely pile of student loans with my name on them but as far as hustling I have no clue!

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    My general opening line is : " How is your night going ? "
    You can things from there if his reaction is postive . If you just get the conversation started somewhere, you'll be ok regardless of how you get it started.

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