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    Ok... so here is the deal... I am like most people and am going to get into stripping because well... I need the money. I'm currently in Medical school and don't have time to get a real job because all I do is study. I am a very attractive girl, 24 years old, 5'9, long blonde hair, size 4 with 34 DD, and a pretty face (if this interests you I can send pictures but I can't post them on here because of the patients I see).
    Anyway, I live in KC and can not strip in the area, nor do I have the money to go buying hotel rooms everywhere... I am looking for someone who would like to take me under their wing, and for helping me, I would be willing to give you 20% of what I make.
    I am not looking for someone who just wants to make money off of me... but someone who is a good person and knows what they are talking about. If you are wanting to ever come to KC, I am more than willing to provide a place to stay... as I live downtown by some of the really good spots. We can work out the details if you are interested... but I really am just needing help and willing to help someone out in return!!

    Feel free to reply here or shoot me a message!

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    Listen, this is a really weird, and potentially dangerous, way to go about asking for help. Why would you come on these boards looking for someone to pimp you?

    If you need help, I'm sure there are plenty of dancers on this board, myself included, who will advise you for free. There's a ton of info here. These boards provide all the information a new dancer could ever need--and they don't cost anything.

    Frankly, your post seems kind of trollish to me, but I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt.

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    No one, out of the kindness of their heart, is going to train and develop their own competition.

    Be very careful! You are putting up a great big beacon that says "Hey serial killers, willing victim here!"


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Seriously, you are every pimp's wet dream right now. Be careful. You are going to have to learn the ins and outs of the industry on your own, maybe you'll get lucky and have a more seasoned dancer help you AT THE CLUB, but that's it.
    Quote Originally Posted by AznExtasy View Post
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    You can say that again.. not just on here but men in general. Guys are so damn lame, the only way they can halfway make up for it is by opening their wallets.

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    Stripping isn't as complicated as you're scared it is. You look nice, go to work, talk to people, and sell. That's it. You don't need on the job training.

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    Although I agree with most of you that the OP is a pimp's wet dream as in my travels I am hearing sooooooo much that the girls out there are controlled by a "Daddy"! However, I do applaud anyone trying to get into this biz starting on the right foot! I mean, how many newbies do you see out there that buy their outfits @ Walmart, don't know how to properly shave, have no idea how to put on makeup, haven't taken a dance class in their lives, and most importantly- don't know how to sell! So, OP- thank you for your request of help!

    I am willing to offer it, but- I am not willing to come to KC for you- SORRY! I know you are in school and as stated you do not have cash for travel. I do understand, but the only way I would be willing to work with you is if you came to me in Tampa Bay, FL. I have been teaching exotic dance and pole dancing for years and happen to be YES- a 15 yr veteran of the biz. Please give me a shout and we can talk over the possibilities of working together.

    I look forward to hearing from you!
    Nakita

    P.S. I wouldn't take your 20%

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    Is this even for real??

    Quality, low-priced stripper clothes and stripper shoes

    15% discount using code: STRIPPERWEB at checkout! FREE SHIPPING

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    ^ I know, it sounds like some guy's whack fantasy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BuxomBeauty View Post
    Is this even for real??
    Probably not. But just in case...


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Join stripandgrowrich.com, tell them goreantx referred you, that's all the compensation I ask for setting you up with all the knowledge you'll need to bank as a stripper.
    Yes, I'm real.

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    Get in your car and find a club far enough away from home but close enough to drive to. Stay in a hostel. Look hot and go in and work. Call a close friend with info about where you are and when you expect to be off work. Don't tell people you meet you are a stripper. Don't meet up with anyone you meet in the club outside of the club. You don't need help from anyone. Gas money + hostel stay might be 20% of what you make .... but if you watch your expenses .... your total travel costs could be less than 20% of what you make this way. If you make $250 a night for example and your hostel stay is only $25 ..... that's only 10% to that and a little more for gas.

