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    Default why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    So this is something that keeps occuring, and I don't understand it. Guys sit down in the lap dance booths with their bodies right up against the arm rest... this makes it a bit difficult to dance for you!

    Is there a reason for this that I am unaware of?

    And are you going to be peeved if I tell you to please scoot over a bit?

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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    hmm i noticed that too- sit in the middle god damn it!
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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    your clients are dumb, hahahaha. i'm surprised they have money

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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    I always just ask them to scoot over a bit. Some act annoyed by this though, which confuses me. How am I supposed to straddle your lap if I can't get my knee over there? It actually makes it difficult to do a lot of moves if the arm is high, imo.

    To make it worse, these same cumstomers have at times complained about getting an "airdance"!! Well, if they refuse to scoot over, I assume that is what they want!!

    I think some guys just like to make things difficult.
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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    It's probably a sub conscience thing that makes them more comfortable.
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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    Maybe they are just use to retreating into the corner to get away from their nagging wife, Ha.
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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    I only sit at the side when she sits with me before the dance. Then she just asks me to scoot. No issues from my end on this.

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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    Quote Originally Posted by vmurphy252 View Post
    I only sit at the side when she sits with me before the dance.
    Yep that's something that I'd do. I always scoot to the middle when we're ready.

    In fact I think I probably sat in the corner next to the arm rest when I first started visiting SCs.

    Now I try to sit towards the middle or away from the arm rest a bit.

    Of course in some clubs on the floor, the chairs don't have much space, so you're sitting next to the arm rest due to lack of space.

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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    Keep in mind not all custies are SCJ's! Sometimes girls forget this. Sitting in the middle is uncomfortable. Just let the customer know he'll get a much better dance by moving. You'll get a much better response from that than if you tell him where to sit. Chances are he's there to get away from that

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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    ^what he said. They're probably subconsciously - or consciously - leaving you "room" on the seat. A coy smile and a remark about how you're supposed to sit ON them not next to them would probably get a decent response too, lol.

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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    Quote Originally Posted by audrey_k View Post
    ...Guys sit down in the lap dance booths with their bodies right up against the arm rest... this makes it a bit difficult to dance for you!
    This is obviously a "first time at the rodeo" experience for these folks.

    And are you going to be peeved if I tell you to please scoot over a bit?
    No. I do whatever strippers tell me to do and say "Thank you, ma'am."

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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    I think you are all correct and they must be strip club newbs... it's kind of amusing sometimes because about 10 or 15 seconds into the dance they get this look like "ooooh shit ok" and scoot over.

    I asked one guy to scoot over in the beginning and he told me "I do not appreciate being told where to sit, especially not by a white woman." I've been sort of scared to say anything since.

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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    this is almost as annoying as the guys that slouch during a dance... like practically horizontal with the floor. grrrr

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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    Some guys don't think. Okay, most guys don't think.

    The only asthetic junkies out there are engineers and artist types. As for the rest of the lot they conform to the seat as if you are going to sit next to them. Dancers have other things in mind. If you say yes to a dance that does not mean we sit first then dance. If it's the beginning of a song it's dance time honey.

    Just tell a guy who sits on the side to scoot it. I physically grab their thighs and move them where I want. If they over compensate I tell them "I have long legs and will never be able to straddle you well if you sit all off center like that."

    Some guys sink into the corner from the middle. Fine I'll figure it out if they are spending money or tell them again to move.




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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    Quote Originally Posted by audrey_k View Post
    I asked one guy to scoot over in the beginning and he told me "I do not appreciate being told where to sit, especially not by a white woman." I've been sort of scared to say anything since.
    wow , what was up this guys ass?

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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    If you sit near the arm rest, she'll have a place to rest her head and shoulders while she's kneeling over your lap for her spanking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TravelandStrip View Post
    this is almost as annoying as the guys that slouch during a dance... like practically horizontal with the floor. grrrr
    I've had dancers intentionally position me like that.
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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    Actually, the beginning of a dance can be intimidating for a customer if he doesn't know you. I can imagine that I may have done that myself. The idea though is to have fun so use your sales skills and with a smile scooch him over to where he needs to be.

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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    I automatically sit to the side and give her a space to sit. If a song has just started i scooch on over, otherwise sit and put your legs in my lap

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    Quote Originally Posted by vmurphy252 View Post
    I only sit at the side when she sits with me before the dance. Then she just asks me to scoot. No issues from my end on this.

    I do this to! It's a non-threatening way to establish control before I take of my clothes and the trouble starts!
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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    yah i get that like 50% of the time! wth! i just order them to scoot over and they oblige. dumb idiots.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dreamer1980 View Post
    wow , what was up this guys ass?
    I don't know... but it wasn't a good start... we did one song, lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by audrey_k View Post
    I asked one guy to scoot over in the beginning and he told me "I do not appreciate being told where to sit, especially not by a white woman." I've been sort of scared to say anything since.
    Yeah that would have been the point where I said "Maybe you should leave and never come back. We don't appreciate sexist or racist statements."

    What a moron that guy was.




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    Quote Originally Posted by TravelandStrip View Post
    this is almost as annoying as the guys that slouch during a dance... like practically horizontal with the floor. grrrr

    Quote Originally Posted by maximvsv View Post
    I've had dancers intentionally position me like that.
    Ditto. This happens to me much more often than a dancer having to move me to the middle of the couch.

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    Default Re: why do you want to sit right by the arm rest??

    I love when guys do this. I also love when they have their legs together or crossed.

    That wasn't sarcasm.

    I love it because it means they are fairly new to strip clubbing and I find that, in general, those customers are easier to please and carry less baggage.

    And -not- sarcasm.. I hate the slouching thing too... mostly because I've noticed that customers who do it (esp the more "laid back" they get) are looking for very high contact.

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