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    Dizzy Awkward...my boyfriends roommate tried to kiss me

    So I really wouldnt call it a "boyfriend". Im going through a divorce right now and I really dont want a boyfriend. I told him I wasnt ready to call it a relationship but we have agreed to date and mess around exclusively. I have really strong feelings for him and he tells me that he is in love with me and will wait.

    So, I went out of town for a project recently. His roommate happened to be working in the same town and we ended up staying at the same hotel. I try to be nice to all of his friends and his roommate has gone out with us before to eat/clubbing.

    So we were hanging out outside talking and went in my room and continued the conversation. I pried for a little information about my "guy friend" and the conversation shifted to when I had gotten angry at him and stopped talking to him for about a month and a 1/2.

    I ended up finding out that my guy friend had been lying to me AGAIN about his past. The roomate told me that a person came looking for him for 3 years of back child support. He broke probation for a DWI he got awhile back. AND the girl he told me that he never dated, he happened to live with for 6 months before I met him. Oh, and she moved in next door. I had stopped talking to him for awhile because he lied about HAVING a kid among other things.

    THEN the coversation goes like this

    Roommate: I like you
    Me: Thanks I like you too. I like all of "insert guys friends name" friends.
    Roomate: No, I REALLY like you, Iv always had feelings for you.
    Me:*Awkward silence"
    Roomate:*moves over to where Im sitting and goes in for a kiss*
    Me:*pushes him away, stands up* I cant do that, your his best friend
    Roomate:We wont tell him
    Me:No, I cant do that
    *Awkward silence*
    Me:So Im going to get ready for bed now, I'll see you later. *Gives awkward friend hug and pat on the back* Lets not talk about this ok?
    Roomate:Never happened

    I changed hotels...
    SO I want to keep things going with my guy friend until I catch him in the lie(s). I dont really see any point in telling him what his friend did. Should I? Its going to be pretty akward going to his apartment because they live together and I sleep over there sometimes. But I also thought, maybe his friend is lying to try to sleep with me...

    Any Advice?

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    Default Re: Awkward...my boyfriends roommate tried to kiss me

    Ripley: I say we take off and nuke the entire site from orbit. It's the only way to be sure. .....

    That's a mess you've got right there. For your own sanity, get away from it all. Remember what you learned in kindergarten...."boys are stupid".

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    Default Re: Awkward...my boyfriends roommate tried to kiss me

    /threadjack
    Get away from her you BITCH!
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    Default Re: Awkward...my boyfriends roommate tried to kiss me

    Whatever your dating particulars are now I suggest adding a few subtle Ideas.

    Add ten years to your dates age. Been dating 21s try the 31s.

    Try Men without a criminal record, not just because they haven't been caught.

    Never date a guy you meet in a place that serves alcohol.

    Like credit cards, verify employment.

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    Default Re: Awkward...my boyfriends roommate tried to kiss me

    Well ......... find out if your guy is lying first and go from there. You just don't know until you find out ! Dump him if ANYTHING sleezy is going on.

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    Default Re: Awkward...my boyfriends roommate tried to kiss me

    Quote Originally Posted by 2fly4awhiteguy View Post
    I ended up finding out that my guy friend had been lying to me AGAIN about his past. The roomate told me that a person came looking for him for 3 years of back child support. He broke probation for a DWI he got awhile back. AND the girl he told me that he never dated, he happened to live with for 6 months before I met him. Oh, and she moved in next door. I had stopped talking to him for awhile because he lied about HAVING a kid among other things.
    Sounds like three strikes to me. Why are you even with a guy that keeps lying to you?
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    Default Re: Awkward...my boyfriends roommate tried to kiss me

    ^ Maybe I didn't catch some things. Yeah ...... if he is lying..........ditch him. Honesty is pretty basic. People make mistakes ( he should admit to them instead of lying ) .

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    Default Re: Awkward...my boyfriends roommate tried to kiss me

    Honestly, I think you need to step back and re-evaluate your own position in life right now. Seeing someone exclusively, asking for exclusive physical relationship, BUT you're not his girlfriend? What exactly does that mean?? Sounds like you're in a bad place right now, and you're only going to attract people that are going to feed that. What rights are you expecting as his, what? fuck-buddy? What kind of disclosure are you wanting while not wanting to commit?

    You're looking for a pseudo-relationship and want to be able to shrug it off at a moment's notice. Get out, and spend some time healing. Ask yourself the tough questions. Are you just afraid to be alone right now? Are you purposefully going for someone you KNOW won't end well? Be tough with yourself and don't let yourself off without some real answers.
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    Default Re: Awkward...my boyfriends roommate tried to kiss me

    Quote Originally Posted by 2fly4awhiteguy View Post
    SO I want to keep things going with my guy friend until I catch him in the lie(s).

    Any Advice?
    Don't waste your time like that. You know he is a liar, so what more do you need to know? You don't gain anything by catching him in a lie, except the chance he'll convince you the roomate made it all up to win you from him. But you already know that is crap because you said it wasn't the first time - and these are big lies - so cut your losses and move on.

    Note the two-for-one: roomate problem solved.

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    Default Re: Awkward...my boyfriends roommate tried to kiss me

    Quote Originally Posted by 2fly4awhiteguy View Post
    I ended up finding out that my guy friend had been lying to me AGAIN about his past.
    So he lied to you about his past before?
    Dump him.
    You aren't even dating this guy and he's already lying to you... plus he seems like a total loser. Why are you wasting your time?
    Go find a fuck-buddy who isn't surrounded by drama and lies... fuck-buddies are supposed to be relaxing... not stressful. That's what actual boyfriends are for.
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    hahaha!

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