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    A few months ago, I got smitten by this gorgeous, blond stripper. She had an extremely sweet, innocent, nice girl face. Yet, she had such a sexy body. I had to ask her stripper friend to get her to give me a lap dance. After a lap dance, I talked about church. She told me that some of her friends have been trying to get her to go to church. She than gave me her real name. I disappeared from that strip club for a few months. When I came back there, she remembered my name. She is so sweet. Than one night, she sat down with me and got really excited. She asked me what I was doing for Labor Day weekend. I told her that I was going to a beach party. She said "I want you to invite me". Than she suggested that we exchange phone numbers. I wasn't able to get her number, because she said that she cannot be seen giving out her number, while I am sticking out my cell phone. She than started talking about music. She told me that she wanted to go to a concert with me.

    During the Labor Day weekend, she did not call me. The next week, she told me that some relatives were staying over at her apartment. The momentum seems to be lost. She is spending more and more time talking to other guys in the strip club. She will talk to a guy for at least 15 minutes. Than these guys spend a lot of money when she gives them lap dances. When we do talk, it's about getting me to pay for lap dances. Ever since she suggested going to a concert with her, I have been spending a lot more money on her for tips and lap dances. I know that strippers make money by getting guys to spend large amounts of money on them for lap dances. One minute, she tells me that she wants me to invite her to hang out with my friends. The next minute, she introduces the idea of a lap dance one minute into the conversation.

    I get the feeling that she is playing me in order to get my hard earned money. However, other times she asks me if I know of any parties. She told me that now that her relatives are gone, I can walk around naked in her apartment.

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    Default Re: Things changed after she suggested we hang out outside of the club

    I suggest not going back there until you have read everything you can on this board. Your stripclub experience will be improved, and your confusion will abate.

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    Default Re: Things changed after she suggested we hang out outside of the club

    She has succeeded in her goals. Making you feel that you are special to her and making you think about her constantly, therefore getting you to spend more money. Take Hockeybobby's advice and read around here a bit and all will be clear.
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    Default Re: Things changed after she suggested we hang out outside of the club

    Quote Originally Posted by jensen View Post

    I get the feeling that she is playing me in order to get my hard earned money.
    You are correct...


    Of course, if you like getting dances from her there is nothing wrong with that. Just don't expect any more than that. Personally, I avoid the BS artists nowadays. I don't play games with my money and I don't need an OTC tease to open up my wallet for a dancer. Low pressure and relative lack of BS work fine for me...

    If her approach bugs you then just mover on....
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    Default Re: Things changed after she suggested we hang out outside of the club

    You'll find lots of similar stories if you read through this forum and the blue side. Here's a recent thread which you may find of interest ...

    "Kinda cool story"
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=134967


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    Quote Originally Posted by jensen View Post
    ... She is spending more and more time talking to other guys in the strip club. She will talk to a guy for at least 15 minutes. Than these guys spend a lot of money when she gives them lap dances. ...
    Um, this is her job and what she' supposed to do AT WORK.

    Honestly, it sounds like she's doing a good job of creating a fantasy for you.
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    Default Re: Things changed after she suggested we hang out outside of the club

    jensen, you should be ashamed trying to proselytize her and then later drool over the thought of walking around naked in her apartment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    jensen, you should be ashamed trying to proselytize her and then later drool over the thought of walking around naked in her apartment.

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    I wasn't trying to proselytize her. I wanted to talk about some interests in my life. I wanted to start a conversation. What should I do when I talk to her? Should I just ask her a bunch of interview questions without bothering talking about myself? I've been asking the same safe questions all the time without talking about my interests, because I am worried about what others think of me. I told her that she reminded me of someone I knew from church. I didn't talk about a "relationship with Christ" or how she balances her profession with her religious views. I asked her what church did she go to. We talked about the church that she went to. She didn't mind the conversational topic at all. I also don't know how proselytizing her and drooling over the thought of walking around naked in her apartment is inherently contradictory. Guys who go to church have sexual urges too. Not all guys who go to church are right wing, consverative Bible-thumpers.

