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    i work in a club where there are a lot of dancers who all have similar physiques and style. It seems to me that in order to stand out I should have my own "look" or.. somethng that sets me apart from other dancers. any suggestions?

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    Default Re: how to stand out

    I really think standing out is nothing more than figuring out who you are, and then projecting that with confidence.

    For a while, i tried to make myself into a typical stripper: fake ponytails, glam makeup, etc. But I didn't feel good with that look. I actually make more when I wear my short hair in little pigtails, with minimal makeup and cute leg warmers.

    Basically, YOU are inherently distinctive. Your specialness, your individuality, is what makes you stand out. When you wear clothes and makeup and hair that YOU feel sexy in, your individuality shines out brightly.

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    Default Re: how to stand out

    outfit, strut, and attitude to match!!

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    Default Re: how to stand out

    Find your own stripper style... even if you don't look like the traditional stripper, pick something that's cute and sexy on your and is going to make you stand out enough people won't forget it!

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    having a cup size in the second half of the alphabet always worked well for me !

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    Confidence is key!

    Whatever that makes you feel sexy and feel beautiful is what you should totally rock on the floor.

    Some people may not understand but there is always the one person who tips out of their a** just to have what makes you special!

    Strut your stuff with pride ;}

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    Default Re: how to stand out

    wear a diff. hairstyle than the rest-long, short, curly, straight, red, blond, pink, green...you get the idea.

    You could wear tons of jewelry, or none at all.

    Tattoos? Do they all have them? Maybe you could be the one without...

    Just remember to not be false to YOU. Confidence is the best thing, and if you are being too fake confidence can go down the drain...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Winged Dinghy View Post
    I really think standing out is nothing more than figuring out who you are, and then projecting that with confidence.

    For a while, i tried to make myself into a typical stripper: fake ponytails, glam makeup, etc. But I didn't feel good with that look. I actually make more when I wear my short hair in little pigtails, with minimal makeup and cute leg warmers.

    Basically, YOU are inherently distinctive. Your specialness, your individuality, is what makes you stand out. When you wear clothes and makeup and hair that YOU feel sexy in, your individuality shines out brightly.
    quoted for truth!

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    It just happens that we recently wrote a blog post on this topic:
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    The simplest, cheapest and quickest way is by making your style unique and eye-catching. Clothes, shoes, hair.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    having a cup size in the second half of the alphabet always worked well for me !
    yikes! dont think she wanted to know how to scare men off!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cashing in View Post
    yikes! dont think she wanted to know how to scare men off!
    Melonie might be able to scare men but it would be with her brain not those boobs.

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    i wasnt talking about melonie's personal appearance as i havnt seen her, just her comment i wouldnt try to imagine what she described x

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    ^^^ hopefully this will help your imagination...




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    ^^^

    is that not very painful?

    surgery to that extreme is illegal in england.

    i think it must be alot of hard work carrying the extra weight X
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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    ^^^ hopefully this will help your imagination...

    Heh. I kind of had a guy moment when I saw that. All I could think was "Woah. Coooool"


    I always found it easy to stand out. Everyone else is trying so hard to fit in. Once, I decided that since the club only had two redheads (and they didnt work very often) I would get my hair dyed red. Well that was expensive, but it did get a couple people waving me over from across the room. Ultimately, dressing in whatever makes me feel hot and cute makes me unique. I like to wear a fedora and and sometimes I find cute tops at the mall that I'll wear instead of the standard stripper gear. Thigh high stockings are always unique around here, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cashing in View Post
    ^^^

    is that not very painful?

    surgery to that extreme is illegal in england.

    i think it must be alot of hard work carrying the extra weight X
    Melonie, correct me if I'm wrong, but don't you have Polypropylene implants?

    Cashingin, if they are polypropylene implants they are now illegal to put in in the US as well.

    I would have to assume that a lot of back exercises are necessary to build up enough muscles to support the weight. I mean as odd as it sounds I notice even when I have long hair that my neck and back starts to hurt more.



