I gave it a week and it's still pissing me off.
I always ask for a dance halfway through a song and try to get the guy back to our private dance area the second he agrees but they often dilly dally and then agree. Understood, not usually a problem, and if they agree more than a couple of seconds into the next song I will wait for the next song to start to dance for them. Once we are back there I can almost always get more than one song out of them so waiting isn't hurting me much. But if the song has been on for only a few seconds I will go ahead and start UNLESS they object at which point I will gladly wait and just get them back there and find a spot and talk until the next song starts so they can't change their mind. Make sense?
Last week I got a dance, song was a few seconds in so I got started. Guy said nothing. He didn't seem to enjoy the dance. I should have asked what was wrong but assumed that he wasn't happy because he wasn't getting extras or didn't like how I was dancing. I tried to change things up, to no avail. End song, no more dances wanted so off I go to make more money. One hour later another dancer comes over and says she has to talk to me and I go over with her to this same guy thinking maybe he wants us both to dance or something.
Turns out the guy was her man and is pissed that I didn't wait for the next song to start. But he said nothing at the time of the damn dance!
I gave him his money back. Not worth the drama. I make more than her all the time anyway. No big fucking loss.
I think it's ridiculous. Stupid bitch.
Leave your man at home.



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