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    Question Am I being a bitch?

    I've been gone a long time, I know. Long story short, I left Missouri and came home to Albuquerque. I have my own place, am doing really well. Here is my problem.... A newb at the club took to following me around like a duckling. at first she was very sweet and her naivete was endearing. Fast forward a few weeks and she gets a guy who gives her $1500 for "only a handjob". Now she thinks she's hot shit and is constatly talking shit about my friends,some of whom have been in the biz for way longer than her. I basically cut her off for that. Am I being too harsh? She has only been at it a few months
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    No...she's hooking in the club,bragging about it AND talking shit about other veteran dancers there who are your friends. Is your club likely to care about her extras? If so..I'd turn her ass in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CKXXX View Post
    No...she's hooking in the club,bragging about it AND talking shit about other veteran dancers there who are your friends. Is your club likely to care about her extras? If so..I'd turn her ass in.
    No cuz the person she gave the xtras to is a "high roller". I just don't feel like dealing with all that shit. She wants to snort coke and sell her pussy, fine, thats her deal. I don't judge but I had my party days a very long time ago.
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    No you’re not acting like a bitch. She’s hooking in the club & I think most dancers agree with me when I say “if you going to hook then go to a motel/hotel down the street”. Don’t conduct your dirty business in the club. She’s a newbie & she really does not understand the whole concept of dancing. Whenever a custie knows or has experience a hooking session, he will lose respect for the girl and most likely try to advance each time he goes in until they screw. Finally he will not give a damn about her & never spend $ on her. Before I got into the business, a dancer told me: never suck or fuck, because as soon as you do that, he will never spend $ on you ever again.

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    Default Re: Am I being a bitch?

    you're not being a bitch. if anything its her being a stupid bitch for being a trashy want-a-be hooker if it was "just a hand job" if i was you i'd wait for the perfect moment and call her out on the shit talking about the other girls, and with doing that i still wouldn't think you were a bitch. she's probably talked shit about you too.

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    i think you have every right, you shouldn't feel bad for cutting her off because you do no want to associated with a whore.

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    Default Re: Am I being a bitch?

    I've seen this happen to very many new girls.I would just ignore all this and let her come down to planet earth by herself.

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    Default Re: Am I being a bitch?

    In the real world you're supposed to cut people like that off so you're golden.

    Not a bitch, just assertive. Yay!




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    I believe the part about the hand job....as far as the money... I think she is lying. Did you see the cash? I always noticed alot of noobs like to lie about the money they make, I guess to try to save face or impress more experienced dancers to try to fit in....or cause they are intimidated and need to try to make themselves seem amongst the ranks. Even I exaggerated the money I made when I was new (never to that amount though)....it made me feel like people might respect me more and maybe not fuck with me as much (I also worked at a club that was infamous for new girls getting badly bullied)

    If she's gonna go down the "just a handjob" road then that will lead to blowjob street and that will lead to fucking in the VIP avenue...

    Let her navigate that herself......I think you should avoid her like the plauge and who cares if some dumb noob thinks you are a bitch!

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    Sometimes you're being a friend by letting people fail. I guess I'm a tough love advocate, but eventually she'll get busted for prostitution or a drug charge and then her parents will find out she's a Strippaho and she'll either get her shit together and stay in the business but be a proper stripper or she'll quit, get pushed out. It's not your job to be nice to anyone who isn't giving money to you.

    And who cares if you are being a bitch? That's an "insult" that's hurled at lots of smart and strong and stead fast women all the time, but when someone says it to me I take it as a compliment!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Guenevere View Post
    She's doing things you don't agree with and behaving poorly in regards to your friendship and your friends, I don't see how cutting the friendship equals acting like a bitch.

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