OK SO ive never stripped before and i really want to do it so im wondering does being horny at work increase your tips? do you find that when your not feeling horny or sexy that you make less money?![]()

OK SO ive never stripped before and i really want to do it so im wondering does being horny at work increase your tips? do you find that when your not feeling horny or sexy that you make less money?![]()





You will learn very quickly that sex has NOTHING to do with it. Your customers won't turn you on. 99.5% of them I don't even want to be near. And very rarely do I feel "sexy" at work. Hustling is what will make you money.
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I wish the men i danced for were hot enough to get me horny! I could be so turned on and feel so sexy when I walk in the dressing room....that disappears the minute I go on the floor and see all the nasty guys lol.

i guess that means a lot of pretending like your interested when your really not...... lol sounds hard to do




going to work horny does not increase my tips, it decreases them cause all i can think about is fucking my man when i get home.
however, going to work AFTER we've fucked, thats a whole different story. i am more relaxed and happy and this makes my customers more relaxed and happy.





The only thing going to work horny does for me is ruin my horny mood. lol




I have gone to work horny and it really went away once I got there. Most times I just have sex before going to work.
However I am not a great hustler so I rely on my sex appeal and charisma to get dances. I am a great actress though and really good at pretending to be horny and that increases my tips. Smiling a lot and flirting helps. While doing lapdances, pretending that you are really into it, having fun and acting as if you are very excited or turned on by them is very fun for them and they will buy more and more dances and even take you to VIP.





depends on the dancer. some find the keyed-up state keeps them aggressive and hustling-- others find it doesn't matter one way or the other.
there are probably differences based on contact levels and presence or lack of extras.





I think it helps. Where I work guys want to believe the fantasy not just think they're being hustled by some money hungry stripper. I get horny when I'm tipsy. The guys love it and I make more money. Where I work there are plenty of good looking guys that come in too so it's not hard.



Counting all my money at the end of the night turns me on. As does meeting/exceeding my personal goals for the night.![]()
Last edited by minalynx; 08-17-2009 at 05:44 AM.




oh newbie, you have sooo much to learn...
These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?
Not for me. Actually, I earn less money because I spend too much time with guys I find attractive, instead of looking for customers that want dances.
Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!

ive only auditioned once at a club and when i danced for the owner and the bouncer it was completely akward...the owner left me alone to dance for the bouncer and i didnt feel like i was being sexual at all but the bouncer looked happy lol



i'm pretty good at faking horniness... I've done webcam on and off for about a year and have been dancing for 4 months... guys cannot tell the difference![]()

lol men are dummies![]()




I only make better money because I hustle my ass off so I can get the hell out of there and go home to a man who loves me and not my tits and ass. Though he loves those too, LOL. But yeah, like the others have said, I do not find the job arousing. Being viewed as an object does not turn me on. I will say that calling my guy and telling him how much I made is a turn on. "Hey, I had a great night, let me know what Xbox game you want!"





Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be



me too! i love texting him with "I'm up to $250 and it's only midnight!" or "let's go get a nice breakfast tomorrow since we're both off, my treat" or waltzing in the door when I get home with the announcement that I made way more than enough to cover rent and am putting the rest in the bank. He texts me about how much he misses me at night and all that cutesy stuff.
I get more turned on staring at my phone in the dressing room or getting paid for dances than I do any other point anywhere else in the club![]()





For me it does. There are sometimes when my sex drive goes way up for a few days for no apparent reason before going back to normal. It still stays elevated at work even though I don't want to fick the customers. Work doesn't totally kill it, but I've been like this since I was a teenager (and I would be sitting around horny during boring English lectures etc). Even though I'm not attracted to the customers I think whatever excess sexual energy is visible in conversation and
my dancing. There are subtle changes in the body when turned on, such as dilated pupils, and men do pick up on it even if they don't know why
for the record though, it's not work or most the customers that put me in moods like this. I'm pretty sure it's hormonal.
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.




^^ i agree. the customers are definately NOT a turn on but if they think they are the reason im turned on, hey more money for me! of course it helps that im mostly into girls and there's definately plenty of eye candy at work. so overall i would say i make more when im horny.





Sometimes if I get a hot I have admittedly gotten into it, but honestly most of the time I'll think "this guys pretty cool" and then when I get in the lap dance I'm disgusted with him.





Can't say as I have ever been horny at work, but I have attempted to visualise someone I find attractive during a dance to make my dance better.
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