Both my cousins got pregnant this year and hurried to marry before the baby bump appeared. When I listened to all the "perfect match forever and ever bestfriend and partner" hyperbole my head began to spin. I decided that marriage for these people is a rather idealistic endeaver. A realist would focus on what's working NOW: we love eachother and were having this baby together. A romantic, or idealist, focuses on an unknown truth and holds it to be true. 50% of marriages end in divorce. Is it acceptable to listen to people's vows with a grain of salt?



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7 weeks of knowing someone?! You're crazy!
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