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    A question for the ladies--about a situation that must inevitably arise for many strippers.

    Maybe you are a university student--and one day a classmate walks into the club. Or may you are in the 'regular' workforce and dancing to make extra money--and one day a co-worker from your 'day job' shows up. Or--probably worst of all--a man from your immediate family arrives at the club.

    Of course you need to be professional about things. Being nude in front of whoever shows up is simply your job, and as long as the customer behaves, you need to treat them with respect.

    But I'm wondering what it feels like for you the first time you are naked in front of someone who would never have seen you naked were it not for this job?

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    Default Re: what's it like the first time someone you know comes in and sees you?

    Prediction: they aint gonna feel good about it.

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    that's why i told my dad about stripping, i knew I'd be caught at some point and thought it would be better coming from me from the very start. Funny cuz he didnt want to know his daughter is doing that BUT the club I was gonna go to was his regular hangout...so he was thankful that i did tell and that he didn't hear "welcome Rylee to the stage!", turn around and be like DOH that's my kid!!! And i was thankful so that i could go to another club that he and his friends never go to

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Prediction: they aint gonna feel good about it.
    Oh, ya! Massive panic for me. Ran off stage and hid in the dressing room after coming face to face with my professor. A couple of years later when my landlord came in I was much cooler about it, but still refused to give him LD's. Awkward! I offered to get another girl for him, but he got pissy and left.

    You get somewhat used to it after a while though. When my on again off again bf came in with his frat bro's a bit later, I just did my stage show and demanded major tips from them all, then told my ex that he had to buy a bunch of LD's.
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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    I've seen lots of different girls react in different ways. Most of them like Princess though, lol.

    My most recent ex had this happen a few times, and went crazy each time, even so fr as to leave the club before her shift was up on a very lucrative night because an old freind/ex bf showed up from out of town - he didn't even know she'd moved to vegas, lol.

    MissMynxx is the coolest cucumber of the bunch - she honestly doesn't give a shit as near as I can tell, lol. I'm pretty sure she'd give her dad a lapdance if he stumbled into the club and for some sick reason asked for one. LMAO - I hope she reads this and confirms or deny's. But I've been in the club when she had an awkward moment or two and have never seen a girl display LESS of a reaction.

    I've only been the guy causing the scene once, at a club in SLC. It actually worked out okay and the girl reacted well, and the timing couldn't have been better. Me and a couple guys at the rail, there for one of their 21st B-day. Talking back and forth, blah blah, tipping a few bucks, drinking - convo turns to something or other related to strippers, and I tell one of the guys his attitude is all wrong bout these girls, etc. He and I are at opposite ends of this group of freinds and don't know each other well at all, only by name and "what's up" kinda deal. Anyway - now it gets good:

    Me: "Dude, you're seriously out of line. I know a lot of girls in these clubs and I've dated girls who dance, and most of them are not the stereotype. You need to check yourself and be more respectful."

    Him "Dude, STFU. You don't know any strippers, you haven't dated any strippers, quit trying to be a badass. You're not impressing anyone."

    Shakes his head and starts into a drink.

    Dancer who just got on stage suddenly stops and leans over the rail.

    Dancer: "OMG - [my name]?!?! I haven't seen you in like forever! Write your number on that dollar so we can catch up!"

    Him: *drink comes out of nose*

    That was possibly the most priceless SC moment ever for me, lol. Anyway, she ended up getting kinda weirded out that I was seeing her naked after "all these years", we hadn't seen each other since high school. We talked but she FREAKED when I tried to buy a VIP, lol.

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    It doesn't bother me when people I know come in. If my Mom's employees came in, I would totally be cowering in the darkest corner of the dressing room. But luckily, that hasn't happened yet.

    I had an ex come in and buy lap dances on a regular basis. It was really, really creepy, cause the whole time I was dancing (and you better believe this was 90% air dance) he was moaning and saying weird shit about how hot I was and why did we ever break up...

    *shudder*

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    Default Re: what's it like the first time someone you know comes in and sees you?

    people i associate with know, so it wouldnt be a huge shock that im there, both to me and to them. still i would not be comfortable with my real life friends walking in and seeing my naked vagina. so then i would be incredibly embarassed.
    i've ran into old classmates, but no one i was really friends with so it didnt really matter.

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    There was a waitress/bartender at our local hangout that a bunch of my friends had a thing for. Not standout-pretty but naturally curvy and sexy, with sort of a bohemian art student look. She was really quiet though. No one ever got a conversation going with her, but on the way home they all talked about wanting a piece of that, etc.

    One week they all went to the strip bar about an hour away. Lo and behold, there she was, on stage, nude. They all recognized each other. She sold them all dances. I think one VIPed with her. They were all broke for months after.

    She disappeared from town soon after that. Maybe it was embarassing for her, but I can't believe it's the only time it ever happened.

    The guys still talk about that hot waitress who turned out to be a stripper, and gave the best lap dances ever.

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    Well I haven't had to worry about this much since I moved 1,400 miles away from home, usually if someone I know comes in I tell them to. Although some kids from my old school did once, I didn;t know who they were so I didn't give a shit, but I knew they were college students so... I stayed awsy from that table anyway!

    When I danced in RI I had my High School National Honor Society advisor come in, buy dances from me. Him: "why d you work here, I thought you went to college" Me: U just answered your own q buddy.", as well as my nephew's father While I was on stage, didn't recognize him until I had my junk literally in his face! He was more embarasses than I was. And a qausi relative, I bolted upstairs as I knew he was too cheap to pay the other cover.

    I also had a male cousin come into the club once with a group of friends to see a feature. I had asked him to come and told him he must spend my stage set either getting dances in the back or in the Men's room. Since he didn't see me naked it was actually fun.

