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    Hello to all the dancers here... newbie poster here.

    So I was recently on a trip to Chicago where I got to know one of the dancers. Really enjoyed talking to her and the dances were great too.
    Never got a chance to get her a contact info but wanted to send her a little gift.

    So the question is, if I send something to the club c/o her stage name, would it get to her? Or it would be tossed out or something?

    Thanks for any replies.

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    More than likely she'd get it. I've had people send stuff to me before. Typically someone from management opens it to make sure its safe.
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    Yep she should get it, depending on what it is you might want to send it so that whoever receives it the other end has to sign for it

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    Send anything but flowers. If you send flowers and she isn't working that day they will most likely wind up in the trash or going home with somebody else...
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    Better yet, just save the money for now and spend it on her during your next visit to
    Chicago. Unless you know the dancer really well, it will be difficult to pick out a gift that would have meaning. And as Yoda suggested, flowers are the worst option.

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    Most clubs here won't allow gifts being mailed to the dancers. They just end up in the trash and the dancer fined or possibly fired. They consider that stealing from the til. There is one club that allows you to buy dancer wear (shoes, clothing and other articles) from there own shop within the club. thats the only way they allow it for the minx. that can go as cheap as 300 for a pair of shoes that you can get from a local place for dancers to three grand for an outfit that really isn't worth it.

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    ^^^I don't understand the logic behind this at all. How is it stealing if a customer sends a dancer a gift? And Just out of curiosity, how do you know this? Do you work at this club?
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    I have had cars and flowers and handbags sent to or for me. I don't think it's a big deal but I think it depends on the type of club. I usually work at upscale places.

    By cars I mean a town car sent to pick me up not that anyone bought me a car although I do know 2 girls that have had customers buy them cars.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sf69er View Post
    Hello to all the dancers here... newbie poster here.

    So I was recently on a trip to Chicago where I got to know one of the dancers. Really enjoyed talking to her and the dances were great too.
    Never got a chance to get her a contact info but wanted to send her a little gift.

    So the question is, if I send something to the club c/o her stage name, would it get to her? Or it would be tossed out or something?

    Thanks for any replies.
    If you only met her that one time, its quite possible she won't even remember you unless it was just a couple of days ago or you spent a load of money. I agree with FBR. Save it till your next visit and spend on her then.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    If you only met her that one time, its quite possible she won't even remember you unless it was just a couple of days ago or you spent a load of money. I agree with FBR. Save it till your next visit and spend on her then.
    I walked into a club I hadn't been in since last year a couple of weeks ago. The dancer I spent a couple of hundred bucks on last year remembered my name and even where I was sitting.

    LOL, OTOH, lots of girls at the clubs I frequent also remember my name...unfortunately my name is followed by the words "don't waste your time on him, he's here for ******...."

    Yes, you are correct BEM, the key is spending money
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I walked into a club I hadn't been in since last year a couple of weeks ago. The dancer I spent a couple of hundred bucks on last year remembered my name and even where I was sitting.
    If you didn't identify yourself as Yoda and saw her just that once, she's got a great memory. That name alone would give her cause to remember you. Also, as of late, the girls are hurting for guys spending even half that amount, so that would help her remember you. If she met 5 new guys a week who each spent that amount, that would be 200+ names she'd need to remember and that would be an impressive memory. I have a roster of 130 students a year and I forget their names over vacation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    If you didn't identify yourself as Yoda and saw her just that once, she's got a great memory. That name alone would give her cause to remember you. Also, as of late, the girls are hurting for guys spending even half that amount, so that would help her remember you. If she met 5 new guys a week who each spent that amount, that would be 200+ names she'd need to remember and that would be an impressive memory. I have a roster of 130 students a year and I forget their names over vacation.
    As I have stated many times BEM I don't go around in clubs calling myself yoda. Do you introduce yourself as BEM401 when you meet a dancer? She remembered me because good dancers can do that much of the time. FWIW I've had the same experience with bartenders and cocktail waitresses in other cities that I visit for work. I fully understand that the amount of cash I spent helped her to remember me. That was the point.

    I had a teacher in high school that always marked me absent because he had me confused with another kid who was a habitual truant. I'm sure that he would have remembered me if I was the guy sighing his paycheck every week...
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    I don't think this is a good idea. Since I'm in SF, you can just hand any gifts that you intended to buy for her to me.

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    Hehe, don't worry I'll get you your very own gifts

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    As I have stated many times BEM I don't go around in clubs calling myself yoda. Do you introduce yourself as BEM401 when you meet a dancer? She remembered me because good dancers can do that much of the time. FWIW I've had the same experience with bartenders and cocktail waitresses in other cities that I visit for work. I fully understand that the amount of cash I spent helped her to remember me. That was the point.

