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    im giving up hope about finding a decent place that hires 19 year olds in nyc.

    i went to this place in queens that seemed nice, if a bit slow. the dj told me that the schedule is extremely flexible and showed me the vip area, a small room with couches. he was like, its very controlled there are cameras. i didnt ask but he showed thm to me

    i tipped and ended up talking to 1 girl. she said she'd walked out of there with only $5 but also with $600. she said shed been harassed once, and that the bouncer kicked him out.

    now. i know its not good to trust club reviews all the time but i researched this place and EVERY review is bad. its like a full on extras place, seriously, check out the link.

    http://www.stripclublist.com/m.asp?c=15217

    im very confident and want to work at ricks or scores but im not 21 yet.. i dont know if i should work at this place or not. i really need to find an ok place in nyc, i feel like im running out of options.

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    Default Re: dammit now im scared of working

    Please don't work somewhere ridden with extras. You probably don't need to strip either ....I don't know your life. I would try it one night and see if it is for you. You can always just walk out and leave if you are not comfortable or you see something illegal ect. please just be safe and know you personal lines and do not cross them. Good Luck honey and be safe in whatever you do. Stripping because you feel like you have to is a terrible idea. This job is to hard and if you don't love it then you will be miserable, if you are miserable you will likely not make money. Guys don't go into the club thinking"Gee I want that really sad looking girl in the corner."Like I said be safe most importantly.
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    i really would like this job..its not something i came up with on a whim or imagined getting rich from. however, i dont live with my parents so at this point finding a club would be very helpful. i worked in a crappy place for a week or so, but i couldnt deal with a manager completely condoning extras so i quit. ive just read that sometimes a lot of extras go on but girls manage to do well if they ignore it and the manager isnt a complete dick.

    i look forward to finding a clean place. any ideas?

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    I know many people in NYC don't have cars but is going to CT an option for you? You might like it a little better.
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    Wait, or travel. It is NOT worth it to start your dancing endeavours in a nasty club. Trust that from someone who has been there, done that.

    I wish I started in a nice club. With all my heart I wish I had.

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    Default Re: dammit now im scared of working

    I work in one club with a lot of extras, and started there, but it is an upscale club. I make good $. Honestly I think it is sad how many girls do extras because they seem to think they cannot make money otherise. I make the same tips as some of the girls doing hjs!

    But if you are looking at a place that is really just a front for a brothel, that is a different thing. Honestly though you really won't figure it out until you work. I pretty much just ignore the girls doing extras and sometimes the customers get to me, but that is just something you will have to deal with in any club you work at in this industry, as is asshole managers.

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    Default Re: dammit now im scared of working

    Scores on 28th hires 18 and up

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    thank you so much for the responses! driving isnt an option right now. im going to work there but if it IS a complete extras place im leaving. hopefully it was just a bunch of assholes who review strip clubs when theyre bored.

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    Default Re: dammit now im scared of working

    I also agree with the "avoid the extras clubs" philosophy. I'm not familiar with NYC laws, but am I correct to assume that topless clubs with alcohol are over 21 and nude juice bars are 18+
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    i think they are supposed to work like that, but people have said a few (secretly) dont. im not risking my butt to work in a club like that though, even if its a great one. i simply wouldnt want to deal with the trouble if i or the club was fined.

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    Default Re: dammit now im scared of working

    I have worked at Wiggles, along with many other NYC clubs. Let me say this. Where the privacy of the VIP / Champagne room is concerned, Wiggles is no worse than any other NYC club.

    Actually, Wiggles' management is VERY protective of the dancers. But it does help if you can speak Russian LOL !

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    i feel so much better knowing that. thank you melonie!

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    I wouldn't trust SCL. According to that site, every club I've worked in is extras ridden, and I know first hand that's not the case.
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    Default Re: dammit now im scared of working

    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    I wouldn't trust SCL. According to that site, every club I've worked in is extras ridden, and I know first hand that's not the case.
    Ditto.

    I work at a 21+ strip club upstate, but they will hire girls who are 18+; they just can't drink. I don't think I could work at the local nude clubs; I've heard bad, bad things about all of them. I would just visit local clubs and ask the girls there what the deal is. Or check out the reviews section on this website; the reviews are much more likely to be accurate.

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