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    You sound like a very attractive woman. Just use your common sense and you'll be fine. Avoid people that seem creepy, weird, or crazy (that goes for custies and staff), don't turn work into a "party", mind your own biz, don't waste time of custies that aren't paying you, be respectful to custies that respect you and bounce the ones that don't, and don't trust anyone at first. There's no magic formula to making money as a newbie dancer, so just go where it leads and always maintain your own boundaries.

    Good luck!




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    Ok first of all, I'm not retarded... I know that you don't just give people money. The purpose of giving someone money to help me out is because no one in their right mind would help someone coming to the same club as them unless they had a good reason. The people that believe this is a "pimps wet dream" are exactly the people I am NOT looking for. I am sorry that some of you have had the experience of being taken advantage of, or perhaps dealt with dishonest people... as with any industry, they exist... but I would like to think that there are still a few people out there who are not... I am a business woman... and I'm asking for help because I want to make real money... anyone can go out on their own and make money if they are decent looking... but I can't make the money that people with years of experience can. It just makes me sad that you can't believe that honest, good looking, intelligent women wouldn't want the same type to do well... I mean if you really think about it... the better looking the girls at the club, the higher the clientele that come in. This may seem like some niave girl who is just waiting to find a "serial killer" ... maybe you should give me the benefit of the doubt that I'm not retarded and I know the difference between someone who is genuine and someone who is not.

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    P.S. For those of you who have actually given constructive advice... thank you...

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    Too many ellipsis. Too few periods.

    I mean, you do realize how ridiculous this is, right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brainsincluded View Post
    Ok first of all, I'm not retarded... I know that you don't just give people money. The purpose of giving someone money to help me out is because no one in their right mind would help someone coming to the same club as them unless they had a good reason. The people that believe this is a "pimps wet dream" are exactly the people I am NOT looking for. I am sorry that some of you have had the experience of being taken advantage of, or perhaps dealt with dishonest people... as with any industry, they exist... but I would like to think that there are still a few people out there who are not... I am a business woman... and I'm asking for help because I want to make real money... anyone can go out on their own and make money if they are decent looking... but I can't make the money that people with years of experience can. It just makes me sad that you can't believe that honest, good looking, intelligent women wouldn't want the same type to do well... I mean if you really think about it... the better looking the girls at the club, the higher the clientele that come in. This may seem like some niave girl who is just waiting to find a "serial killer" ... maybe you should give me the benefit of the doubt that I'm not retarded and I know the difference between someone who is genuine and someone who is not.
    Well, anyone can post on here, and it looks like you haven't posted much, so I really don't know much about you. I didn't mean to come off as harsh saying that, but it's the truth. Yes, there are honest genuine, good looking women in the industry, but they are few and far between. This is an industry based around sin and lust, and you have to have your guard up when going into it. People you think are your friends are really just looking out for themselves. I could go on and on about this but......

    As far as pimps, in Las Vegas and in New Orleans I've found that the most beautiful, well dressed, articulate girls have pimps. You would be really surprised, and with some of the statements you made, it just seems you would be susceptible to falling into this trap. Just my opinion.

    My best advice to you, coming from a girl who has danced for five years in New York, Vegas, New Orleans, Texas, Miami, at the best clubs, invest in DancerWealth (stripandgrowrich.com). The founder of that interactive website/forum is a member on here, her name is Britney Ireland, and I know that she will give you on the job training, if she's in your city. Getting in touch with her would be your best bet. I'm always hearing rave reviews about her program. Also, check out the newbie section and Hustle Hut. Good luck! And don't give anybody any percentage of your money EVER!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    Too many ellipsis. Too few periods.

    I mean, you do realize how ridiculous this is, right?
    I read some of her old posts, maybe she's legit, but still needs to change her mindset before getting into this business, or she will be taken advantage of QUICK
    Quote Originally Posted by AznExtasy View Post
    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    You can say that again.. not just on here but men in general. Guys are so damn lame, the only way they can halfway make up for it is by opening their wallets.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brainsincluded View Post
    The people that believe this is a "pimps wet dream" are exactly the people I am NOT looking for.
    This is a flat out stupid statement. The people who have told you that you are a "pimps wet dream" did so because they actually care and they took the time out of their day to point this out to you so that you wouldn't get hurt. So try not to insult the people who are actually looking out for you.

