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    Not sure where to post this, but here goes: So the BF and I went to my old clubs anniversary party last week and as soon as I walked in the GM and other managers swarmed me and wanted to know when I was coming back to work, and telling me that football season was coming up and money was getting really good... Now I know this is true, since I have a good friend dancing there, one donig shots, and two waitressing. I lost the majority of my baby weight, maybe 5 lbs left to go, if that, but Im not NEARLY as toned as I used to be, so I was sorta wanting to wait it out a little longer...

    So I went to the back in the dressing room to catch up w/ the housemom who also encouraged me to go back saying I looked SO great and that I was definitely "ready" to go back...

    Bf and I discussed it, and hes ok w/ it so Im seriously contemplating goin back THIS weekend... The thing is, I feel really insecure about my body @ the moment, and I honestly dont even really feel sexy anymore!!! I mean I know I had a baby, I gained a LOT of weight through my pregnancy, and my tummy is still a little jelly like, and my arms,legs, butt has lost its tonedness (sorry if thats not even a word, lol).. My thinking is, maybe if I go back, get some sexy new outfits, itll actually boost my confidence when I get back on stage and guys are telling me how great i look, how pretty I am (u know how they are) and Ill start feeling sexy again...

    What do you think?? Any girls that went back after dancing, how did you get over "not feeling sexy"???

    Thanks in advance for all of your kind words/encouragement!!!

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    http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h1.../afterbaby.jpg

    http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h1...Untitled-2.jpg

    http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h1...afterpreg2.jpg

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    honestly you look a lot better than some girls ive worked with that have no kids you can always just ease back into it, like try a couple days and see how you feel. trust me i know how unsexy being pregnant can make you feel, i always found that just doing something to make myself feel sexier was the biggest confidence boost. Congrats on the baby too!

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    I think you look awesome! You got a rockin' bod!
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    for real, you look amazing! You have nothing to worry about.

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    Thanks yall!!! Im anxious and gettin excited about going back!! Im gonna start tanning tomorrow and go get my nails done and maybe a new cute outfit!! So hopefully this will help! Thanks again!

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    You'll do great! Wider hips, bigger boobies, and that mothering touch; guys love fertile women.
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    Congrats on the Baby! You look absolutely fabulous! Go make that money, Girl!

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    You look pretty good; you are right, a little more toning would be good, but you look just fine to go back to work now. If the house mom and managers were asking you and you and bf are good with it, then you should go.

    Sexify yourself and you'll start to feel more sexy. Tan, nails, pedicure, outfit. If you're concerned about your legs you can always wear thigh highs - they really help your legs look more toned. Just make sure they fit right so they don't give you sausage-leg! Frederick's sells lots of thigh highs in different sizes so you can get a size that fits. Fishnets are best for dancing because they won't run like regular hose.

    One you're back to dancing and making money you'll start feeling even better, and you'll lose more weight too. Get to the gym to help tone up faster. You'll be fine. Go make your money!

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    I think you look amazing! I went through a not-feeling-sexy phase (and I don't have kids!) for over a year. I didn't look as hot as you do in those pics! I was still dancing at the time and still made my usual money so you have absolutely NOTHING to worry about!
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    You look fine, go back and make £££££££££££.
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    Thanks again yall! Im doin tan today! Woohoo!

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    You look good. Go back for the sake of PLs everywhere.
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    You look so good, your legs and boobs perticularly look great. I havent had a baby and your body is so much better than mine..ergh lol

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    I gotta chime in and say that you look great! I can see why you got swarmed!

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    Made 700 between 2 days this weekend and Im quite happy w/ that!! Got lots of compliments from the staff, other girls, and many customers.. Thanks for all of yalls kind words and encouragement!!!

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    You look amazing! And it sounds like you're feeling sexier already and doing well I never danced before I had my son but I know after having him I definitely didn't feel sexy. I think it's part hormones and being so wrapped up in taking of a baby. Good luck with everything!
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