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    okay so i finally did my first CR with a couple tonight and it was so disturbing for me!! seriously i can't stop shivering and being like "blehhhhhhh!!!"
    so i get $500/hr, but these people had sex in front of me. it was... blehhhh.
    i just really don't even have words. they're not bad looking but they certainly weren't hot, but even if they were! i told them before we got the room i'm not good with couples!! i really wanted to run tonight, but nothing bad was happening to me, i told them my underwear was like an iron curtain!
    some girls are good with couples, that's why i was gonna give them up when i told them i prob wasn't right for VIP with them. they like insisted cause they liked me. i figured, okay i'll take the $500 if i must!
    but a security guard told me they got in a cab after and she was like choking him all pissed off! i could imagine, he was like asking me to come home with them and trying to kiss me the whole time! and they were just bf/gf too, not even married so fuck yeah i'd be pissed if i were her. she was trying to tell me how great he is the whole time and i'm trying to be like "oh realllllyyy? wow!" pshhhhh!
    so how do you lovelies feel about couples? for me, i'm never doing a VIP with one again!!

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    You were ok with them having sex in front of you? Why didn't you grab a bouncer?

    Couples aren't even allowed to make out on the floor in my club.

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    I had this happen to me. Though I told them there were cameras and they couldnt. Like she took his dick out and had a mini skirt on and tried to move her bottoms over. I was horrified also. She kept showing me her boobs and trying to dance with me for him. It was like my second time with couples in a private room. I dont really like couples either but when I dance in keywest thats all I basically dance with. They flag me down. Its not bad there because there are cameras and the rooms are not closed and the last time the female was really drunk and was trying to lick me, she had no undies on and was showing me. Her husband actually kept appologising to me. It was funny when the time was up she was screaming as they carried her out because she wanted to do another hour.

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    I love couples, when they're behaved. But that totally wouldn't be the case if they were having sex in front of me! That I couldn't handle.

    Don't write them off though because of one albeit very bad experience. Couples can be fun, and they can be really great tippers!
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    Quote Originally Posted by laurcon View Post
    but these people had sex in front of me.
    ...Like. Literally?
    Your club allows that?
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    i didn't know what to do. its one thing to tell a person to stop when they're touching me but i didn't really know how to be like "stop having sex!" i was just so freaked. i just wanted the time to end and to run away. i'm def scarred for awhile from this one.
    and i don't know what my club allows, i've never been in the back with a couple before and i didn't know if i should run out to get the bouncer or if i would look stupid and cause a scene. running crossed my mind but i just stuck it out.

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    Yeah couples that act right are fun, but the ones that want to take you home, or try to fuck during the dance, or are really drunk, too handiess, ect can stay home. I do remember foundly a couple that I asked if they wanted a dance, and the girl asked me, "do I have to put my bra back on?"

    I'd honestly like to know how it got off in the first place, but even without her bra she was very well behaved.

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    The overwhelming majority of experience I have with couples is negative. Women think they're supposed to get away with murder and are almost always way too aggressive. Dancing for a couple, most of the time, is just having to deal with double the grope and lick attempts. I've never had a couple fuck in front of me but I've had women try doing handjobs and blowjobs, and I just tell them that isn't allowed.

    To the OP: It sounds to me like you need to get more comfortable setting boundaries and telling people no. It takes a little time to learn how to do that while keeping the "good time" momentum, especially these days with all the expectations we have to deal with, but it can be done. It is more difficult with couples, but again, it can be done.

    I do understand not wanting to deal with couples again though. I don't like dealing with them either and won't bother with them unless they come get me, and even then sometimes I simply refuse. It may be throwing away money sometimes, but my sanity and self-respect are worth much more than any amount of money. Besides, there's always another opportunity to make money.

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    laurcon, almost the exact same thing happened to me with a couple in the VIP. It was shocking and I was pretty new when it happened. I stayed away from couples like the plague the rest of the time I danced. But, yeah use it as a learning experience and if something like that happens again that you don't like, walk out.
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    thanks girls!

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    Eww that is gross. I like dancing for couples but I've never once had them try to touch me or attempt to have sex. A bit of kissing or cuddling with each other is fine with me. There is no way your club would allow anyone to have sex in the club. Next time kick them out. It is probably against the law. In NSW Australia where I work you cannot serve alcohol in a place where people are having sex. Hence swingers clubs are BYO. So if people had sex in any club (strip club, nightclub, etc.) that club risks losing their license.

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    I hate dancing for women period. They always seem to think that they can get away with more because "we're all girls here". I avoid them like the plague and will usually only do it if I'm having a REALLY bad night.

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    You have to be assertive & in control of the situation, reinforcing it when necessary. Find out your club's rules & speak up when couples cross the line. Instead of shunning all couples because of one incident, try to gauge them on a case by case basis. That way you don't limit potential money making opportunities.