    A pimp or someone who is looking to take advantage of you is not going to announce themselves. They're not going to tell you "Hey bitch, I be a pimp and I is here to beat on you and takes your monies!"

    NO. They are going to be nice to you and pretend to be your friend, and tell you how mean all those girls on stripper web are for calling you stupid when you were only reaching out for help...

    You know what, I don't even care. You came here asking for help and people with more experience tried to warn you and instead of taking their advice, you spat in their faces and called them bitter. You'll learn on your own, or you won't, I just really don't care about mouthy little girls with bad attitudes anymore.

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    Mouthy little girl? Really? I mean I understand the people saying those things were giving "advice"... but I'm aware there are nasty people out there... I wasn't asking people to tell me what a bad idea it was. Honestly, if someone wants to try and screw me over... they are actually screwing themselves... because in 3 years I'll be a surgeon, and in a business where beauty is power... having me as a friend probably wouldn't hurt. I do research before I do anything, and I am not looking to be pimped... I'm simply offering a percentage in return for letting me borrow outfits and to ensure that the advice I get is good. I'm not looking to make a career of stripping... I just need a weekend gig that is minimal hours and will not get in the way when I'm on call or studying.
    So again, thank you for the good advice, but if anyone posts in the future... I am not asking if people think this is a good idea... it is an offer... and if you are not interested... do not respond.
    And for anyone who is concerned, thank you, but please trust I'm an educated woman, who has worked through a lot of BS to get where I am. I just do not have the luxury of time... and I guess I assumed that incentives would be a good way to get a fast response out of people. Apparently I was wrong...

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    You are a surgeon in training shopping the internet for a pimp.

    Think about that for awhile.

    The only people who are going to respond to you are those who want to take advantage of you. If you can't figure that out then I don't think you're capable of obtaining the degree that you are studying for.

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    ^^This is a very cut throat business. A person that is a self starter, independent and just doesn't give a crap what other people think about her can make a really good living as a stripper. But requesting help from complete strangers on an internet forum to "learn" how to become stripper indicates just how little you know about the biz.

    This is a business that mostly operates outside the law. Please be very careful. People who do what you just did end up dead or in jail in this business.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I hope you took my advice ....... I mean..... you can do what I suggested if you are serious. You really don't need anyone to help you be a stripper.
    I was dancing when my day job was already paying for flights and hotels for my business trips, so the only expenses I had going out were cabs. If I wasn't " backed " via day job while traveing .... I would have done exactly as I suggested to you.
    I worked my ass off while stripping. In order to not have extra costs, I worked during the day and then would go get sexy and dance. I sometimes put in a 16-17 hour day. Sometimes my day gig would keep me in an area if it was cheaper than flying me home and back and those rare occasions where the only times I worked regular 8 hour days when dancing.

    I couldn't do that for very long ...........

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    Do be careful with couchsurfing.com-

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...ravellers.html

    And I just wanted to add that as a newbie myself its pretty tough at the moment and the earnings don't seem to be what they were in most cases- so brace yourself!

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    Of course you should be careful. Any time you meet strangers you should be careful. As a woman traveling alone you even need to be careful staying by yourself in a hotel or hostel.

    Like I said, go for the ones with references. Check out the references. See whether they seem legit and what gender they are and whether they were guests or hosts. If you at all feel uncomfortable, get out. I've been using it to travel over the past month and have only had good experiences. But I've also been careful about who I've met.

    If I went traveling and met someone at a bar, that is risky. Even more so because at least on CS the site keeps track of the exchanges and there are references. Every time I enter the VIP room with a custie I am also taking a risk. Yes there are bouncers, but if I sell a half hour room I am naked with minimal supervision with a stranger for a full half hour. And lots wierdos come to the clubs.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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