ok i know this might be a dumb question, but i've never done it before so i wanna know from you gals , what do you do during a lap dance? Do you actually touch the customer and literally sit on his lap? are they allowed to touch you?

ok i know this might be a dumb question, but i've never done it before so i wanna know from you gals , what do you do during a lap dance? Do you actually touch the customer and literally sit on his lap? are they allowed to touch you?





Depends on the club/area as to whether or not you can touch them or they can touch you, usually the customers can not touch you.
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And personally it depends on the customer. If i can get away with it i'll simply air dance (get naked in front of them and move around) or lean against the armrest, but if they've paid a decent amount of money $50 + and they're clean and don't seem like they're going to disrespect me i'll get closer (avoiding the crotch area completely, mind you) and lean into them and move my hips, open my legs, breathe onto their neck and basically just be sexy in front of them or next to them.
for me lapdances are hard. i want them to enjoy themselves but i also want to be safe. it's hard to truly get into it while still trying to be vigilant and protect myself. i'm still in the beginner stages.



First person said it all but I will give you more details cause I'm not doing anything right now.
Depends on the state law.
In some place you just stand in front of them and dance around not touching at all. You may be able to do this with your clothes on or you may have to get naked.
Other place you pretty much dry hump them or grind on them. The amount of clothes you wear for this depends on the place.
I've had to grind clothed, topless, and naked.
Can they touch you? Depends on the place.
I've worked in places where they aren't allowed to even hold your waist, and I've worked in places where the girl next to me was getting fisted during a dance. (The fisting is not the norm that was just a very very very very dirty place to work)
The state law in Missouri is the patron can grab all the boobs and ass he or she wants as long as the club doesn't serve alcohol, but you must wear bottoms.
A lap dance doesn't always mean you're sitting on there lap.
I've seen and done mock titty fucking dances. That's where you rub you boobs on their crouch area for a whole song (yes they are wearing pants)
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It depends on your club and the area and how much the dances are most importantly... what the majority of the girls in the club are doing.
My club is hard contact, if I did an air dance I would never sell a second dance, the guy would refuse to pay, there would be yelling about what a ripoff bitch I am..![]()





Go to the club you want to work at and watch how they are done so you'll know.



I peel off my clothes while standing in front of him
grind on his lap facing him, and facing away so he gets 2 perspectives
whisper or purr/moan a little into his ear
run my fingers through his hair (if it seems clean)
rub my face gently on his face and near his neck
Basically lots of little details that mimic making out/making love WITHOUT any sort of kissing or genital touching. I really put a lot of energy into each lapdance to make it as personalized as possible and try to take cues from his body language
I don't really do that much grinding. If anything, I'll grind for maybe five seconds as a tease, then get up and do something else. I always go really slow and use exaggerated movements. I do a decent amount of floorwork, too. If I'm on their lap and facing them, I'll lean in and kind of slowly flick my eyelashes against their cheek, and breathe softly by their ear. And I always get really close to them right at the end of the song, then ask if they want another.
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