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    So, the last club we've gone to, when I go up to the stage to tip, the dancer (well 2 of them) have asked if it's okay to show my boobs to the crowd... which is kinda a turn on. So, I say yes... they turn me around and pull up my shirt and bra...

    I've been there twice and both times it happened... the first time one other custie did as well.

    Is this common, do you do it, in your club?

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    Hell no!!!! I don't work at those types of clubs, and if a guy customer tried to do that I would slap him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    Hell no!!!! I don't work at those types of clubs, and if a guy customer tried to do that I would slap him.
    I'm confused? What kind of club do u mean? I'm a girl (hence the lifting of a bra and shirt) and I didn't try to do anything. These dancers asked me.

    I just wondered if this was common. That's all.

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    From my knowledge, it is not common for a dancer to undress you or flash your boobs to everyone. That must be one wild club! LOL
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    ok. And it's not really a wild club. lol. Pretty tame, although I'm pretty inexperienced... hahaha.

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    No no no no no. And if I was a customer in a club and a dancer tried to do that to me I would leave and never come back.

    If you're cool with it though I guess there's no issue. We don't usually do this though. It takes the attention off of us.
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    Yeah, if a dancer did it without asking? I'd be pissed. But no, these dancers always ask first. She said, "Can I show your boobies"?

    I kinda thought the same thing... taking the attention off... but really? I think most of the guys thought it was kinda hot... girl on girl type stuff ya know?

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    All I can think of is that the strippers in question are getting tipped more for showing an extra set of boobs, and that you are flashing yours for nothing?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Faye449 View Post
    All I can think of is that the strippers in question are getting tipped more for showing an extra set of boobs, and that you are flashing yours for nothing?!
    Yes thank you. Precisely.

    Also, yes Im sure all the guys thought it was hot. It's another reason that we hate amateur nights. For some reason it is hotter for the street girls to be stripping than it is for the dancers. I wont ever understand the logic behind it but it' the truth, so no I would never ever take a customers top off her to show her tits. No way in hell.
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    I've seen it... in some areas its common and in others it is not. I don't encourage it though... it's the exact sort of thing that leads to female customers coming into the club and acting like dancers... including giving lap dances to their friends - which takes money away from us in a round about way.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Razzle View Post
    So, the last club we've gone to, when I go up to the stage to tip, the dancer (well 2 of them) have asked if it's okay to show my boobs to the crowd... which is kinda a turn on. So, I say yes... they turn me around and pull up my shirt and bra...

    I've been there twice and both times it happened... the first time one other custie did as well.

    Is this common, do you do it, in your club?

    Its pretty common in my club, mostly on really busy weekend nights. I do it from time to time, but it usually consists of female custy laying on the stage in front of me while I straddle her and prentend to suck/lick various parts of her body. I dont' ever show her boobs without asking.

    If you do it with the right crowd it has an amazing effect... it may take some direct attention off me, but its draws the attention of every guy who could possibly see the stage and they tend to tip pretty well to keep the girl on girl action going.

    As for the customer, she's not being forced to do it, and although she may not be getting the tips, she still usually leaves the stage feeling incredibly sexy and happy that she put on such a show for her boyfriend/husband.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Axiom View Post
    Its pretty common in my club, mostly on really busy weekend nights. I do it from time to time, but it usually consists of female custy laying on the stage in front of me while I straddle her and prentend to suck/lick various parts of her body. I dont' ever show her boobs without asking.

    If you do it with the right crowd it has an amazing effect... it may take some direct attention off me, but its draws the attention of every guy who could possibly see the stage and they tend to tip pretty well to keep the girl on girl action going.

    As for the customer, she's not being forced to do it, and although she may not be getting the tips, she still usually leaves the stage feeling incredibly sexy and happy that she put on such a show for her boyfriend/husband.
    If it's club culture or acceptable in your neck of the woods, cool! With that being said, I hope you are getting tipped a lot to do a show like that! I've traveled and danced in different cities, and once or twice I've had a woman walk up with a dollar bill in her mouth (to the OP, please don't ever do that!) or just lay on the stage with a dollar expecting...... what? I don't know, but I wouldn't do it for a dollar!

    If she is having fun and cool with and the dancer is fine, then cool go for it! But do NOT let another guy try to pull the same move with you!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Razzle View Post
    So, the last club we've gone to, when I go up to the stage to tip, the dancer (well 2 of them) have asked if it's okay to show my boobs to the crowd... which is kinda a turn on. So, I say yes... they turn me around and pull up my shirt and bra...

    I've been there twice and both times it happened... the first time one other custie did as well.

    Is this common, do you do it, in your club?

    Ugh....I am happy as hell that that kind of thing doesn't happen at the clubs I frequent.

    The only time my boobies are on display in a club is in the private VIP area, between just me & a consenting dancer. That should be the only time/place a civvie's boobies are allowed to be free & frolick.

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    Refer to my blog on "Tootsies" where a female customer showed more than her boobies- involved interaction with feature performer. It happened 10 years ago. (Where were some posters in this thread then???)

    I've stated before on prior threads here (and other websites) that interaction between dancers and female customers is more liberal than that with male customers (talking stageside interaction). Yes, I've seen some boobage. Instead of fixating on $$ "taken away", why not consider that word of mouth will bring in more patrons (and thus more potential customers for lapdances, and stage tipping).

