So I really wouldnt call it a "boyfriend". Im going through a divorce right now and I really dont want a boyfriend. I told him I wasnt ready to call it a relationship but we have agreed to date and mess around exclusively. I have really strong feelings for him and he tells me that he is in love with me and will wait.
So, I went out of town for a project recently. His roommate happened to be working in the same town and we ended up staying at the same hotel. I try to be nice to all of his friends and his roommate has gone out with us before to eat/clubbing.
So we were hanging out outside talking and went in my room and continued the conversation. I pried for a little information about my "guy friend" and the conversation shifted to when I had gotten angry at him and stopped talking to him for about a month and a 1/2.
I ended up finding out that my guy friend had been lying to me AGAIN about his past. The roomate told me that a person came looking for him for 3 years of back child support. He broke probation for a DWI he got awhile back. AND the girl he told me that he never dated, he happened to live with for 6 months before I met him. Oh, and she moved in next door. I had stopped talking to him for awhile because he lied about HAVING a kid among other things.
THEN the coversation goes like this
Roommate: I like you
Me: Thanks I like you too. I like all of "insert guys friends name" friends.
Roomate: No, I REALLY like you, Iv always had feelings for you.
Me:*Awkward silence"
Roomate:*moves over to where Im sitting and goes in for a kiss*
Me:*pushes him away, stands up* I cant do that, your his best friend
Roomate:We wont tell him
Me:No, I cant do that
*Awkward silence*
Me:So Im going to get ready for bed now, I'll see you later. *Gives awkward friend hug and pat on the back* Lets not talk about this ok?
Roomate:Never happened
I changed hotels...
SO I want to keep things going with my guy friend until I catch him in the lie(s). I dont really see any point in telling him what his friend did. Should I? Its going to be pretty akward going to his apartment because they live together and I sleep over there sometimes. But I also thought, maybe his friend is lying to try to sleep with me...
Any Advice?



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