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    Dizzy Strippers that don't know the rules.

    I've recently started controlling in my club. (for thoes clubs that don't have controllers, basically a lapdance timer and security.)

    So last night whilst on shift a girl that has been dancing for a few months was doing a couples dance when the couple started kissing in front of her. she looked over trying to get my attention to ask if they were breaking any rules. (they wern't) and after i had to tell her what the rules are and what you're allowed and not allowed to do other than the basic can't touch my cooter rule.

    when i first started dancing i made sure to research the rules because it's always good practise to know your legal boundaries and rights. and i'm shocked that so many girls in this industry don't know what's allowed of them.
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    Default Re: Strippers that don't know the rules.

    Vague laws and clubs that turn the other cheek?


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    Default Re: Strippers that don't know the rules.

    Why? Plenty of clubs ADVERTISE their rules to dancers, and yet don't apply them.

    Also, some clubs are stricter than the local laws. I wasn't sure if customers kissing each other was legal either. It's legal, but not allowed in my club.

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    I tried to find state laws before I started dancing, and even after doing a ton of research I couldn't. If anyone knows where I can see them for CA let me know!

    My club didn't tell me shit the day I started working... and I mean, didn't tell me what 2-4-1s were, how to have a customer pay with a CC, anything. I've never worked at a club that had their rules, let alone state laws, posted.

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    Where I am, the have a brief orientation during which a manager tells you the rules with comments like, "but if you go to VIP you can do what you want" wink wink. Hmmm
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    I've never worked in a club where the rules were clearly (and entirely) spelled out to me ahead of time when I started working there.
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    I worked at my last club for two months and asked three times to be "toured" so I knew how much each room was and it never happened! I kind of made up things as I went but don't think I would've sold a cr there anyway as it was DEAD all the time.
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    is there somewhere where the laws are posted for strip clubs? if not somebody should put one up. like clubs and reviews or something. i've been to many clubs where i just find out rules as i go by breaking them. everywhere is so different. =<

    there are places where it's illegal to walk onto the floor without your whole outfit on and there are places you can just walk around all nude all night.

    i saw a drunk customer licking his more drunk girls vagina last night in the club and nobody said nothing. many people were sitting around laughing at it but i guess they weren't breaking any rules. i kind of feel they should of been but whatever not really my problem i guess

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    Dallas:

    Keep one foot on the floor at all times during a dance.

    Do NOT accept tips in your G string or T back. Only in your hand, placed on the stage, or in a garter.

    Do NOT sit on a customer's lap unless you are fully clothed.

    Keep shoes on at all times.

    Don't get on your hands and knees on during stage and during dances. (although this one doesn't seem enforced for the stage)

    No mesh or see through outfits, must have butt (so no walking around with just a T back) and nipples covered.

    No flat shoes, they must have a heel.

    No heavy grinding or touching. Customers not allowed to touch.

    No excessive touching of yourself, or "masturbatory" looking acts.

    No prostitution, or suggestion that money could be exchanged for a sex act.

    At full nude clubs, while nude absolutely no floor work, you must be standing or have both feet on the floor at all times.

    Also, I've always been told that if vice raids a club, they are never allowed to go back in VIP. I'm not 100% sure if that is true though. I have been at clubs when the police came in and handed out tickets. It is always for something trivial, and they will play back the tapes for the night.
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    hey, at least she WAS NOT doing anything wrong. It's worse with the girls who what they are doing is wrong and you have to tell them countless times to knock it off.
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    Default Re: Strippers that don't know the rules.

    what are the rules for spots in san francisco? the nicer ones like gold and huslter club.. not the dives.

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    Default Re: Strippers that don't know the rules.

    JD - what did they give out tickets for??

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    lewd dancing mainly. I think some prostitution ones too, but they're total b.s. You can get a prostitution ticket for ANYTHING!
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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    Where I am, the have a brief orientation during which a manager tells you the rules with comments like, "but if you go to VIP you can do what you want" wink wink. Hmmm
    Sounds like the goddamn SR in LV. "What goes on in there is your business". Scared the shit out of me everytime I went in that fucking VIP. God it made me uncomfortable.

    And working with tons of ex porn stars who didn't mind didn't help my cash flow either. I am so glad i got the fuck out of there.

    Ugh.

