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    Angry bouncer RANT!

    Ok so normally table dances are $20 but saturday nights they are only $10. I normally dont work saturday nights bc of this but needed the money.

    Anyway, I do 2 table dances for this guy and he only gives me $10. I said "Excuse me, u owe me another $10". This asshole says, "Oh I thought they were $5, this is all i have" and walks away! So I immediately get one of the bouncers and tell him what happened. As he goes over to the asshole guy I go on stage.

    When I get back I asked the bouncer if he got my $$$. He looks at me and says "I'm not gonna fight some guy for $10". I say, "Are u serious? Your not even gonna kick him out or do anything?" He says, "Yeah I told him he could leave after he finishes his beer". I got so mad I went outside and had a cigarette the bitched in the DR. The usual manager wasnt there and the one working tonight seemed to be friends with this bouncer.

    When I left, The bouncer comes up to me and says, "Look I cant fight anyone its against the rules, and it was only $10". I said, "Well its not about the money, its the fact that u didnt even care to look out for me and I wouldve told u to keep it anywayif u had". He tells me next time to get the $$ up front and doesnt even bother to walk me to my car at 2 am.

    I guess I learned my lesson. Dont trust anyone and always get $$ up front.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine22 View Post
    Ok so normally table dances are $20 but saturday nights they are only $10. I normally dont work saturday nights bc of this but needed the money.

    Anyway, I do 2 table dances for this guy and he only gives me $10. I said "Excuse me, u owe me another $10". This asshole says, "Oh I thought they were $5, this is all i have" and walks away! So I immediately get one of the bouncers and tell him what happened. As he goes over to the asshole guy I go on stage.

    When I get back I asked the bouncer if he got my $$$. He looks at me and says "I'm not gonna fight some guy for $10". I say, "Are u serious? Your not even gonna kick him out or do anything?" He says, "Yeah I told him he could leave after he finishes his beer". I got so mad I went outside and had a cigarette the bitched in the DR. The usual manager wasnt there and the one working tonight seemed to be friends with this bouncer.

    When I left, The bouncer comes up to me and says, "Look I cant fight anyone its against the rules, and it was only $10". I said, "Well its not about the money, its the fact that u didnt even care to look out for me and I wouldve told u to keep it anywayif u had". He tells me next time to get the $$ up front and doesnt even bother to walk me to my car at 2 am.

    I guess I learned my lesson. Dont trust anyone and always get $$ up front.
    he probably cant fight the guy... but the guy shouldnt have been allowed to stay. Do you typcially tip the bouncers? If you do they should have your back. The ones at my club certainly do. If you arent tipping them you should start for this purpose. The way i see it is maybe they dont help you make money, but when the time comes when you need them (you might really need them one day too, not just over 10$ but over your safety), you want them to have your back.

    However if you are tipping them and they act like this i would lower their tips. Or just dont tip this particular bouncer. If they dont have your back then you dont have theirs.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    he probably cant fight the guy... but the guy shouldnt have been allowed to stay. Do you typcially tip the bouncers? If you do they should have your back. The ones at my club certainly do. If you arent tipping them you should start for this purpose. The way i see it is maybe they dont help you make money, but when the time comes when you need them (you might really need them one day too, not just over 10$ but over your safety), you want them to have your back.

    However if you are tipping them and they act like this i would lower their tips. Or just dont tip this particular bouncer. If they dont have your back then you dont have theirs.

