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    What's the best for a black eye cuts and scratches all over my face and chest and my forehead is swollen like the hunchback of notre dame and i'm supposed to have a photoshoot this night and go out of town in a few days!

    I look like straight ghetto trash!

    what's some good make-up tips to help cover the cuts and scratches and black color and what's good to heal it and bring down the puffyness and swelling?


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    If you can get some lavender oil, I would use that most definitely. The oil itself on the scratches and cuts will help them heal much faster. Using a warm, damp compress with the oil MAY help with the swelling, but I can't make any promises. As for the shoot tonight...

    Well, maybe they can do a bit of photoshop after the make up?
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    damn girl! sorry to hear that. i'd say maybe full coverage mac or derma blend to cover the darkness, and any puffiness i get i normally put prep h on (however, that i use for under eyes, don't know if it'd be good for wounds).

    are you ok?

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    maybe you might want to reschedule the shoot.... better to wait than to not be in tip top shape. that's what i would do, anyways.

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    i can't really reschedule because i'm going out of town this week, it's my only chance and i haven't been able to get one in like close to a year now and really want too. =< yea i'll be fine i just wish i had fucked that bitch up rather than let the manager step in though. wtf. well at least i'm not in jail and have my job

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    arnica gel and pellets for the bruises, calendula cream for the cuts and scratches, cold compress for the swelling. Some other stuff you can do: bromelain(pineapple enzyme) supplements for pulled muscles and bruising, about 1/8 tsp cayenne pepper in water will get your blood going an heal you faster, also if you make a cup of really hot strong white tea with a tiny bit of ginger and use it after its cooled as topical treatment; they both have astringent properties. If you are into western medicine(I'm not) advil will help with the swelling as well. None of this will heal you overnight, but it will speed up the healing process. You have my sympathies and I sincerely hope you feel better.

    Notes:
    -do not use arnica gel on an open wound.
    -its totally safe to take arnica & bromelain together.
    -you can add chammomile to a cold compress. Its super gentle and has calming properties.
    -if your cuts are deep, be careful of putting makeup over them. Its just asking for an infection.

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    Just remember that karma is a bitch. I'm sure she'll get hers in the end. For the here and now, however, derma blend works wonders for covering up a variety of things and I have used chamomile compresses to help draw out infections and reduce swelling.

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    Putting makeup on a scratch is really going to delay healing. A LOT. And possibly cause an infection. If they aren't well on their way to healing you really need to consider rescheduling or just canceling the shoot imo. No reason to waste money if you aren't looking your best anyway.
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    did u go to the doctor? i know swelling is a natural reaction to an injury but u still should get it checked out. head injuries can be serious.

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    Guess this is a bit late... but for future reference... When I have scratches/cuts... I use a bit of a green colored makeup before applying concealer foundation... the green helps neutralize the red of the wound.
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    dude what the hell happened? don't forget to keep treating them scars with vitamin e oil to prevent scarring

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    Don't get beaten up! Whatever you did, learn from it.

    I don't think photos are best taken when beaten up. LOL. Makeup and lighting can hide flaws but dayum.

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    I am sorry you got hurt. I hope you can do whatever's needed to take care of yourself.
    That said, I don't know a lot about photos, but I think a swelling would be hard to hide.
    Best to you, take care.


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    Quote Originally Posted by erotictonic View Post
    Don't get beaten up! Whatever you did, learn from it.

    I don't think photos are best taken when beaten up. LOL. Makeup and lighting can hide flaws but dayum.
    Where I live girls just start fights over absoloutly nothing well I guess it usually comes down to jelousy, how is saying 'dont get beaten up' any help lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by bexxx View Post
    Where I live girls just start fights over absoloutly nothing well I guess it usually comes down to jelousy, how is saying 'dont get beaten up' any help lol
    Gawd, I actually got an infraction for saying that.

    I was trying to be funny, I guess someone didn't get it....

    The first sentence was just propagating preventive action. To me it made sense, but I'm learning that sometimes my "sense" is a bit complicated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by erotictonic View Post
    Gawd, I actually got an infraction for saying that.

    I was trying to be funny, I guess someone didn't get it....

    The first sentence was just propagating preventive action. To me it made sense, but I'm learning that sometimes my "sense" is a bit complicated.
    lol what was there to get? I dont think it was complicated, Its just the fact she had just been beaten up and came here looking for help with hiding it then you just said 'dont get beaten up' is just a silly thing to say, and 'learn from it' you cant assume she did anything wrong, she didnt post to be judged lol i thought you just sounded insensitive and if you wanted to be like that then why bother replying.
    But i doubt you meant it to sound like that atall its just you cant tell through a screen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by erotictonic View Post
    Gawd, I actually got an infraction for saying that.
    That is fucking ridiculous.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bexxx View Post
    lol what was there to get? I dont think it was complicated, Its just the fact she had just been beaten up and came here looking for help with hiding it then you just said 'dont get beaten up' is just a silly thing to say, and 'learn from it' you cant assume she did anything wrong, she didnt post to be judged lol i thought you just sounded insensitive and if you wanted to be like that then why bother replying.
    But i doubt you meant it to sound like that atall its just you cant tell through a screen.
    Well, that's what the smiley was for.... hehe.

