I've noticed a pattern over the years, and this is something I have found difficult to overcome.
Some customers get possessive and will block me from selling dances to their friends. It's usually the ones who want the girlfriend experience or who point-blank ask me out. Invariably, if their friends express interest in me after I've danced for these guys, the assholes will mutter something I can't hear or make a gesture to discourage the friends away from me. Basically they cock-block their friends from me.
Even more annoying, they will go on and buy dances with other girls that same night after they've finished with me. I don't care if a guy wants to spread his money around, that's fine. But it annoys the ever-loving shit out of me that they do this while blocking me from selling dances to their friends.
I know it's some sort of male ego, territorial bullshit going on, but it's retarded. I have never been able to get around this, except on rare occasions when the friend was more of an alpha type and I was able to laugh off the cock-blocking with him to get the sale.
Any insight from the guys here? A way to get around this stupidity?? Or is it pointless? I used to go ahead and ask for the dance anyway, but it never worked so now I just walk away as soon as I see the cock-blocking thing, unless the friend is clearly not going for it (rare).
Input appreciated.




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