    I had a teacher in high school that always marked me absent because he had me confused with another kid who was a habitual truant. I'm sure that he would have remembered me if I was the guy sighing his paycheck every week...
    I don't know what you do or don't do, but there are plenty of readers of another site who would know the name Yoda. That was my point.

    As far as the teacher who would've remembered you if you were signing his weekly check, I thought your initial point was the dancer remembered you despite the fact that you were not paying her every week.

    No matter how you look at it, I'm giving the girl credit for being good at her job.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    I don't know what you do or don't do, but there are plenty of readers of another site who would know the name Yoda. That was my point.
    LOL, BEM, the internet is the internet...the real world is the real world. You do understand the difference right?
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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    I don't know what you do or don't do, but there are plenty of readers of another site who would know the name Yoda. That was my point.
    My guess is (considering how popular star wars still is) that there's more than one "yoda" on the internet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    My guess is (considering how popular star wars still is) that there's more than one "yoda" on the internet.
    Read SCL's RI ( or even NE ) club comments. At various points in time, it seemed every third post used the Yoda handle. That name has a certain prominence there. Whether our Yoda was responsible for all of them, half of them, or none of them, the fact remains that the most common handle on that board was Yoda and the name would stick out to any girl monitoring that site. The fact is more people would be aware of the Yoda postings ( real or not) than would be aware of " so and so from Boston".
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    My guess is (considering how popular star wars still is) that there's more than one "yoda" on the internet.
    Holly cow you have no idea how many! That's why I'm yoda57us here...the only place I get to be just plain old "yoda" is on TUSCL...
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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    Read SCL's RI ( or even NE ) club comments. At various points in time, it seemed every third post used the Yoda handle. That name has a certain prominence there. Whether our Yoda was responsible for all of them, half of them, or none of them, the fact remains that the most common handle on that board was Yoda and the name would stick out to any girl monitoring that site. The fact is more people would be aware of the Yoda postings ( real or not) than would be aware of " so and so from Boston".
    LOL, this is all fascinating BEM and amusing as hell but you keep blowing right past my original point. I don't walk around strip clubs introducing myself to dancers as yoda. Never have, never will. The fact that I have been on many boards for many years and visit many clubs would certainly back up everything you say about the prolific internet presence of my handle and the smart-ass persona that goes with it but has nothing to do with the real world. Does the woman who remembered me in a western Mass club from a year ago know the name "yoda" from the internet? Maybe she does but since I don't look anything like the little guy in real life I doubt she would have made the connection...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    LOL, this is all fascinating BEM and amusing as hell but you keep blowing right past my original point. I don't walk around strip clubs introducing myself to dancers as yoda. Never have, never will.
    I never said you did, read my post. I more or less said her remembering you would be less impressive if you'd identified yourself as Yoda. The name is all over the boards and there are people in the clubs who are curious who Yoda is. I know this because I've been asked if I know who "this Yoda character" is. I refer them to people who do know who you are.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    I never said you did, read my post. I more or less said her remembering you would be less impressive if you'd identified yourself as Yoda. The name is all over the boards and there are people in the clubs who are curious who Yoda is. I know this because I've been asked if I know who "this Yoda character" is. I refer them to people who do know who you are.
    Total strangers wandering around Providence wondering who yoda is? LOL, you are very good for my ego BEM. Not as good as the cute Asian girls who sit on my lap and tell me how handsome and intelligent I am as I buy dance after dance of course....
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Total strangers wandering around Providence wondering who yoda is? LOL, you are very good for my ego BEM. Not as good as the cute Asian girls who sit on my lap and tell me how handsome and intelligent I am as I buy dance after dance of course....
    I know of two retired MA dancers who wanted to place the customer with the famous SCL handle (Yoda). They retired never putting two and two together. Bem: If I guessed, 40% of the Yoda posts on SCL at one time were imposters - posing as the legend! Sorry, it's been at least a year since my last public kissing up to the legend!

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    Quote Originally Posted by rockie View Post
    I know of two retired MA dancers who wanted to place the customer with the famous SCL handle (Yoda). They retired never putting two and two together. Bem: If I guessed, 40% of the Yoda posts on SCL at one time were imposters - posing as the legend! Sorry, it's been at least a year since my last public kissing up to the legend!
    Lots of fake yoda's but I always make it a point to post as "the real yoda" after some moron posts something using my handle that I would never say.

    For a while back at the turn of the century their where three of four guys who all posted pretty regularly. Sportswriter was one of them and he was, or is, a member here as well. Gorilla Balls was another. We all posted quite a bit and all basically had the same approach-to goof around.

    Nothing that you read on a strip club board like SCL or TUSCL should ever be taken seriously. I never bashed a dancer by name and I never would. Customers are open season however as long as no real names are mentioned...Strip clubs are entertainment. Strip club boards are also entertainment. Most of the time the two have nothing to do with each other.
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