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    How can you keep going for more than 3 private dances in a row? Is it just something you have to get used to? It kills me and I feel like performance goes way down hill after dance #3, but I don't want to "take a break" for fear of breaking the mood and him not wanting anymore dances. Its especially hard when I get multiple dances right off of stage. I'm frustrated! Any advice?

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    Default Re: Stamina...

    Move slowly, if you're comfortable taking your shoes off then do that, and depending on how many dances you're doing work in some conversation. That's the best I can tell you. I don't normally have to take a break, but my dances are less "grindy" and more sensual which lets me last longer.
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    Default Re: Stamina...

    Oh. I was hoping this was a general stamina thing. [which is my problem]

    For this: I dance slow... so I can keep dancing for a loooooong time.
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    Default Re: Stamina...

    I get so excited that they're continuing to spend money, that
    my adrenaline keeps me going. But I agree with the others, keep it slow, and talk to him. You can keep it sensual even while talking, by
    leaning in close, stroking their hair/face, etc.

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    What part kills you? sore feet? boredom? I find being fit helps a lot. When I started dancing I didn't work out and I was always exhausted. Now I do cardio 4 times a week and I find it much easier. One way to take a break without asking for one is to ask if he wants a drink. At one club I work at there are waitresses in the private areas so its a good way to break it up without ending the dance. That won't work though if there is only bar service.

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    How close can you get? Can you sit in his lap? I'll drape myself across his lap and keep him talking. Most of the time, even though we are "dancing" through 300-400 dollars straight, it's just naked lap conversation. I start shaking my butt towards the end of the song and go a couple minutes in to the next one.

    ... unless we are playing patty cake...

    then it's air dances.

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    Default Re: Stamina...

    Thanks for the tips... I did a little better last night. Part of it is boredom, part of it is just that my body starts to feel really worn out. Its a high contact club, so I can get as close as I want, but most of the guys I have taken to the private area don't seem like they would be ok with me draped across their lap most of the time, they want to see and feel me moving :/ I don't work out, so work is the only real exercise I get, so maybe I will have to work something into my schedule.

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    Default Re: Stamina...

    Straddle him and put both legs up on the chair / couch ( if you club allows feet off floor ) . Spend time massaging the back of his neck , nuzzling his cheek with yours , looking into his eyes ect. until you can feel the strength coming back into your legs.

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    Default Re: Stamina...

    girl ive had a guy that has me do 18-20 dances in a row..he tips me well and the booth is expensive..but its literally an hour of cardio! just get used to it

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    Default Re: Stamina...

    When I started, giving multiple dances in a row would just kill me. Now I'm just used to it. I think you just have to build up your tolerance of those types of movements. And ditto on the moving slowly thing.

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    Default Re: Stamina...

    I think it's just something your body has to get used to. When I first started, doing more than 3 or 4 dances completely wore me out. It took me about a month to get used to it.

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    Default Re: Stamina...

    A lot of you mentioned talking to the guy, but I find that I freeze up conversation wise when I'm giving dances. I think its because I'm afraid I'll kill the mood if I say something stupid. Is your conversation the same kind of convo when you are hustling or do you have to keep him fired up by being really suggestive (which I'm really terrible at)?

    Please help. I usually don't get these multiple dance streaks and maybe this is why

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blue_Dust_Bunny View Post
    A lot of you mentioned talking to the guy, but I find that I freeze up conversation wise when I'm giving dances. I think its because I'm afraid I'll kill the mood if I say something stupid. Is your conversation the same kind of convo when you are hustling or do you have to keep him fired up by being really suggestive (which I'm really terrible at)?

    Please help. I usually don't get these multiple dance streaks and maybe this is why
    I generally let the guy set the pace for the talking thing. If he says something other than "Oh, you're so hot," like comments on the music or my tattoo or asks me a question, I have no problem responding. Some of the best dances I've given involved us telling jokes back and forth and laughing, and not only did he buy multiple dances, he went and had all his friends buy dances from me because I was "the coolest girl there." You just have to have a good read on the guy. And like I said, with conversation, let him set the pace.

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    Default Re: Stamina...

    My heart better be poppin out of my chest for me to take a break.

    If you really need to I would suggest to just lay on him or sit on his lap and say...let's sit this song out and get started on the next. Quickly get him talking so he doesn't have the chance to say "Why don't I pay you now."

    Over time you'll be able to do multiple dances without worry.




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