    Rest easy, lopaw & J.D. LA clubs, and some Dallas clubs have very tame stageside interaction compared to clubs in several other locales.
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    I take a friend-former dancer to my favorite club sometimes and hers are usually out a some point during the evening. Last time the bouncer had to tell her to 'put them away'. This girl is a riot though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    For some reason it is hotter for the street girls to be stripping than it is for the dancers. I wont ever understand the logic behind it...
    Male mindset. If you're a regular attendeee of strip clubs, then you need to rationalise away the thought that a dancer's primary motive for dancing/paying attention to you is financial.

    If a 'street girl' is stripping, it's easier to believe that her motive is exhibitionistic rather than the need to earn a living - hence the interest in amateur nights, etc.

    From many customers' POV, the need to find non-financial motives for a dancer doing the job is a necessary form of of double-think, because no-one likes to think they're purely a form of income.

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    if we want to show off girl-on-girl action we'll do it with another paid entertainer, not a freaking customer. the idea even pisses me off so much. contributes to women coming in feeling entitled to touch us like "its okay cause i'm a woman too."
    no its not fucking okay.
    to the OP, you were comfortable with that? i'd be afraid maybe the dancers were making fun of you or trying to show the guys why they're paying to see dancers' tits but can see yours for free

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    Sounds hot.

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    In San Francisco it's pretty common at the nude clubs.

    Personally I find it trashy.

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    Why freak out? Dancers initiate it almost each and every time. As a dancer and a customer, that's how I see it. Where are all of these evil aggressive women you all keep running into? I'm not a tall girl, but lady customers tended to cower when I came around, and did as they were told.

    We got to keep the lady customers in control. They aren't going away...make the best of it. Plus, many women love being dominated and disciplined. Use that to your ADVANTAGE!!

    Down here, I have seldomly seen female custy boobs pulled out onstage. But things can get pretty randy, not too raunchy though. I do not pull out female customer's breasts.....ever, just to state.

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    Okay. So since I began this thread I wanted to chime in. I think perhaps I should have stated that at no time did the dancer touch me. She simply complimented me on my pretty face and big boobs (which btw guarenteed her a dance with me and my hubby who was next to me at the stage tipping) and asked if she could show them... I was having a great time, the girls are beautiful and it's easy to get caught up in the moment, she turned me around, and lifted my shirt and bra for about 5 seconds. Do I regret it? No. It was hot. For me, for my husband, and I didn't notice any other customers getting offended, their applause seemed tip enough. I got a round of applause, she got lots of tips from other men who came up and stood at the stage immediately and she got for sure 2 dances out of it.

    I didn't feel like I was silly for doing it for free. I'm NOT a dancer, I could never move like that, and I am well aware of it. And although I think my breasts are pretty good, my big ass would keep me far away from dancing in a thong. Had she asked to show that I'd have laughed and known I was a joke for others to enjoy.

    I think the other thing to note here, is that I'm a 34 year old, married mom. I'm not a 22 year old who might be at a club feeling like she could actually do the dancer's job, jealous her man was oogling some other woman, feeling pissy and bitchy... not to say that all 22 year old women think that, but I clearly know why I'm there. I like it. My husband likes it. And I'm old enough to know that it's just a job for the dancers, I have no feelings of jealousy towards their interaction with my husband. I enjoy a dancer who is beautiful and who sends me and my hubby back to the hotel to have really hot and amazing sex. It's an environment far out of my norm, and it's like living in fantasy land for an evening.

    Being brought into the "show" for a moment, just heightened the experience that night. IF asked, I'd do it again. For me, for my husband. I can understand that some dancers may feel that it takes attention away from them, but I assure you that wasn't the case in my experience. That dancer clearly made men sit up and notice.

    I respond exactly the way that KiwiStrawberry Splenda described. A beautiful girl, smells good, and is half naked approaches me? I have upmost respect for her courage and her brains for making the most of what she has. I've never been with anyone besides my husband, been married for 11 years, and with him since I was 16. A club visit 4 times a year=a shot of sex steroids.

    I'm glad that I finally got up the nerve to wander into one. I just wish these female customers that act so stupidly would stay the hell out... so when we go in WE get approached instead of only getting HIM approached when I'm in the restroom As soon as a dancer comes close to me, I welcome her with a smile and my hubby says, "she'd like a dance, are you comfortable with women?"... I've never had one say no. It's just that they don't approach to begin with very easily. And I know why....

    Sorry for the long post, and off topic... lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Razzle View Post

    I'm glad that I finally got up the nerve to wander into one. I just wish these female customers that act so stupidly would stay the hell out... so when we go in WE get approached instead of only getting HIM approached when I'm in the restroom As soon as a dancer comes close to me, I welcome her with a smile and my hubby says, "she'd like a dance, are you comfortable with women?"... I've never had one say no. It's just that they don't approach to begin with very easily. And I know why....
    Hey Razzle, I'm glad you had a good time and enjoy strip clubs from time to time. I'm sorry for being bitchy in my post, I just had a bad couples experience lately and I'm still freaked out. Thanks for being understanding and one of the good female customers

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    Razzle - I really liked that last post, as you at once clarified the issue from your original post, explained your position and the situation to all the people with various reactions, and brought up a long time pet peeve of mine re dancers not approaching couples.

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    There is a club in Killeen where it used to be a fairly common event. It never appeared to be done without the consent of the customer.

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    I'm glad you had such a great time! And yes, it's pretty common where I work as well. Not sure why so many girls freaked out at your question. I mean, we *do* work in a fun enviorment, not the library!

    I like when the female custies at my job have a good time like that. It's always kinda cool to see. Specially when they are with thier SO.

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