    Most people who know me and are not relatives have probably seen my tits at some point as they never like to stay clothed so I don't think it's that a big a deal. I justy don't like them to see my cooter.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dash1729 View Post
    But I'm wondering what it feels like for you the first time you are naked in front of someone who would never have seen you naked were it not for this job?
    i made a thread about this not too long ago. theres some good stories that were told:
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=132772

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    Quote Originally Posted by dash1729 View Post
    A question for the ladies--about a situation that must inevitably arise for many strippers.

    Maybe you are a university student--and one day a classmate walks into the club. Or may you are in the 'regular' workforce and dancing to make extra money--and one day a co-worker from your 'day job' shows up. Or--probably worst of all--a man from your immediate family arrives at the club.

    Of course you need to be professional about things. Being nude in front of whoever shows up is simply your job, and as long as the customer behaves, you need to treat them with respect.

    But I'm wondering what it feels like for you the first time you are naked in front of someone who would never have seen you naked were it not for this job?
    Depends on who it is. If it was my dad or a relative or anyone along those lines you can be sure I'd be sneaking out the back door as quickly as possible.

    But I've had a few professors come in and we just laughed it off. It wasn't a big deal bc no one made it one. The attitude was both of us were in a place that we didn't want advertised and we left it at that.

    People that are mature and can behave often can just handle it. I've noticed that the longer I do this the less I really care who is in the audience as long as they're tipping. When I started I watched everyone watch me and it was impossible to not be scared to death. Now? I just do my thing.

    And truthfully at this point, Im happy to have anyone ITC spending any money.
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    the few times i've ever encountered people from my "real life" in the club i've been kind of proud to be seen in that way. I was the plain, shy, chubby girl in high school and it's some sort of hot girl validation. Kind of like those Maury Povich 'someone from your past has a crush on you' episodes, where the dude was Erkel in high school and is now a Chippendales dancer. So sad...

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    I've seen guys from school and past jobs at work before, and I was freaked out on the inside, but just went to say hi to them first, as if nothing was wrong.. to make it seem like i wasn't uncomfortable!! One of my best friend's friends came in one time and I tried to avoid them at first, until I had to go on stage.. then I gave up and just said hi to them lol. To be honest, I don't even care anymore, although it's SOOO annoying when these guys start BOMBING my facebook and trying to get dates with me afterwards.

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    Well, my 1st nite, about 30 guys from my old high school were at the club. I din't know it until I was front & center of the stage. I was pissed cuz I'd prided myself on keepin the goodies away from those assholes. I regained my composure & took advantage of the situation- I didn't get naked until I had like $150 lmao! I wasn't so cool when my brother-in-law & a couple of my 1st cousins showed up though. One of my cousins hadn't seen me since I was about 8, & he was trying to otc me until his brother & I made him realize who i was- that was kinda funny though, sobered him up real fast!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChoclatDiva21 View Post
    Well, my 1st nite, about 30 guys from my old high school were at the club. I din't know it until I was front & center of the stage. I was pissed cuz I'd prided myself on keepin the goodies away from those assholes. I regained my composure & took advantage of the situation- I didn't get naked until I had like $150 lmao! I wasn't so cool when my brother-in-law & a couple of my 1st cousins showed up though. One of my cousins hadn't seen me since I was about 8, & he was trying to otc me until his brother & I made him realize who i was- that was kinda funny though, sobered him up real fast!
    Thanks to you and everyone for your replies. I was just kind of curious as to the reaction. I have a friend who is on an online webcam site--I have been enjoying her site but am trying to decide whether it is better that I tell her or better that I remain anonymous.

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    This happened to me last night! One of my friends (who doesn't know I dance) brother came in! Thankfully I wasn't on stage last night as I've hurt my knee so we just looked at each other, clocked each other, and ignored each other. I have no idea if he will tell her he saw me or whatever but I have had no text from her or anything so who knows? Its not ideal, but nobody died, right?!

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    Default Re: what's it like the first time someone you know comes in and sees you?

    first time it was my ex's mean nasty 'friends'
    i hid in the dressing room and was thoroughly upset

    my abusive ex also showed up once
    and luckily he didnt' spot me
    i ran to the dressing room
    escorted by a doorguy
    and made a quick exit
    thoroughly shook up

    the next time was my father
    he had heard a rumour
    and drove an hour and half outta of his way
    to 'scare' me from not dancing
    it devasted me and i still cry about it
    we've never spoken about it
    but it broke both our hearts
    i did stop dancing for four months afterwards
    but they stopped paying my bills
    and i trudged back to work
    i pray they dont' find out... again

    another time it was a hs graduate
    and we become best friends
    stemming from that interaction

    one of my managers from one of my other jobs
    came in and i gave him 3 LDs
    and he tipped great
    it was awkward and i was uncomfortable
    but it was $$$$
    (plus i always thought he was gay!) LOL

    some guys come in and tell me
    they see me on campus
    i shrug and smile and say
    'ya i go to school'
    but my school has thousands of students
    so it's more of a rarity

    but the more central issue is
    why are we so uncomfortable?
    it's the shame and embarrassment
    that this job breeds
    and this point comes back to
    basic complexities associated
    with this 'profession'

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    ^^^ I didn't read all of your post but the way you broke up your paragraphs was rather poetic.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xdamage View Post
    ^^^ I didn't read all of your post but the way you broke up your paragraphs was rather poetic.

    I was thinking the same thing! Maybe she's an English major!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gia2608 View Post
    I was thinking the same thing! Maybe she's an English major!
    lol no i'm not
    i'm a speech language pathology major

    i've always written this way in forums
    my other forum has seen me post
    this way for years
    and are used to it

    i have no idea WHY i write like this
    i just always have

    i have written plenty of poetry
    but i can't be definite
    on the cause for the way i write


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