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    I gave it a week and it's still pissing me off.

    I always ask for a dance halfway through a song and try to get the guy back to our private dance area the second he agrees but they often dilly dally and then agree. Understood, not usually a problem, and if they agree more than a couple of seconds into the next song I will wait for the next song to start to dance for them. Once we are back there I can almost always get more than one song out of them so waiting isn't hurting me much. But if the song has been on for only a few seconds I will go ahead and start UNLESS they object at which point I will gladly wait and just get them back there and find a spot and talk until the next song starts so they can't change their mind. Make sense?

    Last week I got a dance, song was a few seconds in so I got started. Guy said nothing. He didn't seem to enjoy the dance. I should have asked what was wrong but assumed that he wasn't happy because he wasn't getting extras or didn't like how I was dancing. I tried to change things up, to no avail. End song, no more dances wanted so off I go to make more money. One hour later another dancer comes over and says she has to talk to me and I go over with her to this same guy thinking maybe he wants us both to dance or something.

    Turns out the guy was her man and is pissed that I didn't wait for the next song to start. But he said nothing at the time of the damn dance!

    I gave him his money back. Not worth the drama. I make more than her all the time anyway. No big fucking loss.

    I think it's ridiculous. Stupid bitch.

    Leave your man at home.

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    S/he made you give him his money back?

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    I got so tired of that crap at my last club. It was rampant.

    It got to the point where I would almost be afraid to ask anyone for dances in fear of them being someone's damned boyfriend. And there was no such thing as avoiding drama when talking to or dancing for any of those bitches BF's. There would always be an issue no matter what. I had it happen once and that was enough for me. From then on, if I found out your girl was my co-worker...no dances, no chit-chat, I am avoiding you completely...sorry dude.

    IMO boyfriends/husbands/baby's dads, whatever, have NO PLACE hanging out in the fucking club when their girl is working.

    UNLESS both parties are mature enough to handle it and don't cause problems, which, of course most people are not.

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    Oh screw that! I wouldnt have given the money back and if they had anything to say about it..let management know hes her bf and kicked him out. Fuck that drama.

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    This is fucking stupid.
    Stripping is the only job where someone's SO can just hang around for no reason.

    You're at work. You wouldn't bring your boyfriend to your office to sit around all day. So don't bring him to your club to sit around all day.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CKXXX View Post
    Oh screw that! I wouldnt have given the money back and if they had anything to say about it..let management know hes her bf and kicked him out. Fuck that drama.
    yup, i agree
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    I gave the money back because I just didn't care enough to deal with more stupidity. The potential for extra stupidity with her talking shit to other dancers or customers and potentially fucking with my money really just wasn't worth what ultimately is a small amount to me. I know a lot of you wouldn't have but I seriously just didn't care about the money.

    On that note I'm off to make some money, Monday night or no.

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    What was he doing there in the first place?! I wouldnt have given the money back and I wouldve said something to the manager. I don't know about the rules at the club your working in, but all the clubs Ive worked in do not allow boyfriends. Maybe it would keep his ass out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rareaspasia View Post
    I gave the money back because I just didn't care enough to deal with more stupidity. The potential for extra stupidity with her talking shit to other dancers or customers and potentially fucking with my money really just wasn't worth what ultimately is a small amount to me. I know a lot of you wouldn't have but I seriously just didn't care about the money..
    It's all good. I probably would have done the same thing. I am a non-confrontationalist big time.

    Being that way can also make people think you are a push over....don't let anyone run over you.

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    well, me and ckxxx, we're from jersey- confrontation is how we roll
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    Does she even realize she is dating an a-hole customer?




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    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    Does she even realize she is dating an a-hole customer?
    I honestly don't know, she doesn't seem very bright. But assholes tend to like assholes; I'm sure they're happy as clams together. Someday they'll have little asshole babies and an asshole dog and an asshole cat and they'll be the perfect nuclear asshole family.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rareaspasia View Post
    I honestly don't know, she doesn't seem very bright. But assholes tend to like assholes; I'm sure they're happy as clams together. Someday they'll have little asshole babies and an asshole dog and an asshole cat and they'll be the perfect nuclear asshole family.
    *chuckles*

    Sorry, but this bit just made me laugh, mostly 'cause it's true.
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