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    Default Re: Things changed after she suggested we hang out outside of the club

    ...its a business game. You'll have to learn how to play the game if you want something meaningful out of it and most often you will never win.
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    Default Re: Things changed after she suggested we hang out outside of the club

    Clearly you aren't tipping her enough.

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    Default Re: Things changed after she suggested we hang out outside of the club

    Quote Originally Posted by jensen View Post
    ... Ever since she suggested going to a concert with her, I have been spending a lot more money on her for tips and lap dances. ...
    When non-dancer friends invite you to hang out or to go to a concert do you give them money too? You're mistake is that you are confusing a business transaction with a friendship. Unless of course it is normal for you to pay people to be your friend.

    Try not to get overly offended that you didn't find enough reality in a place that sells fantasy.
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    Default Re: Things changed after she suggested we hang out outside of the club

    Yes, she's playing you. If you still enjoy seeing her in the club and want to get dances from her, go for it, but don't take it seriously when she talks about hanging out outside of the club.
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    Default Re: Things changed after she suggested we hang out outside of the club

    Goodness.
    Why isn't there a gigantic, neon-blinking sticky thread on this forum that addresses this type of question? It sure seems to be asked ALOT.

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    Default Re: Things changed after she suggested we hang out outside of the club

    ^^^No matter how many times, and how many ways it's asked....it's still kinda fun. It's like customer initiation on SWeb.

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    Default Re: Things changed after she suggested we hang out outside of the club

    The reason why this comes up endlessly is that there is a bit of a conflict of interest at play, so I'll try to say it in a nice way that is non-offensive but it remains so.

    When I was a kid we went to Disneyland. Mickey seemed very happy to see me. And in turn, I wanted to go back to Disneyland to see Mickey again. I was sure Mickey really liked us kids and everything about Disneyland was magical.

    Now of course I grew up and out of Mickey, but had I got it in my head that Mickey really wanted to be my friend in real life then there would have been a problem. I would have had to find out that Mickey is just some teenager wearing a big suit, and maybe that Mickey doesn't even really like kids all that much.

    Disneyland doesn't hand out fliers or put up signs... "Hey kids, be aware when Mickey smiles and waves at you it's all an act, a show, to get you to spend more money at Disneyland" Even if Disneyland started a forum to discuss things Disney, those who work as actors in Disneyland have some conflict of interest between telling you "we don't really like you" and wanting you to believe they do because if everyone really knew what they really think and feel, you/we/us might stop going to Disneyland and they would be out of a job.

    So there you go... the Disney analogy of SCs - make sense now jensen?
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    Jensen, a SC is all about the fantasy. Go in spend your money on whatever dancer you find attractive. Enjoy your time with her and remember to leave your heart and emotions at the door as you leave.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigmarv View Post
    Jensen, a SC is all about the fantasy. Go in spend your money on whatever dancer you find attractive. Enjoy your time with her and remember to leave your heart and emotions at the door as you leave.
    Actually I think it'd be better not to even bring your heart and emotions in the club in the first place, but that's easier said than done.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xdamage View Post
    The reason why this comes up endlessly is that there is a bit of a conflict of interest at play, so I'll try to say it in a nice way that is non-offensive but it remains so.

    When I was a kid we went to Disneyland. Mickey seemed very happy to see me. And in turn, I wanted to go back to Disneyland to see Mickey again. I was sure Mickey really liked us kids and everything about Disneyland was magical.

    Now of course I grew up and out of Mickey, but had I got it in my head that Mickey really wanted to be my friend in real life then there would have been a problem. I would have had to find out that Mickey is just some teenager wearing a big suit, and maybe that Mickey doesn't even really like kids all that much.

    Disneyland doesn't hand out fliers or put up signs... "Hey kids, be aware when Mickey smiles and waves at you it's all an act, a show, to get you to spend more money at Disneyland" Even if Disneyland started a forum to discuss things Disney, those who work as actors in Disneyland have some conflict of interest between telling you "we don't really like you" and wanting you to believe they do because if everyone really knew what they really think and feel, you/we/us might stop going to Disneyland and they would be out of a job.

    So there you go... the Disney analogy of SCs - make sense now jensen?
    This analogy is both hilarious and apt.

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