
Originally Posted by
rareaspasia
Next time she does that, turn around and punch her in the cunt.
OK, not really, but that's how pissed reading that made me. I read a few of your other posts and you have GOT to find your inner bitch. That doesn't mean that you have to be a complete and total asshole to everyone and from what I've read you seem like a total sweetheart but remember that you have a RIGHT to be angry when people do stuff that is this unbelievably shitty.
You may think you do, but you really don't have to put a lot of thought into how to deal with these girls. Just deal with these situations in the moment and stand up for yourself, calmly and firmly. When you are home alone, grab a mirror, look yourself in the eye, and practice saying things like, "Don't do that," or, "That's not appropriate," or whatever. Keep your voice level and get comfortable saying things like that so that you can do it when you need to. Rehearse these kind of scenarios in your head when you have a minute of free time throughout the day. This will help keep you from being caught off guard again. I'm dead serious about all this, it really does work.
Also, if you feel this way working there, why not consider going to another club? Being new doesn't mean you have to stay here or even stay on day shift (as long as you don't dance like a rhinoceros in heat), I promise you that sometimes it is worth it to club hop a little bit to find the right fit for you.
Or if you really like this club why not try for night shift? Day shift is really hard when it's super slow and the other girls are being bitches. I was lucky with getting along with the girls when I worked day shift but do so much better on nights because I don't get bored and my time interacting with the other girls has dropped drastically. Obviously there's more money in it too but I know that my need to stay busy and to avoid drama makes night shift so much better for me.
Final thought, it's automatic for women in our culture to apologize constantly for every little thing, train yourself not to ever ever do it in the SC! Unless you manage to kick a guy in the head with seven inch stripper platforms. Which I've done on two separate occasions. Yeah. I did apologize for that...
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