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    ^^^^ I totally remember them telling me that too! But, I can't see how anything could really happen except in a Celebrity Booth, and even in those there is an obvious camera on the ceiling. Then at the end of the night when you cash in chips, John is in that office with all the surveillance screens watching like Big Brother. I do NOT miss that club!
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    Atlanta nude club:

    No being on the pole while nude.
    No laying on the floor wile nude.
    No spreading your legs while nude.
    No bending over a 90 degree angle while giving a dance.
    No dancer customer contact, air dancing only.
    Keep your shoes on at all time.
    No "traveling" around the club unless fully clothed.
    Nipples and butt must be covered at all times.
    Shoes must be 5" or higher.
    One foot on the floor at all times
    Costumes much be professional, no cut offs etc

    Las Vegas topless club:

    No simulating sex acts
    Grinding limited to a three second count, then change positions
    Dancer may touch customer, customer must not touch you
    One foot on the floor at all times
    No straddling
    Costumes must be professional, no cut offs etc
    No excessive touching yourself on stage in a sexual manner


    Austin topless club:

    Must wear dresses that cover your butt and nipples
    Must weigh within the posted parameters for your height (we even did weigh ins yesterday)
    Makeup and hair must be done
    Contact is at your discretion but not to be excessive.

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    Philly nude club:

    Butt must be covered when on the floor, no fishnet(not enforced)
    Customers cannot touch boobs or pussy
    You can grab female customers boobs
    No kissing customers ever
    No penetration during sex shows

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    I have been trying to find an acurate set of laws for PA and have had no sucess. I am even considering contacting a lawyer for a consultation but I have no idea on how to find one that specilizes in this area of the law. I would like to keep everything legal but every club I have worked at has had a completely differnt interpretation. At one everything including the VIp's were air dance only. At three others lap dances are realy lap dances. At two of those two it's considered legal for the customer to touch boobs, and at the other it's not. Another clubs lawyers have interpereted the law to mean a hand job through the pants is not really a hand job.

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    Default Re: Strippers that don't know the rules.

    Wow! Much stricter than NYC!

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    Default Re: Strippers that don't know the rules.

    I meant this was much more strict than NYC

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    Keep one foot on the floor at all times during a dance.

    Do NOT accept tips in your G string or T back. Only in your hand, placed on the stage, or in a garter.

    Do NOT sit on a customer's lap unless you are fully clothed.

    Keep shoes on at all times.

    Don't get on your hands and knees on during stage and during dances. (although this one doesn't seem enforced for the stage)

    No mesh or see through outfits, must have butt (so no walking around with just a T back) and nipples covered.

    No flat shoes, they must have a heel.

    No heavy grinding or touching. Customers not allowed to touch.

    No excessive touching of yourself, or "masturbatory" looking acts.

    No prostitution, or suggestion that money could be exchanged for a sex act.

    At full nude clubs, while nude absolutely no floor work, you must be standing or have both feet on the floor at all times.

    Also, I've always been told that if vice raids a club, they are never allowed to go back in VIP. I'm not 100% sure if that is true though. I have been at clubs when the police came in and handed out tickets. It is always for something trivial, and they will play back the tapes for the night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JadenJ View Post
    I meant this was much more strict than NYC
    Depends on the club, JadenJ. Depends on the club. Some NYC places are sticklers to the max. Clear shoes? Oh hell no! Black nail polish? No friggin' way! No nail polish? Not allowed. Boots? Don't even think about it. Thong doesn't match the dress? No way, never! The blush is too bright. The dances are too wild. The dances are too demure. The dress looks "inexpensive". Cover those tattoos. One foot on the floor at all times. If a customer touches you, it is your fault. No platform shoes. Don't sit with the customers before they get their drinks. The list goes on.
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    And that is all NYC ^^^ FYI.
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    The Dallas rules are strict but it's rare you see anyone enfore them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    Where I am, the have a brief orientation during which a manager tells you the rules with comments like, "but if you go to VIP you can do what you want" wink wink. Hmmm
    I've encountered this a LOT! lol. In the clubs that show you around and detail their rules, they tend to tell you where there aren't any cameras, and where you can get away with other things.
    Quote Originally Posted by Otoki View Post
    Why? Plenty of clubs ADVERTISE their rules to dancers, and yet don't apply them.

    Also, some clubs are stricter than the local laws. I wasn't sure if customers kissing each other was legal either. It's legal, but not allowed in my club.
    Yes there's that too-half of the rules up on the wall 'Don't touch the dancers' and 'don't give dancers your phone number' etc in my usual club, not enforced at all in VIP.
    Clubs even in the same county here have different rules as well , at a new club I always ask but find managers and staff contradict other managers/staff.
    In different clubs, I've been told proper stripper shoes are required, no normal high heels or other shoes-yet loads of girls were wearing non-stripper shoes. Also was told need a proper stripper thong, not just any old pretty thong. Again, loads of girls wearing other types of knickers.....Same club, I get told I need to put two pairs of thongs on if I'm wearing just a small thong, never got told that rule..... Was advised after being on stage about ten times, that I was coming off stage at the wrong side-no one had mentioned any stage rules to me even when I asked....
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    Default Re: Strippers that don't know the rules.

    Some clubs have rules? Huh. My club is shitty, but I don't think of it as wild, although you can do whatever the fuck you want in VIP or on stage.

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