    You're gonna come across a wide variety of couples no matter what - the ones where the chick is just doing it for the guy (she doesn't want to be there so she tries to belittle you by pointing out every single one of your flaws), to the wannabe-stripper chicks (usually drunk - they think they can do your job better than you); the chicks that think it's ok to molest you (sorry honey, you're not my type) and the couples that just want to pay you to strip, period (rare gems!).

    I find that if you butter up the girl FIRST, you:

    a. become more personable/less threatening to her; while
    b.eliminating her jealous/competitive tendencies; which makes
    c. the guy happy cuz she's cool w/being in a strip club; meaning
    d. he's about to get a LD & not get in trouble; w/the potential of
    e. later getting laid; so
    f. they tend to tip very, very well; because
    g. you (the dancer) enhanced their SC experience; thus making
    h. everyone's night mutually beneficial!


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    so $500 an hour to just look the other way?

    Hmmm I'm not above strategically being distracted when the VIP manager walks around. I could pull a "oh gosh they are doing what? eww! I just looked away for one second!", they get kicked out, I keep the $500...

    As long as they are having sex at the other end of the booth...
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    Minalynx took the words right outta my mouth! I love couples! As long as the girl is happy its easy money. I have never had an outta control couple, so I guess thats why I dont mind VIPs with them.

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    ^You haven't had a couple trying to get wild in VIP in Vegas? Really? I have. Lots.

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    wow that is gross! I had one time i took a couple to the CR and as soon as they closed the curtain she took her dress off. no bra or panties on underneath! I said "look if u want me to dance for u, u need to put your dress back on im sorry". She got embarrased and put it back on and was good for the rest of the time. but yeah if i go to a club with a man im seeing i would never act like that lol! i dont get why women think they can touch us, the rules dont bend for them

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    Quote Originally Posted by goreantx View Post
    so $500 an hour to just look the other way?

    Hmmm I'm not above strategically being distracted when the VIP manager walks around. I could pull a "oh gosh they are doing what? eww! I just looked away for one second!", they get kicked out, I keep the $500...

    As long as they are having sex at the other end of the booth...
    yeah as long as they dont expect me to join in or interact with them i dont think i would care what they do to or with each other. i do think in a closed door vip it could get potentially dangerous though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by michele11 View Post
    I had this happen to me. Though I told them there were cameras and they couldnt. Like she took his dick out and had a mini skirt on and tried to move her bottoms over. I was horrified also. She kept showing me her boobs and trying to dance with me for him. It was like my second time with couples in a private room. I dont really like couples either but when I dance in keywest thats all I basically dance with. They flag me down. Its not bad there because there are cameras and the rooms are not closed and the last time the female was really drunk and was trying to lick me, she had no undies on and was showing me. Her husband actually kept appologising to me. It was funny when the time was up she was screaming as they carried her out because she wanted to do another hour.
    I don't mind it. I try to focus on her though, first and foremost. They wouldn't be allowed to screw in front of me though. If the bouncer didn't see them, I'd tell him. We get paid upfront for VIPs anyhow, so if they get kicked out, no loss.

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    i cant stand women in clubs, which is weird because my private dance experiences with ouples has been really good in the past, but recently there have been several couples that come in the club and the women either stare and glare at the dances with the "i dont know why my husband would like her look on her face, or they want to be strippers for the night and think its cool to get naked too, ok this is my opinion, if your coming to the club as a custy and you are getting naked for free its not cool, not sexy, its desperate and trashy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BuxomBeauty View Post
    The overwhelming majority of experience I have with couples is negative. Women think they're supposed to get away with murder and are almost always way too aggressive. Dancing for a couple, most of the time, is just having to deal with double the grope and lick attempts. I've never had a couple fuck in front of me but I've had women try doing handjobs and blowjobs, and I just tell them that isn't allowed.
    To the OP: It sounds to me like you need to get more comfortable setting boundaries and telling people no. It takes a little time to learn how to do that while keeping the "good time" momentum, especially these days with all the expectations we have to deal with, but it can be done. It is more difficult with couples, but again, it can be done.

    I do understand not wanting to deal with couples again though. I don't like dealing with them either and won't bother with them unless they come get me, and even then sometimes I simply refuse. It may be throwing away money sometimes, but my sanity and self-respect are worth much more than any amount of money. Besides, there's always another opportunity to make money.
    Quoted for fucking truth.

    I despise couples.

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    The only ones I don't mind are other strippers who are out with their customers. Those can be really profitable. I've had women take me to the side and say, "Look, just keep dancing for him, I'll make sure he takes really good care of you, just keep him distracted and away from me." I really love those ones.

    However, I have had, on several occasions, the older married couple take me the VIP, and the wife sits down and spreads her legs, and she's wearing no panties under her mini skirt!!! I CANNOT deal with those types!!!
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    They didnt screw infront of me hun. Like I said they tried and I told her there was a camera which there was not. I was working an event, as I travel and work all over the country and this was my first tim at this club, so iot was extra teriffying as I was in a unknown club, location but I guess when you travel you never now what to expect.

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