Not sure where to post this, but here goes: So the BF and I went to my old clubs anniversary party last week and as soon as I walked in the GM and other managers swarmed me and wanted to know when I was coming back to work, and telling me that football season was coming up and money was getting really good... Now I know this is true, since I have a good friend dancing there, one donig shots, and two waitressing. I lost the majority of my baby weight, maybe 5 lbs left to go, if that, but Im not NEARLY as toned as I used to be, so I was sorta wanting to wait it out a little longer...
So I went to the back in the dressing room to catch up w/ the housemom who also encouraged me to go back saying I looked SO great and that I was definitely "ready" to go back...
Bf and I discussed it, and hes ok w/ it so Im seriously contemplating goin back THIS weekend... The thing is, I feel really insecure about my body @ the moment, and I honestly dont even really feel sexy anymore!!! I mean I know I had a baby, I gained a LOT of weight through my pregnancy, and my tummy is still a little jelly like, and my arms,legs, butt has lost its tonedness (sorry if thats not even a word, lol).. My thinking is, maybe if I go back, get some sexy new outfits, itll actually boost my confidence when I get back on stage and guys are telling me how great i look, how pretty I am (u know how they are) and Ill start feeling sexy again...
What do you think?? Any girls that went back after dancing, how did you get over "not feeling sexy"???
Thanks in advance for all of your kind words/encouragement!!!
Some recent pics:
http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h1.../afterbaby.jpg
http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h1...Untitled-2.jpg
http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h1...afterpreg2.jpg



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You look good. Go back for the sake of PLs everywhere.

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