I have been seeing the same girl for several years. We are good friends at the club and outside the club. I go to see her exclusively, paying generously for her non-dancing time and very rarely asking for dances. We usually talk for hours. I rarely speak with another dancer at her request. Sometimes when she does not want to work, I pay for her day off wether I'm with her or not. Over the last few months when I have infrequently suggested getting dances, my experience is that she finds a way to distract me from getting dances or we go in the room and I get a few uninteresting dances. On my last few visits she was in a bad mood that killed my mood for a good time. I am a very understanding and patient person and I look at our relationship as far more than a club friendship. I always tell her that in the club it is business and out of the club it is friendship. I think it is starting to go the wrong direction. We are all people and have issues and complications but when I go to the club and spend a lot of money, I hope to have good conversation at a minimum. I am not sure if I should back off from the club for a while and let things settle down or what is a good way to deal with this situation. I am also a very good customer and I do not want to hurt her. Please advise. Thanks.![]()



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