    To the OP, there are tons of ways to set yourself apart with personal style. I know that my style of dancing at clubs sets me apart because I don't do a lot of moves the other dancers do and I am very slow and sensual. I've had a number of people tell me that I remind them of a very iconic American blonde who has been dead for many years. I think playing up a celebrity look can often set you apart. Mine wasn't on purpose and I don't even have the same hair style, but the way I move, the blonde hair, and pale flawless skin certainly seems to remind everyone of the same celebrity.
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    ^^^

    i wasnt refering to the material used i ws refering the the extreme that is illegal, the biggest person in the uk (leah walker) doesnt have polypropylene implants (http://images.google.co.uk/images?hl...=f&oq=&start=0) as you can see she's not nearly that big but surgery to leah walker's extreme is now illegal here.

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    Melonie, correct me if I'm wrong, but don't you have Polypropylene implants?
    Yes and I love them because they are the only implants ever invented that are absolutely leakproof. Also, they're not as 'heavy' as saline or silicone implants of equal size. This is great for most purposes, but it's actually a pain where water sports are involved ( because they float like corks !)



    And yes the US FDA no longer allows polypropylene string implants to be used.
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    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UFmCTFqrpbY

    felt very sorry for her she didnt know they would cotinue growing when she had the implants! after you've had them you wouldnt be able to remove them without terrible results!

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    Find something that can be your trademark... for me it's wearing tons of pink, decorated stockings, and a headband.

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    now a days... just be classy lol.

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    felt very sorry for her she didnt know they would cotinue growing when she had the implants
    yup, this is the reason that the FDA stopped future use of poly string implants. In my own case, when I first got them my bust measured 44" ... but here I am a few years of 'growth' ...




    Chelsea ( the girl in your video link ) got much larger poly string implants than I did originally. Hers also grew more than mine did.

    However, before your laugh off really big implants, you might take note that Chelsea regularly books visits to different cities for 'private shows' with fans / customers ... which are sold out in advance at $700 an HOUR.

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    Wow, I'm really surprised the UK has rules like that. I mean, that girl Leah, her boobs aren't that huge. My best friend went from around a B to a FF. Anyone who works at the Lodge in Dallas would know her.... One downside, she had to have a lollipop lift on one, and anchor lift on the other just to support those bowling balls Guys do love it though. And she definitely stands out more than the others!

    Anyways, find your trademark look. I always wear long gowns, and try to do my hair/makeup/jewelry to look glamorous, like red carpet type look. That's just what makes me myself feel sexy. After all, confidence attracts more men and makes you stand out more than anything.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    yup, this is the reason that the FDA stopped future use of poly string implants. In my own case, when I first got them my bust measured 44" ... but here I am a few years of 'growth' ...




    Chelsea ( the girl in your video link ) got much larger poly string implants than I did originally. Hers also grew more than mine did.

    However, before your laugh off really big implants, you might take note that Chelsea regularly books visits to different cities for 'private shows' with fans / customers ... which are sold out in advance at $700 an HOUR.
    VIP here costs standard 655 to 735 USD an hour and its air dancing and i always make big money and I dont need to pay for flights across the country, i don't get people staring in the street, I have no problems getting a normal job and I'm not worried about my health i'm not laughing off big boobs but i dont think that amount of money would be worth it ever even if it was pre booked! x

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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    Wow, I'm really surprised the UK has rules like that. I mean, that girl Leah, her boobs aren't that huge. My best friend went from around a B to a FF. Anyone who works at the Lodge in Dallas would know her.... One downside, she had to have a lollipop lift on one, and anchor lift on the other just to support those bowling balls Guys do love it though. And she definitely stands out more than the others!

    Anyways, find your trademark look. I always wear long gowns, and try to do my hair/makeup/jewelry to look glamorous, like red carpet type look. That's just what makes me myself feel sexy. After all, confidence attracts more men and makes you stand out more than anything.

    make sure its not mistaken for arrogance!

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