So, my second night dancing I made a regular, one of the girls grabbed me and told me her friend want to buy me some drinks. The rest is history lol I have known him now for almost 2 months (I know, not incredibly long). Apparently a few weeks ago something happened that he misinterpreted and its been bothering him (this is according to the girl who hooked me up with him in the first place). Here's the incident:
Regular and I are sitting at the bar chatting with a group of people. Another girl comes up (we'll call her stripper #2) and sits next to me, which was fine, I talk with her at work a little.
Me: Hey, Regular, have you met Stripper #2?
R: Hi, nice to meet you.
S#2: Nice to meet you too.
more chit chat, then Regular starts talking about a new shot that goes great with coffee.
R: Do you want to try one?
S#2: No I can't, I'm only 20.
R: oh don't worry about it, they know me. Bartender, can you get her a shot?
B: No she's not old enough
R: Well then get one for me
Regular tells S#2 to hand him her coffee under the counter and he pours his shot into her drink and gives it back.
B: Your coffee wasn't that full a minute ago.
S#2: (stammering) yeah it was
B: Did you give her your shot?
R: No, I drank it (and was backed up by a couple guys at the bar)
B: (takes drink away from her) I'm not risking my job, Regular, she's underage
R: Sorry
Now, the only part I had in this was introducing the two of them. Apparently his version of the story is that I practically begged him to buy my friend a drink and he didn't know she was underage. WTF?
Not only this, but the week prior we had been in VIP, he did a few dances with me, and I RAN because I got sick (puking and all). I ended up going home and apologized, he said not to worry and he'd see me later that week. Later that week I very politely reminded him that he never paid up for those dances because I ran out sick. He insisted that he paid me and I was just "too drunk to remember." (which by the way I wasn't, I was buzzed, but not close to drunk)
Since the incident with the other girl he has not taken me back to VIP, he has not bought any dances from me, he has not told other guys to buy dances from me (which is what usually happened if he wasn't going to buy any), he hasn't tipped me, offered to buy me dinner... NOTHING is the same except he still buys my drinks, but he's not usually there when I'm there anymore, so thats not even as often as it used to be.
Part of me doesn't even want to smooth things over because I did absolutely nothing wrong, if anything, he was the one doing wrong. BUT, he was helping my money when things were good, soooooo that part of me wants to smooth things over.
What would you do and how would you go about it?




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