    Thats the thing I ALWAYS tip the bouncers, even just for walking me to my car. All he had to do was get my $$ or kick him out. I know it was only $10, but he shouldve done his job. hes never getting a tip from me again

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine22 View Post
    Thats the thing I ALWAYS tip the bouncers, even just for walking me to my car. All he had to do was get my $$ or kick him out. I know it was only $10, but he shouldve done his job. hes never getting a tip from me again
    i agree. Yea i cant believe he let the guy finish his beer. This guy never would have been able to do that at my club. I one time had one guy run out without paying me for dances at my club (ive had more than 1 guy try but only1 succeeded) because i had to go on stage right after i was done dancing. I told hte bouncer to take care of it... He told teh guy he had to pay or leave; the guy chose the leaving option and the bouncer actually tried to stop him from driving his car away. This is a little exessive, but i would expect your bouncers to at least intimidate the guy so if he refused to pay he would not sit back and comfortably dirnk his beer.

    another thing i do is when i need the bouncers to get my money and htey do so successfully i give them at least 10$ for doing so (dances are 20 at my club). I honestly appreciate them properly doing their job.

    but yea, fuck that bouncer. if he asks for a tip i would remind him that he didnt have your back or care about your money so you dont give a fuck about him or his money
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Did you talk to the manager? I'm surprised a club would tolerate a custy NOT paying. He would've been digging gravel out of his ass if he tried to pull that shit w/me!

    Getting paid upfront is always a good rule of thumb. I can't stand people who consume a service they can't afford. Damn oxygen-thieves!

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    This happened to me last night (but I got paid).

    I think my bouncers just think I can get the money on my own and so don't bother. This guy owed me $200 but was telling me "I only have $80 dollars... there's no way to get out of this?" I was like motherfucker I do not have a return policy!

    I got his friend to pay me eventually but it wasted an hour of my night. I normally would have been more clear about each dollar adding up, but his friend had obvious $ and told me "go take my friend in the back, he's never been a strip club before. I'm down to spend $ so just show him a good time." And then he was telling me his friend wasn't going to pay for them he was...

    I got one of the bouncers to come over but he was so half assed about it it pissed me off. Afterwards I snapped at him about it and he told me "but you always get your money." This is true but it doesn't mean you don't have to do your job and help me when I tip you GOOD asshole! This was the closest I've gotten to really not thinking I was gonna get paid, and nobody had my back.

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    last night i got into an argument with the bouncer doing the books over whether i had tipped out or not. it pissed me off.

    we need to get really buff lesbians to be bouncers. those girls would understand and appreciate us and our time, and our money, and take good care of us. lol.

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    Bullshit. Finish his beer? You've got to be kidding me. If you stiff a dancer, you should be told to leave immediately. I don't care whether a girl tips a bouncer or not, the bouncer still has to do his job, that is why he is being paid. The managers had to tell bouncers not to run after guys into the parking lot at my club! Which I agree because that is dangerous. I would never want anyone to risk physical harm, no matter how much money was owed. But he should have told him to get the fuck out at the very least. You shouldn't tip him out anymore, especially since he got really shitty and did not walk you out to your car.
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    Last night at my club, two of the bouncers literally picked a guy up and dragged him out after he refused to pay a dancer the $60 that he owed for dances. I was awestruck. Most places either the bouncers couldn't care less, or the management tells them not to do anything because they'd rather have the profit from a beer than look out for their workers.

    I'm sorry that bouncer didn't have your back. I definitely wouldn't tip him anymore, if you can get away with that.

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    Where I work we don't tip the bouncer and he stays on the door unless we need him, this is a very small place with a different set up, guys have to give us £1 every time we go on stage and yes the bouncer will march out a guy if he don't pay us a £1, I don't understand why someone would not do the job they are being paid to do, this would piss me off!.
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    I can't believe he didn't fucking walk you to your car. A bouncer at my club would be fired for that. That is seriously so messed up. You could have been raped or worse because he was acting like a pissy little kid. If you have a good reputation with the other management I would say something because he might pull that shit with another girl and again she might get hurt.

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    I have since moved on to another club. Not just bc of this but other reasons. Now the bouncers at my new place HAVE to walk you to your car and stand outside at the end of the night. Im much happier now and feel a lot safer

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine22 View Post
    I have since moved on to another club. Not just bc of this but other reasons. Now the bouncers at my new place HAVE to walk you to your car and stand outside at the end of the night. Im much happier now and feel a lot safer
    glad to hear, you deserve better than that other club

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