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    Lets say the situation is that a guy says "come back in 30 minutes and I'll buy a dance", or he says he wants a dance but you have to do a stage set or another dance first. You come back for your dance, but another dancer is sitting with him, do you pull him away since he promised you a dance, or do you wait until she's gone?

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    Default Re: If a guy says he'll dance with you later

    Personally, I find it incredibly rude for another dancer to walk up and pull him away. It's been done to me and it wasn't appreciated. Normally I go around to other customers and come back when she's gone. But that's just me.
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    You wait until she's gone! Unless you want a fight to break out!
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    Default Re: If a guy says he'll dance with you later

    Yea pulling him away is not cool! He is allowing her to sit with him at that moment, so wait for her to try o make her sale then come over when she is done. Also customers lie about wanting dances later all of the time. He might have promised you a dance but this doesn't mean shit and certainly doesn't give you the right to pull a cut throat move like that. It will piss off the dancer and also probably the customer.

    The only times I do something like that is if a dancer sits with a customer I am currently workig on, as in I left for a sec but my drink is still there. Then she is bein rude and has it coming. Also if I do the work to phone in one of my regulars I will join them and sell double dances so we both get our Share.
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    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    See, thats what I thought! This bitch did that to me the other night, and by the look on the custy's face it made him feel incredibly uncomfortable because he was enjoying talking to me and I was sure I could close the sale on a dance

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    Default Re: If a guy says he'll dance with you later

    Yea if someone does that you are completely within the right to embarass the fuck out of them in front of the customer. Call them out on their manners, it will be less likely to happen again.
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: If a guy says he'll dance with you later

    I never make a scene in front of customers... unless I know the customer well I just let it go. Customers come to the SC to have fun, not drama.

    But I take the dancer aside afterwards and bitch her out in private.

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    It's very easy to embarass the other dancer without making a Scene. A short to the point remark about how you are in the middle of something and could he please not be rude and come back later is enough to embarass her in front of the customer and not make you look bad. In my experience bitching later Is less effective bacause girls who do this don't give a fuck how you feel and it could escalate into a catfight. They do however care about how the customers percieve them to an extent, even if it is only to a financial extent, and will be less likely to repeat the action if they know it will result in them looking bad.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: If a guy says he'll dance with you later

    I'd walk by so he'd see I was available, but I'd let the guy call me to his table first. Sometimes the customer needs to be rescued from rude dancers & their aggressive ways.

    If I already knew the guy, I'd loosen my bikini top, approach him & ask him to re-tie it for me. We'd make small talk & the other girl ends up leaving because she feels left out.

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    Default Re: If a guy says he'll dance with you later

    This happens in London alot and it really gets on my nerves!

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