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    Taking guys in bands seriously a no no? No, but taking this guy seriously? Girl, I wouldn't believe him or take him seriously at all. I'm telling you this because of my own actual similar experiences. Best way to see if he really cares about you, quit having sex with him and see what happens. If he's worth it, he'll stick around. Otherwise, anything he's says as far as "I love you" during sex, DONT TAKE THAT SERIOUSLY. Remember, guys will do and say anything for sex. They can't help it, they need sex as a basic instinct. Women don't understand that because we don't experience it to that extent. Women are so much more complex, men are more caveman like. Just a statistic I thought I'd throw in (but don't quote me on the validity) 95% or more of men experience satisfaction and contentment after sex. 80% or more of women feel shame and regret. I personally don't believe this applies to long term relationship sex though.

    If I was in your shoes, I would take a step back. Don't put yourself out there so much, and make yourself more "unavailable" if that makes sense. Sometimes when girls are too available to a guy like this, they take her for granted. It kind of goes with the mantra, give him an inch and he'll take a yard. I'm not saying he doesn't care about you, but obviously not enough to leave his girlfriend yet. I'm just saying, talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words, just remember that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    ... I'm just saying, talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words, just remember that.
    Right on.

    Cheating on his SO with you for 8 months, denying sleeping with groupies when other sources say differently.

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    I don't think it matters at all whether he is serious when he says he loves you or not. He may even convince himself for a short time, but guys like that can't really, truly love anyone other than themselves.

    He has been cheating on his live-in for 8 mos with you AND groupies, then LIES about it. That says everything right there.
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    I don't like musicians personally and tend to stay away
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    Yeah, guys like him have a power struggle within them and the desire to 'win' you or cnquer you. You are more of a challenge if you're not eating up their declarations of love. So, they will say just about anything to convince you that they want to be with you in a serious relationship.

    Because, otherwise, it means YOU win and you would be free to be with other guys (which harms his ego, even though he wants to be able to do his own thing!)They want to stake their territory and get you to devote yourself to them and once they feel like you've been 'had', they look for the next challenge with a new girl.

    Those types love when they can get you to let your guard down for 'them' so that they can feel special. The clue easily lies within his track record of being with you while also maintaining his girlfriend, in addition to his stable of groupies. If you like having fun with him, go ahead but let him know that you will not be 'had'. Good luck!
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    Take a video/picture reel and sell it to a tabloid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xfatrabbitx View Post
    I do not want his bitch ass to win now. Hmm, how can I win? Yes, I am a vindictive person. lol. I guess the best solution for me to do is to just drop him and show him that i'm not impressed or falling for it anymore. wish i could hurt him how he hurt me, but i dont think that'll work considering he probably doesn't give a shit. ahhh... life
    The smartest thing to do....will also be the best way to get back at him.....

    Nothing would get to him more than you just ending it.....and then not taking any of his calls or responding to any of his texts......

    This would hurt what he values most...his ego.

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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    Just a statistic I thought I'd throw in (but don't quote me on the validity) 95% or more of men experience satisfaction and contentment after sex. 80% or more of women feel shame and regret. I personally don't believe this applies to long term relationship sex though.
    Wow. That has absolutely no basis in fact or reality. Do you even know the definition of the word statistic?

    http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/statistic

    This whole thread reminded me of one of my most favorite jokes:

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    A: She drops him off at band practice and gives him $20 for beer!

    Seriously, the guy sucks (but you already knew that). Quit fucking him. Case closed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by vivianbear View Post
    Wow. That has absolutely no basis in fact or reality. Do you even know the definition of the word statistic?

    http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/statistic

    This whole thread reminded me of one of my most favorite jokes:

    Q: What does a stripper do with her asshole before work?

    A: She drops him off at band practice and gives him $20 for beer!

    Seriously, the guy sucks (but you already knew that). Quit fucking him. Case closed.
    It was just something I heard a few times, and I wasn't sure how true it is. Wow. It makes you think though.
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    ^^
    No, it doesn't make be think because its not relevant to any real facts. What you stated about men generally enjoying sex and women being ashamed of it is just false. It does NOT make me think.
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    A friend did hook up with a rock star. Not sure if this would be called dating (I'd call it a sex buddy who takes her to dinner while in town). She calls it dating though. I haven't spoken to her in five years so she might have woken up, but I doubt it.

    My friend met this lead singer of a well known band. She had this goal for many years to basically marry one of these members. The only one who had an interest was the lead singer. The lead singer is also married to a famous model. My friend knew this going in but thought he'd leave his wife for her. It never happened but everytime this band was in town he'd call my friend to "hangout". He also got her a job at the local alternative station. I'd often ask her why she'd wait by the phone for him to call and she'd claimed he "loved her". Yeah right. That's why he won't leave his wife for her. What's even more disgusting is this guy is over 50 so you'd think he'd learn by now. I'm sure he had girlfriends in other towns too. I think he's a slimy jerk and I get sick when I see him on tv. Incidentally, I've met other members of this band and they've been cool and nothing like him. I used to think this guy was handsome but now I just see him as a loser who knows he can get women because of the band he's in.

    The op's band guy sounds exactly like this jerk. Nothing good can come from these kinds of users. These guys get off on manipulating young women. Get away from him. You don't want to end up like my friend. Find a guy who loves only you. While the groupie sites are a little exaggerated, there is a little truth to them most of the time. You don't want to end pregnant, or get a STD (including AIDS). Promiscuous rock stars are to me as dangerous disease wise as a street hooker.

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