
Originally Posted by
goreantx
I've done a lot of champagne room domme. They are still customers and you are still pleasing them. You have to watch their body language and see if you are hitting the right buttons. You have to give them a reward, that's the whole point. It's like having a dog, they want to do tricks and play fetch and be at your service, but only if you have a pouch of treats ready!
I think a good reward for buying shoes is to turn them into an object of power by having the custie worship them. You could have him take you out in the shoes and flirt with other men while he sat in the corner and watched. Then when you are alone you could say something like (in the "aww poor baby" voice) "you aren't man enough to see me in these shoes" or something along those lines and then have him like... clean them. Or you could say something like "wearing these 8 inch stilettos around REAL men made my feet so sore, why don't you make yourself useful?" and have him give you a foot massage. Then you can spank him with the shoes and work up some suspense for ball stomping.
Do a lot of "I guess I'll keep you around, even if you are only half a man" and keep your voice husky and affectionate.
It's a game of they do stuff for you, you demean them verbally and with humiliation (watching to see their reaction), and then reward them by letting them do something else for you, and then you kinda rub their back and tell them they did good.
PS: I think you were saying this for some out of club relationship; if you meant in the club, I would definately omit the foot massage, ball stomping, and spanking...
Pretty much all you can do in the club is do some creative whispering in their ear
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