I had my first shift last night and I am super sore and discouraged this morning. Throughout the night I only sold 4 dances in a 7 hour shift which is totally depressing for me. Granted I've never danced before so I'm not sure what I'm doing but if my house hadn't been free I would have ended up owing them money
I was surprised I got hired because all the girls looked like barbie dolls but that manager said he hired because I am different...I'm petite and curvier with dark hair. He said he gets Latin guys coming in all the time asking where the normal looking girls are and that they have money to spend. I think though part of my problem is that I don't look like cheerleader barbie because I think the guys at this club are sort of looking for that. I also have bright red hair and a nose ring and tattoos so I have a very distinct look about me...I zeroed in on the one guy in audience with tattoos and piercings and he ended up buying a dance from me for his friend but all the other guys were getting dances from the tall blonde girls.
I would go sit down and talk to a guy and then have him turn me down for a dance, then five minutes later see him heading to the dance room with another girl. Im sure their hustle was better than mine but I just don't know what to do. I'm still sort of awkward asking for dances from anyone and I was having a harder time approaching people as the night went on. Does that get better and easier with time?
I'm not even sure if I can hack it as a dancer because after I gave my first few dances I just felt weird about it. Maybe it's something I need to get used to so I can separate myself from the act of rubbing my naked body all over some old guy I don't know but I thought it would be a lot easier than it was.
My next shift isn't until Tuesday so I guess I have some time to decide if I want to go back or not. The management was really helpful and told me to come back because it will get better once I figure out how to hustle but I don't know if I'll ever get good at this. I'm also wondering if I should try to go to a club with a bigger variety of girls and that might increase my chances of being appealing to more men...although I've heard a lot of girls say guys don't always buy dances from girls that are the most attractive to them, it's all about how they hustle.
Any tips? I want to be good at this and make money but I'm sore and discouraged and sad.![]()




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