I work at a topless club on day shift. On my 3rd shift I wore a black tube dress with black full lingerie lace undies. I was talking to a well dressed custy at the bar (he didn't buy me a drink). He talked about how his ex-wife is a stripper in Houston making great $$ (flag, I recall this from the time wasters thread). Anyway he started talking about how we were trying to hustle him (another flag). He calmly grabs the top of my dress, pulls it down to see one of my breast, and pulls it back up. Then he starts to tell me about how I have a great body but I'm not doing good advertising. I was seriously about to change but I had to be on stage. He walks up to the stage (I'm thinking he's going to tip me) to say he's leaving and tips my garter ($1 i found out when I walked off stage).
I had another guy come in the same shift wanted and did see my breasts, grab my ass, and want me to touch his dick through his pants. He bought another dancer a commissioned drink during this. She walked up to him covered his mouth with her hand and told the bartender what she wanted. I asked if he wanted a dance,told him my price, and that I like to be paid for the first dance. Well, he makes a stank about it so I asked the dancer he bought a drink for if his credit was good enough to let him pay after the dance. She said yes so we headed back. He bought 2 dances and paid but wanted to move my body around like a fuck doll so he could bust. I tried dancing and told me don't work against me.
I need advice in setting up boundaries so custys don't feel comfy enough to just pull down my dress to see my breasts or grab my ass without permission.
How much should a custy be able to touch, grab, or see when he is so called "thinking about buying" or bottom line hasn't bought a CR,LD, CD(Commissioned drink), or tipped you for your time?
Is it worth the time to deal with cheap custys that want to cum in their pants without buying you a CD, tipping, or 1 LP? I'd rather work on my floor & pole moves instead for better advertising for better custys.
If a custy is too cheap to buy you a drink, is it better to just ask about the LD and move on because none of them have ever tipped me for my time but wanted to touch and see my breasts? (It is illegal to ask a custy to buy you a drink in my state)
I have no problem talking or getting the custy talking into a good conversation but am horrible at getting them to tip for my time & hint about drinks. Any lines or suggestions?
I have become a tiny bit jaded because the reality of guys wanting to use me for little to no $ in the club and then have the balls to hint around about fucking me OTC ticks me off. I just need some strategies to cut it short with these jerks as soon as they reveal themselves.![]()



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if your inclined to sit, sit down with your legs crossed pointed towards him. (It sounds like customers at your club like to grope without asking, so at least make it physically difficult for them to do so, by sitting in a position that would discourage it.)
In my experience when I'm wearing booty shorts and my ass is just out there it is more likely it will get grabbed then when its covered in a dress or mini skirt. hth

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