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Well, I'm going to play devil's advocate and say I sort of see where she's coming from. After all, they did ask her to come over. And even though it's bad etiquette to approach another dancer who's sitting with a customer, I don't usually feel bad approaching a dancer who's sitting with a group. Like, if I see a dancer sitting with two guys, I assume the one she's paying less attention to is fair game.
Maybe I've been wrong--or maybe the rules are different for couples? Like, one couple = one customer? At any rate, at least this chick didn't get any of your money. I think it's funny that she's still "the new girl,"--even though she's been there since January!




I'd be pissed. She is clearing trying to get a piece of the action.
Sometimes dancers come up to guys I'm talking to and then their gone. I know they are not cock-blocking, they need to paid, need to find the customers friend, whatever, giving change...and it doesn't interfere with my hustle. Just hurry up and for the most part girls know this.
Some times a guy has something arranged with another girl like she is getting another dancer for him and I sat down in the middle of their transaction. I'm actually okay with it and say "hey have a good time come find me later."
If a girl comes up to customers later because she is lazy...I don't think so. She can wait until we're done.



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Huh. You musta deleted the original post, but the general responses of the thread remind me of when I'm at work and see a cute couple that are obviously familiar with each other.
I put on my nice girl couple smile, walk up, say Hiiiiiii!!!! and realize it's a guy and his dancer.doh!
As her eyebrows turn downterritorially I go "I was just wondering if yall see any good tables for me to try out" and exit ASAP.
Sometimes in a dark club on couples night, it's hard to tell who is dancing and who is a date.
Yes, I'm real.




i remember the original post. serves her right, if she wanted to be a dumbass and flake, its her fault for missing out on money. she probably came over because she saw you making money, and remembered being invited, and decided that it was the right time to come over.... if something like that happens, it's really up to the customer to tell her that they're good, but thanks for FINALLY stopping by.




i also view it this way. one couple, one girl. if they wanted two different girls, then they'd tell you they want another girl also. i would not want two girls over if i was a customer. in fact, i'd tell the late comer to bugger off unless i was creaming my pants over her, and then i'd probably be pissed that she dragged her feet so much that i'd still send her packing.
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