How do I sensitively end a long term relationship with a stripper without being abrupt? Additionally, I would like to continue going to the same club.

How do I sensitively end a long term relationship with a stripper without being abrupt? Additionally, I would like to continue going to the same club.





You end a "relationship" with a dancer by not spending money on her anymore. The smart girls will get the hint and move on. The stupid ones may give you a bit of grief over it but that's going to happen regardless of what you say or don't say to them about why you are dropping them.










"never trust a big butt and a smile"-- Bell Biv DeVoe
If you're in your twenties and aren't a liberal, you have no heart. If you're in you're forties and aren't a conservative, you have no brain - Winston Churchill
^^^ He's talked about this in other threads.
"What's a customer to do?"
http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=134995
"Difficult Question"
http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=132848
BTW ... this is a repeat thread to:
"Ending a stripper relationship"
http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=135340
If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.
This is really not as difficult as you keep trying to make it out to be. Just tell her strait up that you're interested in exploring other options.
It's YOUR money and YOUR choice. Spend money on other dancers and she'll get the clue.
Trust me, there are plenty of other ladies who woud gladly accept the $3,000-$4,000 a week that you've been spending on her.
(Aside from the significant sum of money you claim to give her, part of me wonders if she'll be relieved to finally be rid of you.)
If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.





"never trust a big butt and a smile"-- Bell Biv DeVoe
If you're in your twenties and aren't a liberal, you have no heart. If you're in you're forties and aren't a conservative, you have no brain - Winston Churchill





Again??? Dude, you can't eat your cake and have it too. Either tell her you dont want to be her customer and continue to enjoy that club OR take the ballsless way out and go to a new club. This isn't some life altering decision here. Good lord.
And you started yet another thread 4 min later?
http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=135340
Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
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"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be
"I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."










I merged the threads. Thanks for the heads up report, Verf.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.




...put on your best sunday sweatpants, bring a bag of cheetos and say you lost your job. She will understand and will be able to move on with her life.
"Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."
"I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."



Tell her your madly in love with her and you are ready to have a real, meaningful relationship OTC. Just don''t be standing between her and the dressing room when you tell her, or you maybe covered in stiletto tracks.
I can do better than you in a two bit fancy house





Sell your house, your car, and all your possessions, empty your bank account, and give it all to her in cash.





See ..... that's the nice thing about being a strip club patron. If you were dating a gal and just dissapeared ( or in your case ... are around and just don't want to show interest ) that would be pretty shitty ( to not give an explanation and such ). As a customer ...... you can just stop spending / going / whatever.




Oh my gosh this is so true. Don't forget to follow her around the club all night and try and talk to her during all her stage rotations without offering a tip. Standing outside the dressing room/bathroom for half an hour while she tries to get away from you works really well, too.![]()
Yes, I'm real.
^^^ Well if this is the direction he plans on taking, he should also be sure to dump half a bottle of the strongest cologne he has over himself and try to hug her every chance he gets.
If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.





I recommend extensive cosmetic surgery for the OP. If she can't recognise him - problem solved. Relationship over with no hard feelings AND he can continue to go to the same club.
Phil![]()





Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be
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