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    I was wondering what dancers thought of the customers who just stay at the bar and order drinks and will walk up to the tip rail occasionally but other than that don't really offer too much in the way of money to the dancers? Are these guys even considered customers or more loiterers? I was just wondering because there always seems to be 1 or 2 in each club I've been to.

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    ^^^ Oh, they love those guys, and if they manage to hang around until closing, they're usually the ones the dancers ask to go home with.
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    His penis should be cut off and thrown into a fire.

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    They're the worst kind of "customer".
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    There were some that were nice, who would offer to buy me a drink when I came to the bar and were just genuinely nice guys. A few I actually enjoyed sitting and chatting with over a cocktail when the club was slow or I needed a break. They would also be the ones to always tip me on stage when no one else was, or slip me a $20 for my "time" even though I didn't ask for it. Funny, I would never have customers on the floor do that....but a bar fly would

    Then there were some who were annoying a-holes, who would try to strike up conversations with the dancers and fuck with their heads. Talk about people with no lives and nothing better to do. These were usually the ones who would be there every day.
    I had this one guy at my last club who would always do that. I eventually ended up having to avoid sitting the bar completely because of him.
    He would always ask me stupid questions about my tattoos or something and just try to get under my skin. He did it to other girls, too. After I finally told him to not speak to me again, he started to give me stupid shit-eating grin creeper looks anytime I would walk near the bar. I hated that fucker. Get a life buddy....

    Then there were those who never spoke to me, I never spoke to them. No interaction, I never knew their name and they didn't know mine.

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    I usually assume these guys are cheap and dont even want to be talked to. I never spend much time at the bar.

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    creepy massage guy is always the bar puke

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    Neutral. You sort of just expect that he will be there ( and will probably only offer $2-$5 for hours of watching you ). I worked in a place where this type of guy would always bring a couple roses in and give them to his daily favorite girls. He was just a strip club groupie and at least he had *some ( very little ) * money so he didn't completely waste peoples time.

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    They are called looky-loos. I wrote article that I am sitting on to describe this type of dare I say customer.

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    If they could get away with drinking a glass of water they probably would.




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    Quote Originally Posted by PatheticLoserCuckold View Post
    I was wondering what dancers thought of the customers who just stay at the bar and order drinks and will walk up to the tip rail occasionally but other than that don't really offer too much in the way of money to the dancers? Are these guys even considered customers or more loiterers? I was just wondering because there always seems to be 1 or 2 in each club I've been to.
    All right. Let us upgrade the situation little bit.

    What do dancers think of guys who sit on the rail, tip one dollar per song and drink like suck pump?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    They are called looky-loos. I wrote article that I am sitting on to describe this type of dare I say customer.

    Just a browser with zero intention to purchase.

    If they could get away with drinking a glass of water they probably would.
    In the club I go to, there is a wall the looky-loos lean against. I've heard it referred to as the erection section.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    In the club I go to, there is a wall the looky-loos lean against. I've heard it referred to as the erection section.
    Lol, erection section. I think we have a wall like that, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyril View Post
    All right. Let us upgrade the situation little bit.

    What do dancers think of guys who sit on the rail, tip one dollar per song and drink like suck pump?
    How about we don't. Jeez, talk about a blatant fucking thread-jack...
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    Most of the time I don't think anything of these guys. They are furniture.

    When I do think of them, it's because they are the only one or two guys in the club, and we have to go on stage only because they are there. Then I tend to think, "I hope this fucking asshole crashes his car on the way home."
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    to be fair...during the week I will stop by my favorite strip club for a drink or two. And yes, sometimes even the free ice water I drink ($1 or $2 tip though). I will sometimes leave spending less than $10. Other times I have left with spending over $1,000. Just because one day a customer comes in and does not spend much money does not mean that he will always be a cheap ass. Usually before a big deal closes I am stressed and come to the strip bar to relax. After the big deal closes I come out to the strip bar and celebrate (aka spending money)

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    ^Even on those times when you are just relaxing, you should at least be tipping a few dollars here and there for stage. So long as a customer is tipping and is being polite, I'm fine with it. He may not be my favorite customer because he isn't spending much, but he isn't being HORRIBLY RUDE by sitting there for hours, watching the girls intensely, and not getting off his ass to tip.

    If you are watching the dancer, you should be tipping her. End of story. If you don't like that particular dancer, don't stare at her the entire time or get near the stage.

    You tip a bartender for making you drinks. You tip a waitress/waiter for bringing you food. You tip a valet for parking and retrieving your car. So, you should sure as hell tip the girl you're eyeballing while she's dancing naked, or nearly naked, for you.

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    toddq138 That is fine but there a small batch of customers who never spend money. Ever.


    What do dancers think of guys who sit on the rail, tip one dollar per song and drink like suck pump?
    As long as they're not obnoxious I'll take their dollars. A smile and a thank you is enough.

    If you want to compare them to furniture like chris91 said, they are a sofa and it's like finding some loose change. Nothing to get all excited about.




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    PLC< don't tell me that you're one of these guys, too, and are just asking for more bitchy comments indirectly about you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chris91 View Post
    Most of the time I don't think anything of these guys. They are furniture.
    This is a term I hear often from my favs when they mention a "bar dweller". One fellow I know pretty well even describes himself as such when he introduces himself to a new dancer. His subtle way of letting her know no to waste anytime trying to get dances out of him...
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    ^Yeah, we have a few regulars who come in pretty much every single day, sit for a couple hours, and never -ever- tip a single dancer. One of them in particular has been doing this for 10+ years. He will warn the new girls not to waste their time. At first I used to think "Well, at least that's nice of him" and "he's an ok guy"...... but now I just think "I can't believe how proud of yourself you are and how incredibly disrespectful your behavior is".

    But, as I've stated before, I'm pretty bitter now-a-days.

    One day I just woke up and realized... "hey.. that guy has been seeing me topless at least 3 days a week for 3+ years now and has NEVER given me a DOLLAR, despite telling me often how hot I am, etc."

    Granted, he never gives any girl any money..... but still. One day I went from "Eh, he's harmless" to "Seriously? Fuck that douchebag".

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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    In the club I go to, there is a wall the looky-loos lean against. I've heard it referred to as the erection section.

    lol, I call it the 'penis gallery'

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    Quote Originally Posted by PatheticLoserCuckold View Post
    I was wondering what dancers thought of the customers who just stay at the bar and order drinks and will walk up to the tip rail occasionally but other than that don't really offer too much in the way of money to the dancers? Are these guys even considered customers or more loiterers? I was just wondering because there always seems to be 1 or 2 in each club I've been to.
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    there's a bar dweller where i work at, he comes in during the day, has his beer, and stares wildly at all the girls through his mega thick glasses (the kind that makes peoples' eyes look magnified x100). He just sits there mumbling to himself, and when a girl he likes walks by or goes on stage he mumbles excitedly to himself. Everyone avoids the hell out of him. I got bored once and talked to him, he gave me a business card that had his name, number, and 'Jesus Christ secret service' printed on it. Oh well, at least i got a free drink out of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chris91 View Post

    When I do think of them, it's because they are the only one or two guys in the club, and we have to go on stage only because they are there.
    Just tell the manager you are an independent contractor and you will do your job as you see fit.

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    I've heard there are actually normal dudes who come into the club, sit at the bar, chat with their buddy the bartender, eat their lunch, tip the girls who are dancing out of respect for their entertainment efforts, and get dances now and then.

    Just sorta normal like, or so I've heard.

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