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    i am twenty two years old and people tell me all the time that i look like im sixteen years old. Does anyone have "little girl" looks and do you think it helps or hurts your tips?

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    I look pretty young and people often don't believe I'm old enough to work at a strip club (or so they say). From time to time I used to wear piggy tails and do the whole naughty school girl thing on top of already looking young. What I noticed was that it increased my stage tips, but made it more difficult for me to sell dances. My theory is that the customers did indeed like it, but that my looking young made them feel guilty (I had several customers tell me they couldn't get a dance because I looked young enough to be their daughter).

    On the stage they are somewhat removed. They can be attracted, admire and fantasize without feeling they have done anything wrong. After all they are just an observer. Kind of like if their daughter brought over a hot friend. Looking and aknowledging her hotness wouldn't be a sin, but acting would. I think for most guys getting a dance is the boundary-line that turns them from observer to active participant, thus making them feel guilty/ as if what they are doing is wrong.

    That's just my analysis.

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    thanks i never looked at it that way thats an interesting observation....

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    I also look really young, so if customers havent talked to me for very long they assume I'm barely 18 or illegally working. But if they talk to me for a bit, they usually think I'm older and are surprised when I tell them my age.

    I don't know if looking older would make more money. My personality is more fun/bubbly/friendly/energetic than sexy so I think it works for me.

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    Do your makeup (glamourise) as in playboy or glamour model,It will Help you look older.Alexis vogel is a famous makeup artist,you should go to her website for ideas.
    good luck

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    Considering that there's a strip club here called "Barely Legal," and that they used to have the VIP rooms done up like little girl bedrooms (CREEPY), I can only assume looking young would be an asset.

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    What matters most is if you confident with that look... and it kind of sounds like you're not. You'll find on here what you wear, how you look, etc. don't matter NEAR AS MUCH as how you talk to a guy and your confidence level. With that being said, try some different looks and see which one makes you feel the most confident.

    It sounds like you're going to look really young no matter how you dress, so either way you will attract the type of guys who like young looking girls. The pig tails and whatever else just intensifies your already young look. If you feel sexy with the pigtails school girl look, then go for it. The money will follow if you feel sexy and confident.
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    Men are perverts. If 14 year olds were allowed to strip, they would make TONS of money. You'll be fine. The sign says "GIRLS GIRLS GIRLS" not "WOMEN WOMEN WOMEN".

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    The sign says "GIRLS GIRLS GIRLS" not "WOMEN WOMEN WOMEN".

    hahaha. So true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brina182 View Post
    Do your makeup (glamourise) as in playboy or glamour model,It will Help you look older.Alexis vogel is a famous makeup artist,you should go to her website for ideas.
    good luck
    Definately glam up the makeup. I look 15 without makeup, and I'm 24. I did the schoolgirl thing at work for awhile, but ultimately it's better to get amazingly glamorous makeup. Think of it this way, if they can make 5 year olds look 20+ at pagents, so can you. That way you have a HOT face and a TIGHT body. Cha-CHING!

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    it's been nothing but an asset in my experience; I wouldnt worry too much.

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    Looking almost 10 years younger than I really am has never hurt my money. Guys want hot young girls. That's why they're paying us to be all over them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by magenta View Post
    I look pretty young and people often don't believe I'm old enough to work at a strip club (or so they say). From time to time I used to wear piggy tails and do the whole naughty school girl thing on top of already looking young. What I noticed was that it increased my stage tips, but made it more difficult for me to sell dances. My theory is that the customers did indeed like it, but that my looking young made them feel guilty (I had several customers tell me they couldn't get a dance because I looked young enough to be their daughter).

    On the stage they are somewhat removed. They can be attracted, admire and fantasize without feeling they have done anything wrong. After all they are just an observer. Kind of like if their daughter brought over a hot friend. Looking and aknowledging her hotness wouldn't be a sin, but acting would. I think for most guys getting a dance is the boundary-line that turns them from observer to active participant, thus making them feel guilty/ as if what they are doing is wrong.

    That's just my analysis.
    Hey I get the same exact experience...Some of them tell me they feel guilty and the whole young enough to be my daughter thing.
    But on the other end of the spectrum some guys love it and take me straight to VIp without having to talk/hussle much. Ultimately I think all men like younger, but only some dare to act on it.

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    School girl outfit yes, pigtails no. Underage may "look" hot, but most men would feel uncomfortable pursuing it if it's too believable.




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