    I explained myself I think.....

    Yea, if you get beaten up, chances are very good that you contributed, but yea there is that rare chance that someone totally unknown to me is going to just come up and beat me up, thanks for reminding me. I did assume on the side of probability. You are right in the way that it wasn't very sensitive though.

    I don't think anyone posts to be judged, as I said, I was just promoting preventive action, I don't think there were any judgments made, that I can see, such as "don't get beaten up or you're an idiot". That's an example of a judgment.

    The "complicated" remark, I'm not going to bother explaining (because I don't think it will be important for anyone else), but it wasn't meant in a bad way. It was a realization of my own, and probably better off kept to myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by erotictonic View Post
    Well, that's what the smiley was for.... hehe.

    I explained myself I think.....

    Yea, if you get beaten up, chances are very good that you contributed, but yea there is that rare chance that someone totally unknown to me is going to just come up and beat me up, thanks for reminding me. I did assume on the side of probability. You are right in the way that it wasn't very sensitive though.

    I don't think anyone posts to be judged, as I said, I was just promoting preventive action, I don't think there were any judgments made, that I can see, such as "don't get beaten up or you're an idiot". That's an example of a judgment.

    The "complicated" remark, I'm not going to bother explaining (because I don't think it will be important for anyone else), but it wasn't meant in a bad way. It was a realization of my own, and probably better off kept to myself.
    Where I live i guess isnt that nice because there is always groups of girls just picking fights with girls over nothing especially girls more attractive than them however I think theyre all 14-17 years old or something lol so alot of girls grow out of that but I still know women who act like that when theyre drunk it disgusts me but this is in england I dont know what other places are like
    Anyway its not even a big thing i also dont think you deserved an infraction for it I was only pointing out it wasnt very nice to say that in the first place

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    Quote Originally Posted by bexxx View Post
    Where I live i guess isnt that nice because there is always groups of girls just picking fights with girls over nothing especially girls more attractive than them however I think theyre all 14-17 years old or something lol so alot of girls grow out of that but I still know women who act like that when theyre drunk it disgusts me but this is in england I dont know what other places are like
    Anyway its not even a big thing i also dont think you deserved an infraction for it I was only pointing out it wasnt very nice to say that in the first place
    It makes sense. I hope the best for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by erotictonic View Post
    Gawd, I actually got an infraction for saying that.

    I was trying to be funny, I guess someone didn't get it....

    The first sentence was just propagating preventive action. To me it made sense, but I'm learning that sometimes my "sense" is a bit complicated.
    I am appalled by your sense or lack of it. That was a very cruel thing to say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyril View Post
    I am appalled by your sense or lack of it. That was a very cruel thing to say.
    You "think" what I said was cruel (which, if you would read later on in the thread before replying, I explained what that was all about,) but you think what you just said to me wasn't? Hmmmm.....

    Just curious.

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    It is a bit late but ice the area immediately that will keep swelling down. Call the police and file a complaint and then sue to recover your lost wages from the shoot. That is of course if it was not mutual combat. If it was mutual combat wait until after the shoot to have at it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by erotictonic View Post
    Well, that's what the smiley was for.... hehe.

    I explained myself I think.....

    Yea, if you get beaten up, chances are very good that you contributed, but yea there is that rare chance that someone totally unknown to me is going to just come up and beat me up, thanks for reminding me. I did assume on the side of probability. You are right in the way that it wasn't very sensitive though.

    I don't think anyone posts to be judged, as I said, I was just promoting preventive action, I don't think there were any judgments made, that I can see, such as "don't get beaten up or you're an idiot". That's an example of a judgment.

    The "complicated" remark, I'm not going to bother explaining (because I don't think it will be important for anyone else), but it wasn't meant in a bad way. It was a realization of my own, and probably better off kept to myself.
    I think it's ridiculous you got pointed for that. I did wanna say tho, at some clubs you don't really have to do anything at all to get some idiot wanting to fight you. My first club was like this and I narrowly escaped fights a few times...and I barely even spoke to the other girls.

    One drunk-ass came after me, because she was so hammered she mistook me for someone else, another was pissed because I took her customer....an hour after she went into the dressing room, one girl just wanted to look like a badass and beat someone up and I was the smallest person in the club...Some young trashy dancers are just like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    I think it's ridiculous you got pointed for that. I did wanna say tho, at some clubs you don't really have to do anything at all to get some idiot wanting to fight you. My first club was like this and I narrowly escaped fights a few times...and I barely even spoke to the other girls.

    One drunk-ass came after me, because she was so hammered she mistook me for someone else, another was pissed because I took her customer....an hour after she went into the dressing room, one girl just wanted to look like a badass and beat someone up and I was the smallest person in the club...Some young trashy dancers are just like that.
    Ewwwwww..... It happened to me once, at the Paper Doll in Charlotte. I never went back there. I just went and told the manager and he stopped it.

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