227 views! And a handful of responses......you KNOW there are lickers that have read this
227 views! And a handful of responses......you KNOW there are lickers that have read this





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Thank you mediocrity!
I always like to share my slightly different customer perspective (although it is sometimes painfully similar to the other SCJ's that post here!)
I suspect that the hard-core lickers are too embarrassed to respond, especially now that they have learned how much dancers hate it.



I've never licked a dancer and the thought of doing it never crossed my mind.
The only reason I can think of as to why someone would do that is they have no respect for other people's boundaries.





I don't force or sneak anything on a dancer but some of them have have done to me what the posters are complaining about, much worse in fact. I truly believe dancers don't tell one another what they do behind closed curtains.





As someone with a determined oral fixation/fetish/whatever, I can see why someone would WANT too; been there, lol.
DOING it is a whole 'nother ballgame so to speak. Personal boundaries, respect, etc - all obvious and real issues that say "not a good idea".
And I should specify - "licking" is reserved for specific activities and body parts, and that's not happening with me in a SC, lol.
The "little kisses" - harder to resist the urge. To the girls who don't like that specifically, it's a natural reaction for many people in an intimate situation. I can't tell you how hard it is for me to resist that when a dancer is in my lap, leaning back across me with her neck right there... But I don't unless she specifically indicates it's okay (has happened many times, in fact I've had dancers ask why I didn't, lol) or initiates it herself.
Re her having other guys spit on her... I hope she keeps herself clean, and I'm picky about the dancers I buy VIP from. Some risk, I guess - but I also don't, as I said, LICK; and not in areas other than the "acceptable on a first date that went to 2nd or 3rd base" ones, lol. And again, it's not "normal" behavior for me, it's "I've bought a lot of dances from this girl for a long time and she said it's okay" behavior for me.
Only had one dancer kiss me on the mouth, and as amazing as that was in some ways, it frankly weirded me out 'cuz that just doesn't happen, lol. She actually blushed and apologized - but she also did it again when I said I was surprised but not complaining, lol.




I have found the some lickers do it to see your reaction, to see if you like or hate it.
The biters do the same but most do it cause of their low opinion of others (I say other cause sometimes its not only female strippers)
Humpers think its cool to get the girl in their lap and hope (If their hiding) to get stroked by the fall.
The finger proding morons just want a free feel or hope you would ask for more. (I mean in these guys minds were are sex crazed and sluts wanted it from everyone) In my opinion they just want their asses kicked.
Not a case solver but a small look. If you think I'm wrong or wish to prove it people step right up, we would love to here your excuses.





I had the WORST LICKER EVER TONIGHT!
Seriously it was like giving a lap dance to a very large horny aggressive dog. I wanted to puke.





Then there are the girls who thrust their nipples into your mouth during a dance... I've learned to keep it shut, lol.
Back in the days before pasties were required, if a dancer put her nipples on my lips, I would warn her that I might lick or suck them if she did it again. When they did it again, I would lick or suck.
I've never licked any other parts. I never even considered licking any other parts.
I actually had once dancer that would let me suck her nipples but she would not let me touch her tits.





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What is the appeal of nipple sucking? I'm not being mean. Just curious why men seem to like it.
Also I know that the "little kisses" may be hard to resist but they make me feel like the scene from Requiem for a Dream; the one where she goes into the bedroom and he grabs her from behind and starts kissing her neck while she has a blank look on her face. Too intimate for me and I feel like I have to shut off to tolerate it.
Last edited by mediocrity; 08-08-2009 at 02:04 PM.





Then don't tolerate it!
Any unwanted contact from a custie is too much, Jay has the right idea.
Like I said before - it may be hard for me to resist the urge that comes very naturally to me, but unless the girl specifies that it's okay, it's NOT. Same should go for any type of contact with any custie; if they don't respect your request, dance over, sorry dude.
As for what sananeko called "finger prodding assholes" - the dancer at Cheetah's had the right idea - boot to the head!





I didn't mean for that to come across at aimed at you Jaded.I only tolerated it when I was very young and felt like I had to and no one had my back.
As for finger prodding assholes, a girl at my club in LV had one, and she grabbed him at hissed "You have three choices. You can get your ass kicked by me, by that bouncer over there or give me an extra $100 for violating me. What's it going to be?!"
He paid her the extra $100.![]()





The kisses thing I think actually is worse for me than being licked. Being licked is disgusting... kissing however is on a whole other level. You wanna get hit? Try and kiss me ITC and see what happens. I can not tolerate this and I actually can't even seem to find the right words about how it makes me feel.
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Going out on a limb here... nipple sucking is a common part of real sex play, at least it's something I've done frequently when my partner seemed to enjoy it, so engaging in that same activity in the club would help make the fantasy seem more real. I mean, think about it, if the dancer tolerates it or encourages it, you'd call it an extra, and then it would be obvious what the appeal is, no?
Or, I'm sure you could come up with a more colorful Freudian explanation as to why men find it sexy to suck on nipples...





Eh, I guess since I hate it even with partners, I don't see the point. It's funny though, because I have small boobs, guys are always like "Oooh, are they sensitive?!" and I'm always like "No, you may as well be licking my elbow." Which is true. But they always seem to assume that.





Med - I didn't think you were aiming it at me, no problem, lol. I responded strongly because inappropriate contact of the girls by custies is a huge pet peeve with me. If a dancer indicates a particular type of contact is okay or outright invites it - and I mean verbally, lol - that's one thing. ANY other contact is NOT, and I can't stand guys that do this. If nothing else, it can put that dancer in a foul mood and ruin the experience for th next guy, LOL!
Weird case in point - a dancer who was infamous for not allowing ANY contact and being quite forceful about it once put my face between her breasts (not my favorite dancer move, lol) during a dance. When I sort of took it and just looked at her like "um okay" she said "you dn't like them?" I replied "I'm more into the dance and looking at you". She pouted and - boobs still in my face - said "well at least give them each a kiss before I move so they feel better". Not that I had a PROBLEM with that - um, I'm a straight guy, duh - but coming from ANY dancer would've raised an eyebrow, and from HER - well, I had no idea what was going on, LOL.
Jay - I have to ask - why is it so awful? not saying you're wron gto think so - your body! - just wondering why that constitutes a worse "violation" than LICKING (ew)?





Not just the licking either... but sniffing in places that simply weren't meant to be sniffed!
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I once knew a dancer who had issues with customers trying to lick her so she sprayed herself with bitter apple stuff they use to stop dogs from chewing on things. There was recently a thread on this idea in the Stripping General Section.
At another extreme I also once heard a dancer say how she used to give her bf a bj before work and then she would spread his ejaculant on her chest. Then when a customer tried to lick her nipple she would just laugh to herself - caveat emptor!
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I have heard something before about it being the connection to fertility and bearing children....that men have a natural animalistic attraction to things that symbolize women's fertility (as in breast feeding, for example....hence the nipple sucking)
Well thanks for A. admitting it. B. Explaining it. I'm glad someone had the balls to come forth and state their case.
And yes, you have a point about a dancer that encourages it or tolerates it.
Alot of girls are going further these days, so it makes it kind of hard for those of us who don't want to be licked or sucked. The common reaction I would get from most guys when I told them to stop was "Why? None of the other girls care!?" and it wasn't BS......95% of the girls at my last club would offer "mini extras" so to speak with their floor dances.
Doesn't make it right, but.....l
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